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Raymond, Cornelia M. Diary, 1895

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1895
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Short entries in a page a day format. Raymond describes her consistent participation in religious life through prayer meetings, religious lectures, and encouragement of others to renounce vices (particularly alcohol and smoking) and proclaim their Christian faith. Illnesses, depressive episodes ("the blues"), and deaths afflict Raymond and her close friends. Raymond references giving music lessons, singing in choir, participating in the Salvation Army, and supporting the College Settlement project. Raymond briefly mentions the Democratic nomination of Horatio King as Secretary of State (Sep 26), her support for women's suffrage (Nov 5), and the election results in New York City that "went Tammany" [Democratic] despite the Republican votes that "swept the country" (Nov 6).
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: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895003
.49
Cornelia M. Raymond
from Will Carrington.
Vol. XI

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895004
Xmas presents.

Mother Clock
" Purse
Minnie Rich. Diary
Ruth Raymond Shoe ....
Bertha Richardson Candlestick
Will Richardson Photograph
Winifred Richardson Lampshade
Ruth Richardson "Mrs. Piper"
Frank Richardson P... ...
Mrs. Porter - Stamped paper
Mr. Porter - Pencil & silver top
Mrs. Packard "Let us Draw Nigh"
Clara Reed "Old Love ..."
" " Photograph
Edith Brooks "
" " "Pussy Willows"
E & R. R... Silver scissors
Edith H... Silver purse
Adele Buffington. Little book
Gertrude Burlegh Photograph
Bessie Miller. Paper cutter
B...Lilienthal Orange apron
Stella Hitchcock Calendar (silver)
Rob Bliss Calendar
Will Todd Silver penholder
Bertha Robbin Pen-tray.
Pauline Day Silver ...
Mr & Mrs Griffin ... pin
House photo

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895037
Mrs. Palmer was here sewing for Minnie.
The girls went to receive young men at
the Y.M.C.A. Will did not like it. Mother
& I called at the Aldridges & saw Fannie
for the first time since Duncan's death.
Saw Dar and Clara. Then Mother & I went
to the Institute lecture, by Geo. Parsons
Lathrop on St. Francis of Assissi. He is
a Romanist Y believes in the visions &
stigmata. I had a nice letter from Ray.
He seems to be a Christian.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895038
Called on Marg Thurston &
Mary Sharpe. The latter was
out.but later called on me.
Mrs. Stephen's dress came home
($15.00) & I like it very much.
Bertha, Mother, & I staid home;
the others went to Pilgrim's
Progress. I wrote letters.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895039
Mother & I bought a silk waist & cloth for waist.
Called on Sallie & saw Alfred's portrait. I called
at Clara's & got her picture & the girls'. Took
lunch with Aunt Susan. Kittie has the grippe.
Got my new glasses. This evening, all the family
but Frank went to the Healy reception. Met Ros,
Sallie & M... Schieren. I wore my new dark dress.
I wrote to Stella Hitchcock, Laura Mitchell, &
Fannie Bates.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895040
Mrs. Palmer is here. I went shopping, then to
Mrs. Dixon's. Read aloud to Minnie. Wrote to
Will Todd. Ruth called. Charlie Richardson
came in while we were at dinner & later read us
3 congenial stories "1919", his Czar story &
... story. So Min. & I did not go to prayer
meeting. Mrs. Palmer altered my red silk waist.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895041
Mrs. Palmer sewed for Bertha. I wrote to Amy Hopsen,
Blanche Hastings & Edith Holmes. Mrs. Dixon tried on
my waist. Mother, Ruth Ray, Minnie & I went to
Nannie Schust's reception, in spite of Aunt Lill's
being here. In the evening I went to Japanese
"teapot" with Minnie & the girls. I heard Mr. Dixon,
Mr. Robinson, Mr. Needham & Stereopticon views of Japan.
fine supper cooked by Happy Joe. Saw a terribly
intoxicated man in the st. I will pray for him.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895042
A.M. Mr. Needham. ... 3:2
P.M. Mr. Dixon J... 14:6
It rained very hard so we could
not go to Sallie's. Was this to
show that I ought not to go?
Communion.
Prof. Froelich came to dinner & walked
home after evening church. I taught
Will's class
Mr. Dixon J... 14:6.
"I am the Way"
A Living Way
A narrow way
A plain way
A safe way.
An endless way.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895043
Mrs. Dennis shampooed my hair.
Called on Ruth & Mary Sharpe.
Both out. ... letter from
Prof. Seymour about Father &
Ralph's scholarship.
Attended 1st meeting of Mr.
Needham's conferences on
Holy Spirit in Lafayette Pres. Ch.
Called on Lily Healy.
Wrote to Marg Thayer.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895044
Wrote to Fannie R..., & to Mr. W. A. White
about Ralph. Called on Ruth & Mrs. Hudson.
Call from Mary Sharpe.
Left N.Y. at 4 P.M.
Lucy Skinner came with me.
Maud Kellar probably will not return.
Miss Leverich has just come.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895045
School opened. ... Burley has entered.
Rec'd letter-opener from Mrs. Griffin.
All the teachers but me went to hear
Mr. B... & see Schools exhibit.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895046
Very sleety day, & I thought I should be kept from
meeting, but I went after taking Miss Leverich to
Miss Hills.
Mr. Hahn scolded the church hard for ...
R... walked home & talked over his exp...

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895047
Irene Rothschild is 17.
Gave her progress... games
party. I played & there were
2 card games. I played.
Grace Grey did not.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895048
Miss Leverich & I hunted up Dr. Gulick.
Walking terrible. Went to 153 Westminster St.,
to his house opp. new Training School. Begged
ride in cart back to School for C. Workers
found him & Dr. Poole.
Miss Skinner & I had photos taken.
P.M. 3 music lessons
Eve. Miss Leverich is teaching girls games.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895049
A.M. Dr. ...
Value of Routine Oper.
Mr. White writes that Ralph may have
1/2 of his tuition at Polytechnic.
Gertrude White's father died
last night.
R... gave me a photograph of
Capt. Carrigan & Lieut.
Capt. Hull & wife were at the
meeting.
Tyler was there & I followed him out twice.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895050
Rec'd Loan Acs. money 12.80.
Reeve writes that Tyler wants
me to forgive the way he spoke
to me.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895051
Walking Delegate ... ... ...

Leslie's 8th lesson. 30th treatment.
Analysis class. Rec'd proofs of my photos.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895052
There is a great Brooklyn Trolley car strike.
Very sunny. Miss Leverich played games with
the girls.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895053
Leslie's 9th lesson.
Wonderful prayer-meeting.
Reese & Tyler were there.
Mr. Hahn preached an awful
sermon on the need of the
Holy Spirit in our church.
This was followed by prayer
When we knelt, then solemn
confessions & pledges. Young
Mr. Bugbee & others asked
prayers. Tyler rushed out.
At the close of meeting, he
returned to ask my forgiveness
& I left him with Reese Y the pastors.
It was then 9:30 too late for my
treatment.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895054
Reese writes that Tyler was led to Christ last night.
Through the night I prayed for the Holy Spirit.
Girls had an auction & I was auctioneer.
I find that I am expected to go to a concert
next Thursday. I spoke to Miss P. & Lena
Lena said I need not go, but Miss Porter
wishes it. God will help me do right.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895055
Leslie's 10th lesson. Call from Mrs. Capt. Moore.
Read in Kidd's Social Evolution. At 12 I took
31st treatment.
Sleigh-ride with girls to Chicopee Falls.
Lucy Skinner went to spend Sunday at
East Hampton.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895056
A happy day because I believed Jesus would keep me & help me do right.
I Peter 4:12.13.
Lovely S.A. lesson on Regeneration.
Dr. M... Matt.3:1
Repentance. Condition
Self Investigation C...
Went with Judge Dewey's class.
At S. A. M... was acting horribly.
I asked him to be quiet & he was,
but his talk with me was not
satisfactory. Saw Smith, ...,
Martin, & a young man who couldn't
give up the theater Reese walked
home with us. He has been staying
with Tyler. I talked with Lena
about the concert & she agrees with
me. Praised God! Irene has gone home

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895057
No letter from Mother.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895058
No letter from Mother.
Leslie's 11th lesson.
32nd treatment.
Ladies' prayer meeting in
Baptist Church.
Called on Capt. & Mrs. Hull & took
$1.00. Miss P. went to hear Lena
speak to girls friendly.
I went to Jennie Barrows on
errand & met Uncle G...

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895059
Miss P. Lena & Miss Leverich
went to hear Dr. Rice.
I had a long talk with Miss P.
before Mr. P. & Mrs. Packard
about the concert-prayer-meeting
question. ... weakened; then
Lena upheld me.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895060
Franklin is sick, Lena can't go to concert,
so I gave up my meeting. I am so disappointed.
& grieved, & heartsick.
Leslie's 12 lesson.
33rd treatment.
Met Cameron smoking
He seems discouraged.
Heard Stavenhager & Gerard.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895061
Letter from Cameron.
Went to beautiful meeting. &
learned that Reese gave his
experience last night.
Mr. Hahn said I did right.
He & Mr. Newhall speak most
cordially of Reese. Reese told
the Standing Com. about me.
Miss Leverich & I called on
the Buckinghams.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895062
Bad walking.
Leslie 13th lesson.
34th treatment at 6:30.
My teeth & mouth are
aching badly.
Read Kidd's Social
Evolution.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895063
Oh! such a day! I have seen Reeve
baptized, heard him speak, seen
Tyler throw away a packet full
of cigarettes, & heard him ask
prayers in meeting. I left
Cameron to talk with Mr. Hahn.
Mr. Hahn has given up smoking!!
Wrote to Cousin Lizzie

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895064
Went to Dr. H...
He lanced my ulcer & medicated
tooth.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895065
Letter from Reeve advising me
not to argue with Geo. Tyler.
He told T. not to fool with me.
Tyler was about to write to me
& then smoke. I went to Dr.
H... Did not give Leslie a
lesson.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895066
Franklin is sick; just escaped
spinal meningitis.
Cameron writes that he
is a Christian.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895067
In prayer-meeting, Reeve,
Cameron, & Tyler all spoke
& ... I barely spoke to
T. & R. but Cameron got out.
I told R. I should want to
talk with him later.
Miss P. does not wish me
out to-morrow eve so I
refused Rose ...'s
invitation to supper.
35th treatment.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895068
Girls had guessing party.
I rec'd a prize - a
blotter.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895069
Leslie's 15th lesson.
36th treatment at 6:30
Went to Dr. H...
Began Ascent of Man.
Taught little B...
Esther ...'s father
is here.
Julie Ray is engaged.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895070
Mr. Hahn. Rom. 5.11.
"Joy" Reeve was rec'd
into church.
At S. Army, I took Mr.
Stine to penitent from
Cap. told me he thought
Reeve was trhing to keep
me out of the Army!
I poured out to Lena &
Mr. Mattice.
Reeve walked home with me &
talked about Tyler & the way
the Army was treating him.
Harlan sent me my certificate
of stock.
Wrote to Cameron & Reeve
S. Army boy brought me a
note from Tyler who is sick.
Esther Weather's father
here.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895071
Lucy Skinner has symptoms of grippe.
Bessie Moon came to-day, but has
gone home again.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895072
Bitter cold!
Leslie's 16th lesson.
Called on Mrs. R...
with Miss Leverich to
tell her about Rachel's
writing her name on the
... with a boy's.
Mother & Bertha are ill &
Will acts as he did before
going to Bermuds.
Lucy in bed to-day.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895073
Rec'd my photos. Letter from Reeve in
answer to mine. He is well saved.
Says I have been a great help to
him. This is day of fasting and
prayer for our church.
Lucy Skinner is better.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895074
Letter from Mother,
wishing me to come home
to-morrow as She has
chills. Of course I
cannot go.
Went to prayer-meeting
alone. The subject was
"No Condemnation." Reeve
met me and said that Tyler
was off again. He was mad
at what the Capt. said to
Reeve. Reeve walked home
with me, in a blinding
storm & gave me some
copper from his Vermont
mine.
Leslie's 17th lesson.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895075
Very stormy. We gave up the
concert & Edith Longstreet
is not going home. This
evening the girls told
ghost stories.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895076
Very full day.
Breakfast.
9.10 Leslie's 18th lesson.
11.-2.30 Miss Leverich & I
did shopping.
3. Walked with girls.
4-5. Made accounts.
5-6. Julie Trumbell's &
Russel's lessons.
6.30 37th treatment.
8.15. Beatrix's lesson.

I met Page on the car-
he had put his hat band
in his pocket.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895077
Dr. Nixon. Matt. 15:23.
S. S. class.
Talked with Edith Longstreet
about her spiritual condition.
Discouraging time at Army.
Capt. was nice to me & asked
me on the platform so I sat
there. I got tickets from him.
Steve was very rude.
Mr. D... thinks I ought to
be in the Army. Mr. Donnelly
asked whether I thought he
could begin over.
Reeve walked home with me.
We talked of Tyler & the Capt.
Reeve says he does not care
for Mary Whitlock. He said as
we went out "I have so much
to tell you." Oh, do I help
or harm him?

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895078
Went shopping for the girl's
entertainment.
Worked till after one on
reports & lessons.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895079
Left periodical class in the middle
to make up Prof. Guillet's book.
Worked till after one.
Lucy had a cold
letter from Allen.
Leslie's 19th lesson.
38th treatment.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895080
Dr. Bowles died yesterday.
Porters sent a letter from
Mamie Todd.
Anna can't keep servants.
G... Aldrich is engaged
to Jack H...

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895081
Leslie's 20th lesson.
39th treatment.
Went to prayer-meeting.
Mr. Hahn talked about
"Continuance." After
meeting, I suppose Reeve
was coming home with us,
but Mrs. Packard was there.
He handed me a note from
Tyler but advised me not
to read. He had written
on it "Read the other first."
... W. Reeve. What can it
mean?

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895082
No letter from Reeve yet.
Went with Miss Porter & Lena
to an afternoon tea (violet)
at Mrs. Hollbrooks. Sat up
stairs with the baby to-night.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895083
No letter from Reeve.
Took C... down town.
Attended a lecture in
Mc Duffie cottage by
Lillie Chase Wyman on
"Story of Dido & Virgil's
Relations to Christian
Thought."
Bah!
Mary Wells brother is here.
Sallie Russel went home for
the rest of the year, Violet
to Boston, Esther to the
hotel. (That was Friday)
Mother writes that Will
fainted, cut his eye. It is
from his bleeding piles &
he must have an operation.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895084
Tues. Feb. 19
An awful day! Rec'd
a letter from Reeve
that almost broke
my heart. He loves me
& I cannot bear it!
Went down with Miss King
& met Violet.
Leslie's 22nd lesson.
40th treatment.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895085
Very blue about S. Army work.
Wrote to Reeve.
Nice letter from Emma Whitemore.
Practiced Capriccio with Mr. Strong.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895086
Sund. Feb.17.
Rev. D.N. Beach.
Mark, 10:17-21.

At S.A. Army, Stone
apologised for his
rudeness. Reeve said
he asked me to keep
the letter fearing I
would be discouraged!
Tyler was there & I
just spoke to him.
I feel a sense of coolness
between my old boys & me.
Coming home with me Reeve
told me his troubles:
Tyler's wanting to run
away & the men in his work
making fun of him. He has
fallen back a little, but
I hope I helped him a little.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895087
Felt terribly depressed all day,
but rec'd a most cheerful letter
from Reeve & that cheers me.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895088
Played Mendelsohn Capriccio with Mr. Strong.
Went to reception for Mrs. Olmsted's daughters.
Prayer-meeting. Reeve was there. Mr. Newhall
spoke beautifully of him. We walked home & he
is willing to wait yrs. for me. He only asks
me to watch him & see whether he is worthy of
me. His last words were."But you will let me
walk home with you." He says age has nothing
to do with it & I can make him a happy home.
Bessie Skinner came to-night.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895089
We heard the grand old General to-night.
They say he seemed confused in the afternoon
meeting, but when we heard him he was truly
eloquent & very witty. I also saw Ballington
Booth for the first time.
Emma Dresser is here.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895090
Leslie's 23rd lesson.
41st treatment at 3 P.M.
Miss Robeson helped me
lots. She thinks Reeve
will recover, and that
I can continue to help
him.
Went with Mary Wells &
Emma Dresser to Gill's
Art Exhibition.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895091
Felt much depressed till I had talked
with Reeve.
Prof. Harris
Relating to poorer people
Need not invite them to our
drawing rooms, but make them
feel our sympathy.
I am reading ... & Lucy Smith.
Miss Leverich sat in my room
before dinner & rubbed me.
I felt depressed at S.A. but
I had a nice encouraging talk
with Mr. D... Then Reeve was
there & he came home with me.
He is so good. He has agreed
to drop it all & be my best
friend Showed be a photo of him
when he came to America alone
aged 11.
Letter from Cousin L. Kissie
Bayless is dead & business part of
H... ...

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895092
Wea. Mon. Feb. 25, 1895 Ther.
I have felt weak and tired. Programme is [diayed]. Leslie's 24th lesson. [...] to Mises Stove.
Gave Beatrix a music lesson.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895093
Wea. Tues. Feb 26, 1895
Miss P. attended Cora Buckland's funeral. I stayed in. [Lesey] had a letter from Allen saying he is ill. [...] class.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895094
Wea. Wed. Feb 27, 1895 Ther.
Leslie 25th lesson
42nd treatment.
Very tired. This is Ash Wednesday, but I have not observed it.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895095
Wea. Thurs. Feb. 28, 1895 Ther
Began music lessons. Prayer [meeting]. I came home with Ms. [Paekad] but Reese went to the dry store across the street with me!

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895096
Wea Fri. March 1, 1895 Ther.
Went a 2nd time to Jill's Art Ex. and saw Mr. Haulee's [pielin] of Scott and [Burns]. Call from Emma [Holp]. She wants to go to S.A. Violet an I went [...] to meet Miss Verhoff Vassar, 97. [...] of Nellie Semple.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895097
Wea Sat. March 2, 1895
Leslie's 26th lesson. Letter from Reese saying he was mad at Ms. Waite.
Book hotel and Miss Verhoff too [Gills.]

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895098
Wea. Sun. March 3, 1895 Ther.
A.M. took girls to [Ciemrrirmin]
Mr. Neerhall Col: 3:1-3.
Reese was [...] and [hulf] [...] us to speak to Ms. Waite till he saw me. Deathly sick [...] but went to S.A. Reese in a bad state. Says he shall learn [...] in books. I finally got him in a better state of mind. Emma [Holp] went with me. Smith was there [...]. Reese [...] [...] with me. Went to bed early with headache. Marnie is sick.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895099
Wea. Mon. March 4, 1895
[Lovely] letter from Reese. He and Ms. W. have made up. [...] [Nig] told the lie.
Leslie's 27th lesson.
43rd treatment. [Cullid] on Ms. Baldwin (act) Ms. Stufle (act) and Margaret Ms. Bartholomew (saw Dr. B., Ms. Carmichael and Ms. Baldwin.
Ms. Feten and Helen (act) Emme Hodge.

 


: VCLDiariesRaymondCorneliaM1895100
Wea. Tues. March 5, 1895 Ther.
Miss P. went with Lena to girls Faculty.
Letter from [...]. Hill is still in overnight [...].