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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, Mar. 17, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: March 17, 1872
Text: Vassar College. March 17. 1872. My dear Parents) Daily hare I look for a letter from you in answer to my inquiries about going home, but have been thus far disappointed, however by this time next week 1 suppose all matters will be settled and X w£U be in great excitement, with the hopes of starting for 3300 the following Wednesday. And when X get there I have some thing to ask you which X could not think of putting on paper for X dont think X can write with nearly so much effect. This last...
Show moreVassar College. March 17. 1872. My dear Parents) Daily hare I look for a letter from you in answer to my inquiries about going home, but have been thus far disappointed, however by this time next week 1 suppose all matters will be settled and X w£U be in great excitement, with the hopes of starting for 3300 the following Wednesday. And when X get there I have some thing to ask you which X could not think of putting on paper for X dont think X can write with nearly so much effect. This last word puts me in mind of an Essay X wrote yesterday and which as been distressing me for the longest while, (vis) What kind of prose composition has the most effect upon man kind fc Why. X took fiction because most read- I dont know how this will coincide with your ideas upon the subject. On Friday evening of this week as we had a lecture from Mr. Parsons - on Michael Angelo, Chapter Beta would not be able to give her long looked for "swell" Opera of "The Doctor of Alcanlaia" (which if youremember we heard at the 7*^ Street Theatre by Mr Ghilehirst and Bishop he) To this Chapter asked the Sophomore if they would be will- ing to have a Candy pull in the Steward's Department the next night instead of their usual sociable so that the wonderful opera might have the Kail This the Sophs- agreed upon and so Zeta flourished never was the Hall so full in fact packed. I sat about in the middle of the room Mar. 17, 1872 - 2 and so tightly packad that I could hardly stir- when Liaxie asked me how X should feel If there should be a fire imagine my comfort. All the Invited guests and not the admitted without theirtickets- All the ; ; J u ; , , i i ' ■ , . , ;'. ' I , ' , 1 ; , profs, every teacher together with the Pres fc lady prin- were present. The principal performers were greatly applauded and were showed with tit } , ',' .' t ' ■ t 1 i flowers from the audience — This Opera- cannot not be compared • ' * i < ; I l ' . ' J " v 1 ■ ' , i I ' with our Drama The Lady of Lyons - being so entirely different Neither could they have been visa versa for Beta has the Singers and Alpha - excels in dramatic tallent.—— Do tell Aunt Pattie for me that X Intended writing to her to day but find it now impossible so that X will have the pleasure of seeing her before my next letter With lov~ to all believe me Aff- Daughter Lucy Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75March 17th, 1872 Lucy Sellers Re an Essay on what kind of prose has the greatest effect on mankind
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to mother, Jun. 9, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: June 9, 1872
Text: Vassar, Under the woods under trees. Sunday afternoon June 9. 1872. My dear Parents; In the noon matt yesterday I received letters from both of you much to my delight as I could not bear to have the week pass with out them. Last Friday evening we had a chapter meeting for the nomination of officers* which are to be voted upon next week—I was put up for secretary but have no idea that I shall ever fill that office... I will however be better able to tell you after that time. Saturday the...
Show moreVassar, Under the woods under trees. Sunday afternoon June 9. 1872. My dear Parents; In the noon matt yesterday I received letters from both of you much to my delight as I could not bear to have the week pass with out them. Last Friday evening we had a chapter meeting for the nomination of officers* which are to be voted upon next week—I was put up for secretary but have no idea that I shall ever fill that office... I will however be better able to tell you after that time. Saturday the Sophomore fe Juniors were all pretty busy— The Sophs,on a account of the party given to the Frosh- and the Juniors on account of the same - for the Seniors- Just before Chapel some of us were privileged to see the College Parlors which the Juniors had fixed ap for their entertainment. Really I never saw them look so lovely- before -They For the first time since the college was furnished took home Ctct down the old pictures of Mr. Vassar's home &ct. and in their place had some of the handsomest pictures In college. They had two harps made of flowers beside ever so many large boquets &ct. In the center of the two rooms they had large balls of ferns- Then too they had the grand piano from the Presidents house in there— All the faculty were invited and from all accounts they had a splendid time— In room J. which opens Into the parlors — they had their table. It was all fixed up too— They had hot & cold supper both and very even allowed wine, just think of that for Yassar. About 3 o'clock we, the Sophs & Fresh- went over to the Gymnasium were we were rec'd. by Miss Cushlng president of the Sophs. From the minute I entered the hall I knew I would have a splendid time for immediately upon entering the room we were handed printed programs lor dancing and upon the plantform sat two musicians besides the pianist I could not keep my feet still— the music was so splendid. The Soph were Just as attentive as could be and did every tfrfag they could to make us enjoy our selves. In Hie society hall refreshments were served from 8.30 - 9.30 The table was set along the platform - which !s very low- and in the room small tables were set which held two or three- Several of the Sophs were waitress and looked too pretty for anything they all wore white and on their shoulders long streamers of the College colors... After we danced a long while we sang College songs accompanied by the music- ft was Just splendid and I dont think I ever enjoyed my self more since I have been in College. We stayed up until nearly twelve. . how is that for Vaasar? I hope next year we the class of '75 my make it as pleasant for '76 as '74 has for us. Yesterday Immediately after dinner we had our class elections- which resulted as follows- Miss Lough - pres. Miss Kellog Vice Pres.- Miss Buffington Sec- Miss Hollister Trea. I don't suppose I need reiterate about our rooms la this letter as no doubt you have received my last telling you the decision and when I get hold of you I am going to ask for some thing real elegant for my room because you know I will be here for three years after this- some thing perfectly lovely. This morning I was in Sue's room and she wanted to know that ti Saliie Herman came to our house whether she might come up to Vassar with you- as Mrs Herman cannot come up- and Victors is coming with 3 or 4 young gentlemen so that it would not be pleasant for either part if she came with him-- X know you would only be happy of her company but Sue insisted upon my asking you the question— X have been able to get tickets for Auntie and Howard. As yet I am unable to inform you as to "Original sir &ct— but will endeavor to find cut who wrote it— Affec- & loving Lucy- Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75Mrs. John Sellers Jr 3300 Arch Street West Phila Penn @
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to Howard, Sep. 21, 1870:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: Sep. 21, 1870
Text: Vassar College September 21st, 1870 Dear Howard- I received your very Interesting note the other morn- ing while I was studying my latin but as I now have graduated from school and entered College- I had an opportunity to read it as soon as I got It, for so long as we know our lessons It makes no difference when we learn them. It seems so funny to me that we do not go to school at 9 o'clock and sit at our desks until two. All the time I have a teacher with me Is when I recite my lessons-...
Show moreVassar College September 21st, 1870 Dear Howard- I received your very Interesting note the other morn- ing while I was studying my latin but as I now have graduated from school and entered College- I had an opportunity to read it as soon as I got It, for so long as we know our lessons It makes no difference when we learn them. It seems so funny to me that we do not go to school at 9 o'clock and sit at our desks until two. All the time I have a teacher with me Is when I recite my lessons- the first which is algebra I say at 10 1/2 o'clock and when It Is over I go back to my room and do as I please until twelve and then I say my latin which I get through with just In time for my dinner and at I say another latin lesson for lam studying It double hard this year. Every day we have the greatest fun at the table about eating, for we all like tho brown bread so much bettor than while and we keep the poor girl on the go the whole time, and the fun of it Is that she can't save her steps and bring a great quantity at once for she Is only allowed just so much. At dinner all of us try and guess what we are going to have for dessert but we very rarely guess right for they have tho queerest things that I never hoard of before such as whole peaches with the skins on made up in a great big pie in a dish about a foot deep. The old girls say that Is nothing to equal tho "Yellow Dish" a name they have given something that we have not yet seen. Yesterday I was out walking (for we are all obliged to exercise an hour a day In the open air) and when I was coming home I happened to look a little to the right and there I saw a runaway. It was a carriage turning over and over and the horse was running at Its full speed. Miss Raymond (Proffer's daughter) was In but did not stay there long. She was not hurt very badly but bruised her head some, It was the third time she had been run away with by that horse, so I judge she won't try it very soon again. Oh Howard you have no idea how good they try to make us here- we actually are obliged to pray, eleven times on Sunday and nine every other day. We also are trying to make each other more orderly by having a penny to pay for every little thing we lay down out of place in the parlor. We have a piece of paper with all the girls names on it who are fa* our parlor and put a stroke down for each thing- and when we get a good many down, we are going to buy something real pretty for the room. You must let the rest of the family know that I am flourishing for it is impos- sible for me to write so often now, since we have begun to study. Darkness is over shadowing these pages, so I must stop. With love to you all, I am- As ever, Lucy Lucy (Sellers) Banes, '75
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, May 31, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 31, 1872
Text: Vassar, May 31 72 Sunday Afternoon. My dear Parents; Since my last letter I have heard nothing from you- I don't think it pays to write you throe time in one week for I have not rec'd even one letter. Howard was kind enough to favor me, as he acknowledged, partly to escape a scolding so on tho whole I don't feel very much flattered. Last Friday evening we had a union meeting of the three Chapters in the Society Hall - which was very enjoyable- It was not as the other meeting...
Show moreVassar, May 31 72 Sunday Afternoon. My dear Parents; Since my last letter I have heard nothing from you- I don't think it pays to write you throe time in one week for I have not rec'd even one letter. Howard was kind enough to favor me, as he acknowledged, partly to escape a scolding so on tho whole I don't feel very much flattered. Last Friday evening we had a union meeting of the three Chapters in the Society Hall - which was very enjoyable- It was not as the other meeting usually are - but rather a social gathering tho exercised of the evening were all literary, and after they were all over we were invited to a very handsome entertainment given by the Committee. We then finished the evening with a dance. The next morning immediately after Silent time a meeting of the Students Association was called for the election of officers for the ensuing year. We had a dreadful time, were there the whole morning went and only elected the Pres. & Vice Pres.- Immediately after dinner we had a meeting of Philalethean and the officers wore chosen without any trouble after that the Junior & Sophomore Classes had their elections. As you are not acquainted with the young ladles who fill the offices I will only mention that Miss Monroe Is President of the StudentsLettie Stow Pres. of her Class & Lizzie Barrett is class Historian (Lizzie is quite offended that you called her Miss Barrett In your note being obliged for It and sends you a deal of love.) We have our elections next Saturday but I am only sure of never getting anything while I am la the class of '75 and as I don't expect to be In any other, I consequently never expect any office. Our Class is a large one- and it has two distinct cliques one of which naturally out numbers the the. I do not particularly admire the class personally but as a whole. It is one of the smartest In College- and by far the honor list. Next Saturday evening the Sophs are going to give us our party & the same evening the Juniors give the Seniors theirs. If nothing happens I Intend to wear my buff lawn and would very much like to have your blue Roman sash to wear with It - for I can't wear pink or red - & then you know you never do wear it your self so won't you send it to me just as soon as you get this letter- I have not heard you say anything about our trip for a long time I suppose of course we are going- Have you engaged your ticket for the Boston Jubilee it will be grand and I have set my heart upon going there- every so many of the girls are going from Vassar. If you have not your tickets you had best get them for they are going very fast. Sue Is going to take some friend home with her, and said she will be unable to go with us- I am very sorry for I should like her to be with us very much. From your affec- Daughter [Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75]
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, May 19, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 19, 1872
Text: Vassar, May 19, 1872 Sunday Afternoon My dear Parents I really don't know what to put down first or how to commence A hut as Aunt Alice always used to say Just put the point of the pen to paper and inspiration will move it- I have Just been writing Dr R- a note in thanks for "Within & Without" as you'll see from the letter I enclose that he Is the donor. The poor I believe must have attempted to swallow the dictionary but his attempt was not as successful as it might...
Show moreVassar, May 19, 1872 Sunday Afternoon My dear Parents I really don't know what to put down first or how to commence A hut as Aunt Alice always used to say Just put the point of the pen to paper and inspiration will move it- I have Just been writing Dr R- a note in thanks for "Within & Without" as you'll see from the letter I enclose that he Is the donor. The poor I believe must have attempted to swallow the dictionary but his attempt was not as successful as it might have been since I am able as you see to correct one of his "high sounders." Last Wednesday evening the Cecelia Society accompanied by Messrs Bergner & Waits, from New York entertained us with a very fine concert in the Chapel- a great many persons were out from Poughkeepsie making it very pleasant- Sue was one of the Ushers and looked ever so pretty. On Friday a part &, of about 70 left College in big carriage loads for Lake Mohunk where they enjoyed themselves to the full until Saturday night end then they returned by moon light They have been telling so so much about the various beauties and delight of their trip and that the rest of us can hardly wait until the end of the week - that we may also experience it. I am dreadfully sorry Kate cannot go - but that you see Is the misfortune of being a Pre p. I will new try and state very precisely the day and date for your next visit to Vassar as you must have over looked it In one of my former letters as I am sure I told you- I want you to leave home Monday (the 24 of June) In time to get up to the College in time for the Concert that evening. The next morning you will be invited to the Gymnastic show and then the riding school will next fall beneath your notice. The afternoon will be devoted to Class day exrercises- and the evening an address to the Philalethean society- the following day being commencement. Do you think the programme inviting enough for your attempt to come?- Well really- I gave Lucy Keen credit for more sense- than ever to give Sam Woolman a thought but there Is no use talking I suppose I really sympathise with poor Lizzie if she has to ride Nellie I sure I'd "go for something better" If IX were In her place- It's Just enough to discuss her with a horse forever.- Don't leave It till Saturday before writing to your affect Daugh, Lucy. Lucy (Sellers) Barnes Enclosure: Letter from H. C. Register 907 Walnut St Phila May 18 My dear friend Miss Lucy, Your kind remembrance in form of "Vassar Miscellany" came to and yesterday. I have read with pleasure and profit several of its articles, and am happy to congratulate the College and members of the Senior and Junior Copes [?] in their new enterprise. The establishment of such a Journal at once speaks in unmistakeable terms the achievement of knowledge! I speak for it a very good old age; and as each successive year unfolds the ever living present May the tree of knowledge bud and blossom in fruitful language upon its pages; and annual often annual companion of ... a ... and honored "a priori" because swelled into one ... of adherents, and make the "Miscellany" their standard-bearer -- champion affright and proper, even to live in thee. The arts of old and young doing good work for the common alma mater; and standing a monument of honor to its founders and ... Hoping you and Miss Patty are well and with kind encumbrance. I am yours truly, H.C. Register Miss Lucy Sellers, "Vassar College." N.B.: I wish you ... some of the beautiful thoughts in Mr. D's "With & Without."
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to George Taylor Barnes, Feb. 1875:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: February 14, 1875
Text: Vassar College* Feb. 14. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns, Since Friday noon last I have had the most comfortable kind of a time you can imagine. We finished our examinations then and there has been nothing for us to do, even if we desired it. So I was Just lazy to my hearts content - read & lounged and had a good time generally. I made a little plan after I returned here at Christmas - that all my letters should be written during the week and that Sunday night be entirely free to do as I chose -...
Show moreVassar College* Feb. 14. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns, Since Friday noon last I have had the most comfortable kind of a time you can imagine. We finished our examinations then and there has been nothing for us to do, even if we desired it. So I was Just lazy to my hearts content - read & lounged and had a good time generally. I made a little plan after I returned here at Christmas - that all my letters should be written during the week and that Sunday night be entirely free to do as I chose - so far my plan has worked very well, & if I had written to you yesterday as I had intended, with one excep- tion I might say perfectly. la a letter from Kate yesterday she spoke of seeing you at the Locust Club the other night- I hope it was a greater success that the Dickens night" at Mrs. Bancrofts. I never did think much of that "show11- and now I think still less - for since I last wrote you - we attempted something of the kind here and the contrast was remarkable. At our usual Club Supper- the members went the*assuming the personalities of Dicken9s different characters and they kept them up part wonderfully- Miss Cushing was Betsey Trotwood and she carried hereout to perfection. Every body did well and there was some fun in it - but the other affair seemed something of a farce — On Thursday night of this week we had our first senior party. Mrs. Backus sent the Class and invitation to their house for said eveningstated that it was to be a surprise to Prof. B.~ We learned incidently that it was his birthday. He is thirty three - and thinking to have a little fun we all agreed to carry him some funny present. You never saw such a remarkable collection— The poor man was completely loaded down fc still he kept asking- "have all the senior come"- as though he hoped for one or two more. Every body there, seemed to be in a very good humor and our first party will be remembered pleasantly. The next night Miss C. and I were invited in te play whist and "finish up the party". And now before I forget - I want to say ^that I think we f I should say I for I corn- let menced it) had better the Backus question alone- Suppose somebody should happen to see what we have said they never would understand it - It it might occasion a little surprise- The fact is I dont think you understand me yourself and I dont think you can until you see the gentleman, -yourself. I was in hopes he might visit us in April next- but he is going to Boston and Miss Cushing is to have that pleasure. Last week I went in town one evening to hear Camilla Urso- in a Concert given at the Opera House. You have heard her of course, and there fore can fully appreciate how delighted we were with her. Miss Castle, a sister to the one who visited Miss Drew, is now at College and is a very good friend of mine- She has been very kind and attentive to me and to her I am indebted the pleasure of hearing Miss Urso.The young lady is very lovely St has quite won my heart- I came back this year to College resolved not to care especially for any body and like every body in general - but I fear it is not my nature and I find I have not succeeded very well. Florence and I are the the best of friends and I tliink with-out exception she is the most elegant girl I ever knew, Mbral, intellect, ability every thing included. I see more of her that any one else - and I guess think more of her- but there is very little sentiment lost between us- Miss Castle is very different- She is much younger does not know half so much- but is very pretty- (just the style) has seen a good you admire. deal of society and I imagine is a great favorite with gentlemen. She is a beautiful dancer - and has just taught me the Saratoga- do you know it? It is all the rage- and if you dont, you must learn it right off. JLissie Barrett has been visiting up the Hudson ever since before Xmas - and drove down some twenty miles the other afternoon to see me- My how she has changed- Society seems to have perfectly received her already - it just made me sad to see her. I wish you could have seen Miss Cushings greived expression when Lizzie said "Why Florence I dont see how you can stay here —just hate the sight of a book." Florence merely replied she thought her very brave to express such a sentiment. I have just gotten hold of such a nice book- "The Conflict between Religion & Science — By Draper - have you read it? It is a new book and one wh. bids fair to be very popular*When I chance to look oat the window and behold what a glorious day it is - and remember that yesterday was the same - I almost regret that I did not go to Brooklyn on Friday last — ft is of course too late now to mourn and I only hope that next Friday will be as pleasant- We will go, though, whatever happens and I do hope that I may have the pleasure of presenting you to my friends- You have seen a good many Vassar girls but Z doubt if you ever saw three nicer ones than Misses Cushing, Jackson, & Brown. IE you "should happen to be in Brooklyn" on the 21®*. I shall hope to see you - at no 11 Tompkins Place - Miss Jackson's as I believe you put down last sumncr in your note book. So you have declined my invita- Uon to come up here on the 22 „ Now dont think I want you to come I would not have you for the world if you did not care to- but I dont believe you know half how swell it is to be. There are four hundred invitations & more afloat over the country to all the dignitaries therein -(who are advo- cates of womans higher) education)' to be present- Many have already sent there acceptances and will probably address us on the occasion- Dr. Hopkins Bishop Huntingdon, Dr. Storrs, Col. Higginson, Gen. Tilden, Whitelaw Reid, James T. Fields- Geo. W. Curtis, Hon. Ira Harris, O.B. Frothingham James Freeman Clark & others were among the acceptances of yesterday- I was told when in Miss Terry's office the other morning that I must be sure to be back on Monday evening that the seniors would beexpected to escort the guests around and help entertain them- The rest of the College are to be excluded from the the show- A collation with speeches and toasts will be the entertainment of the evening- In Kate's letter yesterday she spoke of the "Internation" wh. is to come off In our City the same evening- and she seemed to be looking forward to it with much pleasure- There are to be one thousand aids, she tells me— Well, one thousand pretty girls all dressed up fine is a great inducement so probably you are not to blame for preferring their society to that of — say one hundred intellegent men — — What do you mean about those gentleman from Boston smoking in the Library? I never said they smoked - They probably had their cigars In the pockets- but there were so many of them we could not fail to detect cigars the oder of these after they had gone. Have you ever seen Maggie Mitchell play "Fanchon-"? It is a very cute play- we had it here the other night - and although an amateur took Fanchon's part it was sufficiently well acted and the story just sad enough in some places to bring tears to my eyes- at wh. I suppose you would laugh- you always do. I am very glad to hear that there is some hopes of your finally getting some pictures- I did not know but you had gone back mei Hoping to see you - will it be next Saturday night - (?) I will say au revoirYour friend L.S. Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75 With this I send you the Inst Miscellany Some of the articles I think are very fine but dont think you are obliged to read them just because any I send it to you - I shan't ask you about them fit shall not be the wiser.
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to mother, Jun. 4, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: June 4, 1872
Text: Vassar June. 4. 72. Tuesday evening. My dear Mother, Your very kind letter expressing such sympathy on my behalf on account of my room mate next year, came to hand yesterday and met with a warm welcome - The only think I can do will be to draw a double room for the single are all taken by the coming Junior Class- and the question is whether I shall ask, taking it and keeping it open for Kate - as I think it very doubtful if she will be able to pass in her Rhetoric, and I don't think it...
Show moreVassar June. 4. 72. Tuesday evening. My dear Mother, Your very kind letter expressing such sympathy on my behalf on account of my room mate next year, came to hand yesterday and met with a warm welcome - The only think I can do will be to draw a double room for the single are all taken by the coming Junior Class- and the question is whether I shall ask, taking it and keeping it open for Kate - as I think it very doubtful if she will be able to pass in her Rhetoric, and I don't think it would be unselfish if I take a good room mate now when I have a chance instead of waiting on the uncertainly, and then have some horrid thing put in with me for most likely Kate can have a very nice single room for if she don't so draw it, Dr Avery will give her one because she has been sick so much So if Joe Jewell and I draw on the same corridor we think of rooming together. We have never been very intimate but are good friends, she is a very nice little thing, perfectly healthy, and as neat as wax. I have seen her mother and like her very much. And since I have been lead to speak of her I will hear ask your permission to accept an invitation from her which has been of long standing. It is that I may go home with her on Friday immediately after our examination and stay until Monday after noon. She has invited eight of us and I think we will have a Jolly time. She is going to have a party on Saturday evening and there (I mean at the College) will be ever so many Yale fellows there, who leave soon after. Her Mother has sent us a very cordial invitation and written Miss Terry a very nice note asking permission to have us leave College- as we will be back in time for any of the entertainments- Since the new rail road has been built it only takes four hours to go- I want to have you say I may very much- and if you come to this conclusion will you send me a note to Miss Terry- While I think of it I must tell you that Kate has had all her hair cut off- She is going with a party to N.Y. to spend the time I want to spend at Joe's- When you come up here you will need a real nice dress and don't hesitate to bring it because I can send It home in my trunk if you don't want to take it with us traveling- Mamma what can I wear traveling in? My brown suit has no sacque and I have nothing else suitable; from present appearances it don't seem like I can wear a linen suit. My dolly Varden hat will not be
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, May 12, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 12, 1872
Text: Vassar, May 12. 1872 Sunday Afternoon. My dear Parents, Since my last letter we have had a very great change in the weather so that instead of having Chapel immediately after supper, we are given 3/4 of hour to walk. It is such a delightful time that every body sets out and it is a beautiful sight to see the ground covered with so many persons all in their light dress, for we cannot stand thick ones any longer The first part of last week it was announced to the Seniors and Juniors, that there...
Show moreVassar, May 12. 1872 Sunday Afternoon. My dear Parents, Since my last letter we have had a very great change in the weather so that instead of having Chapel immediately after supper, we are given 3/4 of hour to walk. It is such a delightful time that every body sets out and it is a beautiful sight to see the ground covered with so many persons all in their light dress, for we cannot stand thick ones any longer The first part of last week it was announced to the Seniors and Juniors, that there wasparty from the College invited to Lake Mohunk to stay from Friday until Monday and that they could all go if they wished. Very few declined the invitation. It cost only $ 1.50. They were to go in waggons which hold eighteen and Mr. Campbell made was to take our provisions as there was not any arrangements^for it. All to were expecting to have a most delightful time — but owing-the-the long absence of rain the roads were very dusty and the President thought it best to post pone the visit until Friday of this week which is not so pleasant for the Sophmores and Freshmen as they in consequence are disappointed in their visit to the same place — which will now not come off for two weeks Dont you think it will be splendid for us 7 Last night Alice Wetmore read her Senior essay before the chapel, it was quite good* she was dreadfully frightened of course but got through very nicely. After silent time that same evening Chapter Delta had an May 12, 1872 - 2 entertainment in Society Hall "Twelth Knight" which was very fully attended and a great success. The other day Miss Terry announced that all the young ladies who wanted company Commencement must put their names in the box tomorrow but that the number is limited we being able to invite only two Class Day - & only our Parents com- mencement day, so if Howard comes it will be on the risk but I guess you can get him smuggled in - for he isnt very large. Yesterday I got the loveliest book — entitled Within and Without - sent by express from New York - It is all marked in different parts and without any name I rather think it is from Aunt Potter for it looked like her hand writing. I wish you would ask if it is she for it would be very embarassing if I should write and thank her for some body elses present It has some perfectly beautiful parts much too pretty to be enjoyed unthanked Please also ask Aunty if she... (incomplete, (Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75,
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, Jun. 16, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: June 16, 1872
Text: Vassar June 16, 1872 Sunday afternoon My dear Parents, After carefully considering the several letters which I have received from you of late, and after reading and re-reading the letters returned to me and after thinking much upon the subject of my newly formed correspondence X came to the conclusion, that it was I who acted in an unlady like manner and have written a note apologising for my conduct and asking If I might not at least deserve respect since I could no longer have a place In...
Show moreVassar June 16, 1872 Sunday afternoon My dear Parents, After carefully considering the several letters which I have received from you of late, and after reading and re-reading the letters returned to me and after thinking much upon the subject of my newly formed correspondence X came to the conclusion, that it was I who acted in an unlady like manner and have written a note apologising for my conduct and asking If I might not at least deserve respect since I could no longer have a place In the affections I put nothing In my letter that called for an answer - so I do not whether to expect any reply or not. ln my last Sunday's letter I told you of the Junior party to the Seniors and how beautifully they had the parlors fixed— Last evening we had our last sociable In the same place and with out describing how the rooms looked I may give you some idea how lovely they were when I say that the Juniors confessed themselves entirely out done I never had so good a time at any sociable before. After most were assembled Miss McBain our class historian stood just between the two parlors - in a little place all dropped In flowers where she read our famous Class History to us - It was perfectly comical from beginning to end every body m the room just was kept In a continual laugh After she finished Ella Seidel took her place and read us the loveliest poem. I can't tell you what it was like but it made every person seem breathless it was so pretty. The poem was followed by the prophesy reed by Miss Maltby— she was very (unusual?) in her very many different predictions. And so she took pains to slight no one she made her self a great deal of trouble for by the time you got to the 76th person I should imagine that your wits would be quite at a loss to prophesy for the 77th. Suppose it may interest you to hoar what she... Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to George Taylor Barnes, Jan. 17, 1875:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: January 17, 1875
Text: Vassar College Jan. 17. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns. "I wont be dictated to, you see,1' but to proceed. Your welcome letter of the was only rec*d. and as you may witness most promptly answered. Dont be entirely discouraged and think you will always, so soon, be in my debt - but as I answered all other letters yesterday and today felt some what in the writing humor, which is rather unusual, I concluded to make you my victim. Is this apology sufficient? I will consider it so an continue...
Show moreVassar College Jan. 17. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns. "I wont be dictated to, you see,1' but to proceed. Your welcome letter of the was only rec*d. and as you may witness most promptly answered. Dont be entirely discouraged and think you will always, so soon, be in my debt - but as I answered all other letters yesterday and today felt some what in the writing humor, which is rather unusual, I concluded to make you my victim. Is this apology sufficient? I will consider it so an continue by telling you how delighted I was to hear so soon and in such detail of home news. I am getting quite discouraged about myself really for it become harder for me to return every time I go away I am afraid society is having a demoralising effect upon me and the worst of it is I dont know any remedy. I dont suppose for a moment I should be contented to spend week after week and month after month in the frivolous way I spend my vacations - but when home upon such occasions as the above it is with me "eat, drink, and be merry for tomorrow ye die" and I make the most of all that is going. But now I have returned to my Alma Mater and as you say that wh. was but last week a reality is fast becoming a dream. Yes it was Just about this time last Sunday when we were enjoying our "cigars up stairs'*. But why did I ever say any thing about that. Indeed it makes me quite ashamed when I think of it- ashamed that I ever entertained such selfish sentimentsand more so that I put them in words — but that is only one of a great many things I have been sorry for and I suppose it will trouble me as little after a while as the others do now. Has it been so long since you went to school that yeu have forgotten what dreadful days Mondays always are and how we all dislike them? Tou have? Well I have not - yet of all bad ones it seemed to me that of Jan. 11. was about the worst. This time it was not a fright for this or that particular lesson wh. might have been imperfectly prepaired- no the feeling was infinitely worst- I felt that the contest in that case was not for the day but would probably last until June next. Now this is a great confession for I dont think any body began to know how badly I felt about leaving. But I am very happy to say that my fears have now entirely left me- and I am looking forward to as pleasant a future as the past has been. Of course I expect to detract the pleasure afforded by the old friends who are no longer here with me, but there are those left for whom I care a great deal. A book was my sole companion on my journey back though my attention was some what attracted to a young bride & groom who by the by very soon disgusted me and I was happy to find that near me sat two Germans, (young girls) who seemed very talkative and to whose conversation I could listen with- out the least impropriety for they doubtless thought I could understand none of it. Be this as it may I was pretty interested in endeavoring tounderstand and before I quite realized it we were in N.Y. I crossed the City without difficulty and was about seating myself in an ordinary car of the Poughkeepsie train when I came to the conclusion I did not so a care to be in such close proximity with rough set as seemed to be occupying it so I picked up my things and went into a drawing room car. There I made the acquaintance of a lovely family from Albany and made my ride was thusAvery pleasant. Of course I had a great deal to tell and be told when I got to the College - one very interesting fact was; that I should surely be called upon to recite the next morning in "Mental" Think of it 32 pages in Stewart and 20 in Reed to read, besides some in Hamilton to learn - and a headache in the bargain. Well, I did not attempt it, and was not called on either, wh. I considered proof that I had done the right thing when I chose bed in stead. Probably you would smile if you could look in upon me now - trying as best I may to fill the place of Librarian. W 3th all the airs possible I am sitting at the great desk and am really very dignified. Some people think I can be if there are some that dont. The smile upon Prof. B.'s face is a little difficult to interpret. I am afraid he does not stand quite as much in awe of me as is the proper thing under as the circumstances. When I first saw him he expressed himself^so sorry not to have received Papafs note of invitation sooner. He said "I would have answered it I would have marched straight to the "City of BrotherlyLove". And dent I wish he had. If it was not real dreadful I should certainly think I liked him a very great deal. He is just splendid, wonderfully interesting and the possessor of exceedingly fascinating ausnners. The only thing is, I dont believe he thinks his wife perfection of him and I am sure I cant blame him for that. I will tell you no moreAwith the hope that you may some day be able to judge for yourself. On Thursday evening last we had a very entertaining lecture from Mrs. Livermore who was here visiting Maria Mitchell. It is needless to tell the subject of her lecture - indeed she gave none - I will only remark she had 400 attentive listeners and 400 ardent admirers— After the lecture Miss Cushing took me, with several of my class mates, upon the stage to meet her - and there before the president, and several of the teachers, imagine our embarrassment at her first question - "Well, my dear young ladies what do you propose doing when you leave here." Of course I could not tell her, before so many that I expected to study law with Mr. Hoffeskee Especially if I did not care to have the intention for publicly announced on Class day (by the prophet-) >ad in the. case of his being present, wh. is not improbably - it would be exceedingly unpleasant. So £did not say anything nor my neighbor nor hers and altogether it was a little uncomfortable and we changed the subject. On Friday evening we had a German entertainment in the HfcU wh. consisted (besides essays, songs.& scenes from Marie Stewart all in German) of a german play "Ein Respectable Gesellschaft." Pardon trans. "A Respectable Company." This company consisted of four old men and four old women all over the sixty, who were greatly opposed toAconvivalities of the present day who never sought the society of any body but themselves and who entertained them selves by getting up little plays. Well one of these old women had a neice and one of these old men had a nephew & these young people cause them a great deal of trouble and anxiety Ik finally eloped Itc-tc. but the funniest part was to see these girls whom we knew ordinarily so well, recognised dressed and acting some body else so admirably that we scarcely knew them. One of the girls Miss Lyman, from Montreal, niece of the former lady principal of the College who died here from great age, acted and looked aunt so like herAthat at first many of us hesitated as to whether it was the proper thing for us to give way to such laughter, but she became so ludicrous finally that it required more than an act of volition to stop us* When she fainted and one of the fat old men came to apply the salts wh. she had suspended from her finger by a ring and flourish her large fan - it was too much - and so is this, I must stop. Do tell me who that wonder- ful person is I met at Media - friend of the Ornes, I have not an idea. No reflection upon your description — I assure you - I guess I never met him.It Is all very well so long as not carried into excess- but you must not forget- well I most not forget either — that you always laugh at me when I attempt to preach - so I wont do It. Only dont let your "good resolution" go for naught. As I find they are observed more or less then can I say more correctless whether I have faith In you or not. I am afraid at present I have not very much. You are quite Incorrigible at least so thinks your friend Lucy Sellers. Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, May 26, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 26, 1872
Text: Vassar, May 26 72 My dear Parents, Your kind wish for us with regard to Lake Mohunk has come to pass- and we are again settled in our "Vassar Home. Last Friday at noon we all assembled In the College parlors and from there a 160 of us started in different conveyances- There were 4 or 5 large Waggons and several carriages. We were in a party of six and happened to get a very comfortable carriage. We had so much rain during the week that the roads were very nice for driving. We (all in our...
Show moreVassar, May 26 72 My dear Parents, Your kind wish for us with regard to Lake Mohunk has come to pass- and we are again settled in our "Vassar Home. Last Friday at noon we all assembled In the College parlors and from there a 160 of us started in different conveyances- There were 4 or 5 large Waggons and several carriages. We were in a party of six and happened to get a very comfortable carriage. We had so much rain during the week that the roads were very nice for driving. We (all in our load) sent to Smiths for different things so we might not be come exhausted on the way for we did not expect to get there until 7 o'clock. We sang & carried on high all the time and had a Jolly time. We were among the first to start and got there some time before six so that we had time to go up the mountain to Sky Top where we had a beautiful view of the country We were able to see 5 states- (Vermont, Mass. N.Y. Penna, N.J.) Some among our party were obliged to leave earlier that the others, on account of being waitresses that evening at tea. We could not take servants with us and so we had to turn in to them ourselves— I waited, under Miss Fisher as heed waitress at the sane table with Lissie. It was lots of fun, the Profs & Pres. Miss Morse - Mrs. Raymond- Miss Terry and lets ever so many teachers were here and they seemed quite proud of our first attempts. It was not very nice to clear up and especially to wait till about nine before getting anything your self. After tea we had some dancing and about 10 1/2 (whoa the moon was out, we wen out rowing. It was perfectly splendid. It was such a comfort to be out of hearing of bells and be able to go to bod when one wanted why really we didn't feel anywhere within thousands of miles of Vasser. Next morning we got up early and went to all the places around It was dreadful climbing but I enjoyed It. I climbed up the Crevice although Prof.Orton advised us not to, and of coarse when got up through safely, we felt quite victorious, for last week the seniors & Juniors had to have two Profs. to drag them through soma of the places. About 12 o'clock we had dinner up on the top of a Mount 150 ft. high - (I did not envy the waitresses that time) We started for Vaasar - la the afternoon about 5 and got home real late after a very jolly time. This morning I felt real stiff and tired after so much unaccustomed exertion but it Is very natural I should. I cant say, at present, that I think Monday's lesson will prove a success - The other day I sent Mr. Brooks a "Miscellany" and a few days afterward a note canoe from Mrs B- thanking me for so kindly remembering her. A joke. Eh? X have hoard nothing from Mr. Buckman,-and-so perhaps he did not get his. When X came home last night I found quite a large box of Whitmans, sent to me by express from Phila - the handwriting looked very familiar, so before opening I stormed around for a little, to think of having to thank the "old thing" when much to my surprise the enclosed card said Compliments of Fred H. Andrews - wasn't he kind he sent Kate one too - But didn't I feel like a fool for my mistake. Also much to my surprise I got a very lovely and lengthy letter from Pattie Semple a few days ago (it was her birthday) I sent her my card & written on the back was - "My sincere wishes for many happy returns of the day." I did not know what to expect in return but I got a very nice letter which I fear will not rec'd. Such a very nice answer. In reply to your question about my lilac silk*- It Is Just as you last saw it for I have not yet had it on. I am perfectly satisfied to still wear it over my black silk and get a whole dress some other time for you know lilac Is not a very becoming color to me But of course I am willing to do Just as you think best about it. Can't you always write to me on Thursday for I will then get your letter Saturday and be able to read It more satisfactorily for on Friday afternoons I have a recitation right after dinner mad am always a little fidgety unless I study before It. With love to all, I am as ever your daug[hter]. Lucy. Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75Mrs. John Sellers Jr. 3300 Arch Street West Phila, Penna
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to mother, May 28, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 28, 1872
Text: Vassar, May 28 '72 Wednesday Afternoon My dear Mother, Since I wrote to Papa yesterday- there has been a great excitement going on here - Last evening in Chapel the Pres. told us that the distribution of room this year would be some what different from here to fore. Viz., The Preps, are to be entirely distinct from the rest of collegiate That they are to occupy the north end of the building with the exception of the second Corridor, which is for seniors exclusively-— They will then be...
Show moreVassar, May 28 '72 Wednesday Afternoon My dear Mother, Since I wrote to Papa yesterday- there has been a great excitement going on here - Last evening in Chapel the Pres. told us that the distribution of room this year would be some what different from here to fore. Viz., The Preps, are to be entirely distinct from the rest of collegiate That they are to occupy the north end of the building with the exception of the second Corridor, which is for seniors exclusively-— They will then be granted many more privileges which we cannot enjoy. They will not have any corridor teacher, but have her room which is quite large - for a Senior Parlor- reading room or what ever they choose to make it- is it not splendid- The south end of the building Is than left for the Juniors, Sophs & Fresh- I think this plan Is splendid- it will make the Preps far more ambitious I and then too there Is something for us all to look forward to when we are Seniors as It has been heretofore the Preps hare exactly the same regulations that the vary highest classes do. But now to the sad part of the story- Katie will not be Fresh at the end of tills year, and consequently will not be able to draw with the to regular Classes, and what am I to do for a room mate. Annie Brown and Joe Jewell have both asked me to room with them but I don't think I want to, although they are both very glee- Guss will be Fresh- but I don't think we would get along very well for we both like our own way too much- and I am afraid we might not be such good friends if we room together No- I want a single room - and I don't believe I can get it. To-morrow I am in a perfect stew- We draw for our choice-day and then excitement will be a little cooled down I suppose. When you come up Commencement you will not see the college so full as usual- for last night in Chapel- the President said in the coolest manner that the Preps -might be excused Immediately after their examinations as their room would be needed more than their company. If however there were individual cases where they particularly desired to stay they must send In a note stating it to Miss Terry - I do not know what Kate or Guss are going to do - for I have not asked them. I am so glad I am not a Poor Prep- Don't you hope I will be fortunate in my choice for a room? I am afraid you will become .. . by so many long letters in one week-but I don't think I shall - for I am not often favored with more than one. Affec - Lucy. [Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75]Mrs. John Sellers Jr. 3300 Arch Street West Phila, Penna
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to family, Feb. 1871:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: February 5, 1871
Text: Vassar College. Feb. 5, 1871. My dear Parents. To-day the ground is covered over with snow, which we hope will prove good for sleighing since the girls have already made up sleigh loads for to-morrow night. Last year we enjoyed it so much I do hope we will not be disappointed now. Besides I really think we need a little pleasure just now for this last week has been a very trying one, - long reviews in all the lessons one day after another, and our standing during this last week and the first...
Show moreVassar College. Feb. 5, 1871. My dear Parents. To-day the ground is covered over with snow, which we hope will prove good for sleighing since the girls have already made up sleigh loads for to-morrow night. Last year we enjoyed it so much I do hope we will not be disappointed now. Besides I really think we need a little pleasure just now for this last week has been a very trying one, - long reviews in all the lessons one day after another, and our standing during this last week and the first three days of next is the test. Each day it seems to me the standard is higher. Instead of finishing my Latin this year we are obliged to read Horace next all the girls are enraged and I dont wonder, for in the catalogue it says that the Sophomore studies are they elective and then^compell them to take what ever they think best. There are many rumors around the college since the seniors have commenced of girls being turned back - the latest is that two Seniors, five Juniors, 10 Sophomores 50 Freshmen and 100 Preparatories will have to go over this semesters work in something. 50 Freshmen.' I am beginning to shake just a little though the only thing I feel the least doubtful about is the latin for I do so hate it and Prof Hinkle is so queer and unreasonable In my Algebra I have never been minus a single example since I have been in College and my only hope is that next semester I will do as well in Geometry Feb. 5, 1871 - 2 I guess my reputation will carry me through In French even if I should fail every day until the end. I dont want you to think I am going to however for I have no such intentions past For some few days^I had a little surprise in contemplation for you, which I hope would have been pleasant But yesterday all my hopes were dashed to the ground so I am going to tell you in order that I will not be the only one to feel badly Our examinations end you must know next Thursday and before we again resume our studies a space of nearly one week intervenes which I wanted to have spent with you and Guss, Kate and I were going to take you by storm some time Friday. But there were so many others who entertained the same hope that Miss Terry would not let us go. I am so very sorry for I set my heart upon it. Yesterday in all the snow for then it was still falling Annie Shepard, Kate, Lizaie Burnett and I all dressed in our Gymnastic suits and bundled all up and set out for a regular romp. We went all around Sunset Hill and traversed the grounds generally enjoying our selves to the full, and still more because we were not obliged to do it For at dinner Dr Avery announced that the Students were excused from their out door exercise. After dinner we had a meeting of the "Student Association in which we elected the speakers we desire to lecture to us on Founder's day the 29 of April, as the list now stand the names are as follows. 1. Robert Feb. 5, 1871-3 Collyer 2. Rev. Dr Murray and 3£i Mr Boardman of Phila, what do you think of them. After "Students" we the Freeh had a meeting of our Class for the election of Officers. I went in my Gym. suit just as I had come in from my frolic thinking that If I took a back seat nobody would see me. But I was not long of this mind for after the meeting was called and we had listened to the roll-call and reading of the Minutes of the last three meeting and the Candidates were being voted upon Miss Taylor our Pres. says "I appoint Miss Jewell and Miss Sellers tellers so I was obliged to come forward and receive the votes just as I was. I soon got over my bashfulness (even if it was Saturday afternoon and the rest of the girls were fixed up for tea) as I was of considerable importance for it grew dark before we finished with our elections which stand as follows $ Miss Taylor pres. as before. Miss Kellogg vice-pres. Miss Keffer, Sec. Miss Seys Treasurer. Miss McBaln Historian. Miss Maltby Sibyl Miss Burns poet. We had a dreadful time ^ with our election for president and after balloting nearly a dozen time we kept the same one as we had the first of the year. 1 was going to say something more and make a very interesting letter but all my ideas have been driven out of my head by company I am very much disappointed that I did not get a nice talk letter. I was almost sure you would take the fcfat for the subject which I wrotecross wise Feb, 5, 1871-4 on my last letter. So please dont keep me in suspenee any longer. I am most craay for a good lecture With an *ff^te Amen I am as follows- Lucy. Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, »75
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to George Taylor Barnes, May 23, 1875:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: May 23, 1875
Text: Vassar College. May 23. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns, Today is Sunday and a very hot day it is too- I suppose I ought to be at Church but in my endeavors to keep cool concluded to write to you instead. I expected to have sent you a letter yesterday. It was not a boat ride up the river however, that prevented though I have that pleasure in store for me very soon. Last evening in Class meeting, the sec*y read an invitation from the Class of *76 to spend the afternoon of Thursday May 27 at West Point...
Show moreVassar College. May 23. 1875. My dear Mr. Barns, Today is Sunday and a very hot day it is too- I suppose I ought to be at Church but in my endeavors to keep cool concluded to write to you instead. I expected to have sent you a letter yesterday. It was not a boat ride up the river however, that prevented though I have that pleasure in store for me very soon. Last evening in Class meeting, the sec*y read an invitation from the Class of *76 to spend the afternoon of Thursday May 27 at West Point. This was to have been a great surprise to us- but unfortunately we learned through the papers that the Mary Powell had been chartered by the Juniors for this purpose. They were so pleased with what we did last year that they did not vary the programme very much. You must not forget you promised to take me out some time when I come home- it is not well to be rash you see, for you have to suffer the consequences. Our little lake those some what diminutive affords us consider- able pleasure- It looks lovely Just at present and Miss Cushing and I go out nearly every morning immediately after breakfast. 1 must ask you to congratulate me - I have read my essay in Chapel - After Prof. Backus , had once seen it I did not mind it half as much as a even I had expected. In fact I did not take the papers upon the stage with me I onlythe topics upon a card and delivered it. Now dont you think that was brave? I had the most peculiar feeling when I was up there I did not think I was myself and am not quite positive that it was I yet. My room mate Miss Gouldy has gone home (to Newburgh) to spend Sunday. The last X heard her say was - "to think I cant hear Mr. Longacre." The other day I told her of his success in the spelling bee and also that with you were acquainted with him- She thought it very disrespectful that you should call him the "Rev. Andy" and unkind a bore all things to tell his wife of our profound admiration for him. But I thought to myself you dont know G.T.B. if you*d expect any thing different. If it is not too warm hear when I come home I have promised Miss G. to go and hear him and report when I come back. Do you know when Ella Burtis is to be married? I wonder if I will be home or not. At present I expect to come home about the 9th or 10 of June and I dont know but sooner. I have been enjoying my College work so much lately that I hesitate leav- ing any sooner than is necessary. I had proposed remaining a few days after our vacation to work in the Laboratory we are now engaged silvering etching* moulding end electroplating. It is something difficult to persue after leaving and as I am very much interested in the subject wish to make the most of my opportunities. The other morning in Physiology we disected a cat. What must be thebeauty of the human mechanism! At first I hesitated somewhat at being present but did not find myself affected at all as I had feared. I have not half the horror of the dissecting room I once had.— but I guess we wont talk about this any more. Now comes the sad news. The past few days have been very trying ones to many of us, as one of our number been has been suddenly taken from our midst. You may have heard Kate speak of her - Miss Joe Shepard, she was a friend of hers, a most charm- ing girl and one whom any one of us would have pronounced the strongest girl in College had we been questioned a week ago. Health, happiness, and wealth — it seemed as though she had every thing to live for- This, the first decade of our College had never before witnessed the death of a collegiate student. Since this occurrence the most appalling silence has reigned over the institution. Every mark of respect has been paid by the students that was in their power, and her loss will be sadly felt among us. Four weeks from this very time we will be listening to our baccalaureate sermon. Things are coming to an end so soon that we all begin to see the sad side of them. I know I shall be ashamed of myself commencement and shall probably however disgrace the class. I am going to be careful however and have you seated some where behind me so that you cant do any thing more than imagine what is going on. I heard you snubbed one of my friends on Chestnut Street the other dayArent you ashamed of yourself. So you are going to spell in another bee- I guess you wont go down on "noxious" again positively I am afraid to come home for fear they will get me in some of those dreadful things - and what makes it harder they expect a Vassar graduate to know so much that it is perfectly discouraging. It is comforting to know how- ever, than every one is not so deluded. Your friend Lucy Sellers Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, *75
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to George Taylor Barnes, Jan. 29, 1875:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: January 29, 1875
Text: Vassar College Jan. 29. 1875. My deer Mr. Barns, Your letters are very nice and I do like to get themJ- Yoa always tell things In such an Interesting way, but you are rery obsti- nate and disagreeable about writing; when you blandly confess you enjoy It more than otherwise, I do think it isn't a bit fair to make me answer every solitary one- - but - I said (to myself) I was never going to say any thing to you about It again - - I dont much care though if you do know how bad I think you....
Show moreVassar College Jan. 29. 1875. My deer Mr. Barns, Your letters are very nice and I do like to get themJ- Yoa always tell things In such an Interesting way, but you are rery obsti- nate and disagreeable about writing; when you blandly confess you enjoy It more than otherwise, I do think it isn't a bit fair to make me answer every solitary one- - but - I said (to myself) I was never going to say any thing to you about It again - - I dont much care though if you do know how bad I think you. Well here it is Friday again - it hardly seems possible- I have had so much to do the time just seems to have flown. We are now In the midst of our semi-annual reviews previous to ^fryH*-"" and I tell you it is a " grind" indeed It cant really be all work you know, and you surely have heard enough about it any way to prevent your doubting its reality so I shant say wonder another word-word- upon the subject. It is a^if you were not thorough disgusted with the despondent tone of my last, so now lets begin over again and pretend I was some body else when I wrote the above. Is it possible it will be two weeks Sunday since I wrote you - My! lots of things have happened since then - I hope you wont sight, or draw a long breath or perform any other significant antic - if I begin at the very beginning. Well, I'll attempt it any how, and it may be my patience will give out first - "Who knows." The very afternoon of the day I mailed your letter I was in Miss Cushings room reading the Tribune to her. When we heard the most dreadful wise coming nearer and nearer to us- presently Mathew Vassarfs namt nsirr could be recognized in the tumult ushering the crowd along - "Gentlemen this way-" Gentlemen this way" "Our Library" &c fee- until Z got quite curious and stepped to the door to see what was going on. Actually I was frightened; I never saw so many men. (I was going to say in my life but I will add) here. 1 should cer- tainly think there wore a hundred. Boston delegate - whom M.V. evidently enjoyed showing round. After said party had vacated the Library Miss Cushing and Z took possession.— How the place did smell of cigars.1 And would you believe I was guilty of saying "how nice"? I am afraid it is only in theory Z disapprove. I may add too "in excess". And that is — well you know how many- Dear mo how silly you are about Prof. Backus. K you know them both you would ^ Just as Z do and "poor Mrs B" would not have any more of your sympathy than she has of mine. She came home yesterday and I was in to see her last night, so Z suppose Z ought not to talk so but Z dont like her and Z cant help it. The truth is Z am dreadfully sorry there is any Mrs B. for Z do think Miss Cushing would make such a splendid one. Zs it a very bad to say? if it is you must not tell any one. LastFriday evening Chapter Alpha had her first meeting in the Hall and your friend presided for the first time over a large assembly There were probably some three hundred persons present, but it was not half so hard as I had anticipated - I find that the little experience I have had every Friday evening at our ordinary meeting and that of the Dickens9 Club, has helped me wonderfully In putting me at my ease. Miss Cushing was over at the entertainment with me, and we came home together- It was then quite late and we went to our respective room - I was seated in mine but a few moments when she came back In a great excitement with a note for me to read- She had found it la her door. "My dear Miss C. Will you fc Miss S- have pity on two grass widowers Mr. Struble and myself and come play a game of Whist In Mrs. B*s sitting room. Our time Is at your disposal we will wait for you till midnight." Well after a few moments contemplation we concluded to go, and such a time as we did have getting there. It was Just about ten o'clock and teachers were popping out every where to see If the lights were out. After several dodges we got safely along to the parlor door, on the second corridor- and— well it was only one of the students who had had company and It would be hard to tell who was the most scared- so we walked along as bravely as anything until we heard some heavy footsteps behind us- we look around— mercy a meal- it was surely the President,so we just skipped around a corner and let him pass- This was our last adventure and we got there safely- but what was our surprise- we had expected to meet two gentlemen- but here were three. Mr. Three had his overcoat on and was apparently soon to leave but Prof. B. invited him to remain over night mit him where upon the gent, went out to dismiss the coach man at the door- In his absence- Prof, told us as best he could for laughing -'said gent, had stayed so long mit a certain Miss Taylor la the parlor- that he got locked in- and had come to him to help him out.1 Now this was a good enough joke la itself - but for Miss C. fe me it had a double meaning - it was this poor scared Individual whom we took for our worthy President. Well we had a good game and a good time and came home quite unmolested about twelve o'clock. The next afternoon I got perfectly desperate for a sleigh ride- and got Miss C. quite in the humor too - so I telegraphed In town for a sleigh and we mit our sisters started off. The country around Po'keepsie is always very beautiful but the hills and mountains looked especially grand to that afternoon - the day was splendid and showed them off their best advantage. I had been especially stupid all day previous to the ride - (now dont say it was the effects of the night before) but now I felt quite in the humor of attending a lecture to be given in the Chapel at 5 P.M. by Madame Roch - on "The Men and Women of the Revolution". The subjectwas one of special interest to me as I was reading Carlyle*s Revolu- tions, and the facts I heard did much to heighten my interest. — Saturday morning. Other people you see are also prevent some times from accomplishing what they set out to do. A committee meeting call me yesterday I suppose I had better not remark again that I am Librarian or you will think Miss Cushing has vacated entirely - but here I am taking her place temporarily while she attends a meeting of the Floral Society. I want to thank you for your very kind invitation for nd the 22 11 & 23 of next month. I am going to be very airy and say it would give me great pleasure to accept but a previous engagement prevents my doing so- Did I not tell you I expected to go to Brooklyn on the afternoon of the 19^ and stay until the evening of the 22*$ at wh. time I want to be back at the College to attend a sort of house warming over in our new buildings- I have understood it is going to be very nice- Prof. B. is going to make a speech I believe. I have also heard rumor that we are to have a band but I real know very little about it. But it seems to me if we might reverse matters and you come to Brooklyn you might come up here for Monday night and still be able to be in Pfcfta- for the 2ar,? "What do you say" Have you ever met Miss Liver more- Mr Glendennings friend? Well I expect to stay with her one night before going to Miss Jackson. Miss Cushing and Miss Alice Brown are going with me- and youdont know what a good time we old girl are anticipating when we get together again. Are you aware how lavish you were mit your compliments in your last- indeed I feel quite flattered- innocent, ignorant, owlish. Anything. •. (incomplete, (Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75,
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to George Taylor Barnes, Oct. 18, 1874:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: October 18, 1874
Text: Oct. 18, 1874, …[per]fectly happy. I thought I should be perfectly miserably to be here at all this year without '74 - but I have managed, even with the loss of Helen Lough in addition, to spend some of the pleasantest times I know of in V.C. The studying thus far has been comparatively easy and we have had a good deal of leisure time for pleasanter occupation. Nearly every evening we have a sewing bee, upon a small scale in our room and one of the girls reads aloud making the evening...
Show moreOct. 18, 1874, …[per]fectly happy. I thought I should be perfectly miserably to be here at all this year without '74 - but I have managed, even with the loss of Helen Lough in addition, to spend some of the pleasantest times I know of in V.C. The studying thus far has been comparatively easy and we have had a good deal of leisure time for pleasanter occupation. Nearly every evening we have a sewing bee, upon a small scale in our room and one of the girls reads aloud making the evening pass very quickly. Our senior parlor, which by the way, looks very well not withstanding the fun you made of me about it, is a real good place to waste time- Yes I freely confess I have been lazy but at the same time I think it nothing (done my, more than fair I should be if I want to- I have done my duty here faithfully for four years and its time I "let up" a little. Of course I have quantities of outside work to do, I never knew the time when I didn't. I am only on four committees at present— but I rather enjoy it. We are now getting scenery for our new Hall. I tell you we are going to be very fine some of these days- You must come up and see the wonderful improvements. Couldn't you, in your numerous trips to N.Y. find time to get a little further. The longer my friends put off visiting me the more I will have to show them when they do arrive and this is my consolation. Until this year I never knew there were so many pretty places around here. I can't this tell how many miles I have walked this fall the air has been so exhilaratingOct. 18, 1874 - 2 and the views so grand that we would hate to return back. We have in our various perambulations, come across several cider mills, where you would have been surprised, probably shocked, to have seen us stop they and refresh ourselves. It is just jolly to be a Senior they have so much better times than other folks I would not have missed the good times I have had this year for any thing. Why do you always say I am home sick - it makes me very indignant - if you were writing to Lizzie that might probably have been appropriate - but I certainly have had enough experience to dispel all such ideas. Lizzie has not forgotten your apple, but she dont think she has found one sufficiently large yet. She has not the privilege of trotting round through the orchards as her sister - but then you know it was not to come from me. The introduction of whist at this stage of my course is an enjoyment before unknown in these premises. Prof. Backus invited me in their house to have a game in the early part of the year and I have been going very frequently since I have lots of fun and the girls in my parlor are fearfully jealous of me - which enlivens things considerably. I expect, after all this you will think I might as well be home, for all the studying I do- but I assure you it is not the case- Listen if you please to one sentence in our Mental Philosophy for tomorrow and say you dont blame me for spending — 2 1 well I wont say how long on it before I (clearly) (got the idea) into my headOct. 18, 1874 - 3 "For as doubt is itself only a manifestation of consciousness, it is impossible to doubt that, when consciousness manifests, it does mani- fest, without, in thus doubting, doubting that we actually doubt." My gracious, I have a fearful... [incomplete] Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, 75,
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Title: Barnes, Lucy -- to parents, Mar. 7, 1872:
Creator: Barnes-Sellers, Lucy
Description: VC 1875
Date: March 7, 1872
Text: Vassar College, March 1. 1872. My dear Parents; Since last I wrote to you concerning my health very little of interest has happened* though we have had a holiday.--day of prayer for colleges---which we spent mostly la the Chapel. On Friday evening last In Chapter Alpha X took the part of a Puritan — Imagine me with my hair parted and combed down over my ears- It was The Courtship of Miles Standish In a phantomime X was one of the friends who attended the wedding of Priscilla. We had a...
Show moreVassar College, March 1. 1872. My dear Parents; Since last I wrote to you concerning my health very little of interest has happened* though we have had a holiday.--day of prayer for colleges---which we spent mostly la the Chapel. On Friday evening last In Chapter Alpha X took the part of a Puritan — Imagine me with my hair parted and combed down over my ears- It was The Courtship of Miles Standish In a phantomime X was one of the friends who attended the wedding of Priscilla. We had a splendid critique read my Miss Hellister praising the Lady of Lynd up to the highest degree and not forgetting to draw attention to the beautiful costumes which we worked so hard over, come X have Inst from the weekly service to which Kate desired a me to accompany her - they are very pleasant and I think the forms and ceremonies rather facinatlag though perhaps In time they would become • I i j t i . ' i 1 * ■> 1 monotonous. Yesterday I received a perfectly lovely letter from aunt Pattie who by this time I suppose has returned home, as she told me she intended to leave Ws^hington In a day or two after she wrote me. I do enjoy her little letters so much for they give me so much to think about- Think- I am almost Inclined to believe this Is my hobby- I am almost sure X do more of it than a great many persons put together - bat X almost wish X didn't for X don't think X am any the happier for it: then Mar. 1, 1872 - 2 too I worry too much—a fault which although Sue coadems strongly is vary per ceptable in her- I wish people were not like they are- I wish we were constructed in such a way that these two elements, ty^^g .nd worrying were never known. Still X mast not complain nr^A try as best I can to overcome some of my prevailing faults for X am conscious of many. Hoping that the next time X write I will not be in such a slough of despond and may be more interesting I am as ever your loving daughter Lucy.Sue wishes me particularly to give you her love, aad la juite indignant because 1 forgot It last Sunday. My finger being stiff accounts for the stiffness of penmanship as I spent part of this afternoon fencing In the Corridor with Minnie Monroe as Miss Goodsell our corridor teacher Is In N.Y. for a few days.Bettor late than never I suppose * X much to my surprise found this letter la my desk which X supposed mailed last Monday morning - such carelessness I detest. LucySunday Evening- Fearing that to day X would not have time to write you X determined to Mar. 1, 1872 * 3 write last night in order to make sure of my home letter- but having Just read it over I cannot let such a sober horrid thing leave me when new X am in such a different humor The fact any body must be very rry^ out of sort U this lovely day does not make them feel splendid- X do not remember when X have enjoyed a sunday more* It seems more old ftifh^ and cosy like those at home- This morning we listened to a Sermon from Tames Beecher brother of Henry Ward. I dent think this particularly added to the pleasures of the day for me, as X did not like him at all though some of the congregation were very much pleased- The Afternoon being very I enjoyed a long walk of two hours - very much indeed- and having agreeable company X did'nt dream of its being ov~r one half hour wish is all required on the Sabbath day. (After my walk X had an engagement to go see one of the girl - who had promised to road to me- "Nannie It Our Boys" written by Miss Gertrude Mead a graduate of *70— This very interesting book - to gether with a compari- ttvely soft bed made the Afternoon pass very quickly. And the evening finds me writing a good night to my dear Father and Mother from this daughter. (Lucy (Sellers) Barnes, '75,
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