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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 14, 1866
Text: Vassar Collage Nov. 14, 1866 Dear Will, Such a season of watching as we are having! I might better say they, for I have gone to bed in the most solemn manner every night at ten, and only wished that I was on the observatory roof, counting meteors. As we have not seen any shower it is only reasonable to conclude that you have shared the same sad fate - I have no faith in its appearing tonight, but from the wonderful beauty and frequency of those seen during the two proceeding nights, I have...
Show moreVassar Collage Nov. 14, 1866 Dear Will, Such a season of watching as we are having! I might better say they, for I have gone to bed in the most solemn manner every night at ten, and only wished that I was on the observatory roof, counting meteors. As we have not seen any shower it is only reasonable to conclude that you have shared the same sad fate - I have no faith in its appearing tonight, but from the wonderful beauty and frequency of those seen during the two proceeding nights, I have freely uttered my belief that Monday night we entered it, Teusday we wore in it, and last night was the closing up. But as I am not an astronomer my opinion is not considered oracular in the least. I shall not attempt to describe what they saw, since Hattie will consider that herpeculiar priviledge, and justly too, she having having been an eye witness of the wonders. Miss Lyman made arrangements to have the bells rung and the whole College aroused if the shower appeared, and when the rising bell rang yesterday morning there was a general stampede to the windows of sleepy girls, who fully believed that 'twas the middle of the night, and the shower had surely come. The Po'keepsee people have at last awakened to sense of their duties, and were so much in earnest about the shower that they were to have the bells rung. Did the Detroit people take any interest in it? Hattee had a letter from Father this morning. In which he said that when you wrote you would have a great many funny stories about the elections. Did you work much at them? Only think how soon you will be able to vote! I wish I could - The only election item that I have heard was that a man in Po'keepsie, the post master, felldead on the court house steps on election night. He had the heart desease, and the great joy he felt on hearing of the Republican victories proved to be his death. I am surprised that the Republicans make so few demonstrations over their triumph, although I suppose I am hardly in a position to judge of any one's rejoicings. The girls are quite enthusiastic just now over archery - It seems to me rather late in the year to think about such things, but if they enjoy it I have no objection - I think It will prove rather an expensive experiment, as most of the bows, for which they pay from three to four dollars, break at the slightest strain. I presume a third of the girls have broken theirs already - We are going to begin to practice gymnastics in a little while. I must say that I don't feel very anxious for the time to come - I shall practice between nine and ten every evening, for forty minutes. Our gymnasium is a beautiful room with a deafened floor.There is also a little gallery over the platform for spectators. The room is intended for light gymnastics only - they have made no arrangements for anything else. We are not prospering very finely with our lectures - Gough can't come, nor Holland, nor Cartiss - Manning is the only one who has returned a favorable answer. What is the most aggravating part of it, is, that the girls don't even get autograph letters from the big ones - Holland's reply was printed, saying that he gives no lectures this winter - Gough's was written by a secretary, saying that he is engaged every evening till the last of May - Isn't it provoking? I think it must be profitable business to lecture. When you are a man you had better try it - I believe that you would like chemistry Will - I should love to be a practical chemist, and try all manner of beautiful experiments - So Father is going to be gone this winter - Poor Mother! Ah Will! How good you must be! You may never have such another opportunity to show forth the good there is in you. Be sure and improve it. Write soon do. I delight in your letters as do we all. Love to every one. Your loving sister Mattie.When I said "the girls were enthusiastic in archery" I meant the girls in general not any of our room.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar College. Sunday A. M. 6. o'clock My dear Will, I am up unusually early this morning for the purpose of attending an Easter service in one of the recitation rooms, held by the Episcopalian girls, and as I am going to church today, and may be tired this evening, I am going to write you now, so as to be sure of you. It is a beautiful spring morning, the rain last night was just sufficient to lay the dust nicely and make it delightful walking today. I am very glad for a great many...
Show moreVassar College. Sunday A. M. 6. o'clock My dear Will, I am up unusually early this morning for the purpose of attending an Easter service in one of the recitation rooms, held by the Episcopalian girls, and as I am going to church today, and may be tired this evening, I am going to write you now, so as to be sure of you. It is a beautiful spring morning, the rain last night was just sufficient to lay the dust nicely and make it delightful walking today. I am very glad for a great many girls want to walk into to church today on account of its being Easter, and the Holy Comforter, where the Episcopalians attend, is too far to walk in bad weather. Louise and I are going to the Methodist church we wentto last Sunday, and where we intend to go the rest of the time. Helen went over the river yesterday to what I call "the botanist Elysium," where she found a great many beautiful flowers. She and Miss Shattuck went together, and stayed till the middle of the afternoon. Trailing arbutus grows there and no where else in this region, they failed to find any however. Prof. Tenney obliged his botany class to make an herbarium of at least two hundred specimens. I am sure I don't know where they will find them, but Helen prides herself upon having nearly twenty already - I am glad that I took my life in my hand and was examined in Botany instead of studying it. Our invitations for Founder's Day have come. I think that they are vary pretty, and certainly less work and trouble than the written ones of last year. We are going to send you one. I wish thatyou could come. I have been snubbed by the Committee of Arrangements at every proposal I have made. I offered myself for marshall of the day, and they told me that the marshall was appointed and to my most urgent entreaties they only replied by laughing. I then mildly suggested the expediency of my writing the poem, and they had the poor taste to prefer Louise Blatchley. To be sure her poem is exquisite, but just consider what mine might have been. I likewise promised to wear my "Infant Phenomenon" clothes in case that they would suffer me to receive the guests in the parlor, and that they declined also. To think that my own sister is chairman of the committee, and treats me so. Minnie is coming back Tuesday night and my heart leaps whenever I think of it. We have missed her sorely. I trust that she will be quite well and able to go through the next nineweeks in safety. Just think how soon we will be at home about two months more and then. I hope that Mother is at home by this time. She said that she was going last week. I don't like to tell you how glad I am for you, lest she shouldn't have come, and it should prove an aggravation. Weren't Carrie and Lucy good? They have sent me a box of cake by Minnie. They thought that Minnie left a week earlier than she does and so brought it up last Friday. Give my love to all the people. I hope that you did your duty and called upon Minnie. I want to see you very much my dear. I must stop writing and go Chapel, and after that to church. You see I didn't succeed in finishing this before service this morning. I enjoyed the letter very much indeed. Good bye dear - Your sister - Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar Jan. 25th/66. My beloved Soror, Your letter filled me with unalloyed delight. It is a great delight that all that talent hasn't been wasted on the desert air - You must attribute all mistakes and incoherences, to the fact that Hattie Warner and Hattie Johnson are trying to screw a program for next society meeting - I at present feel highly misanthropical owing to the fact that our chapter is weaker than all the others and yet, owing to the fact that Minnie and Hattie are in it,...
Show moreVassar Jan. 25th/66. My beloved Soror, Your letter filled me with unalloyed delight. It is a great delight that all that talent hasn't been wasted on the desert air - You must attribute all mistakes and incoherences, to the fact that Hattie Warner and Hattie Johnson are trying to screw a program for next society meeting - I at present feel highly misanthropical owing to the fact that our chapter is weaker than all the others and yet, owing to the fact that Minnie and Hattie are in it, all the girls are pitching into us, hands, heads and feet. We are obliged to grow eloquent on the subject of our weakness and imbecility generally - I am very glad that you find Miss Beaumont so agreeable. Dont you see how important it is always to act upon my advice. The first thing I have to say is, that we have invested in a jolly new French teacher.His name is Rondelle. he has a beautiful black mustache, he is a widower, and added to these fascinations is handsome and "polite as a Frenchman". Isn't he a captivating chap and an improvement on our hateful old Madame? That lovely creature grew rampant when informed that her services were not needed, abused Prof. Knapp right and left, declared that her superior attainments, were the cause of her downfall, and wound up by offering herself to the musical department. Being respectfully declined in that quarter, she again attributed it to her superiority over the Prof, this time Wiebe. Then she announced her determination to remain at the College, declaring that they were obliged keep her a year in pursuance with the agreement, consequently the venerable dame has comfortably settled herself and begun to take painting lesson of poor terrified Prof. Voningen. Altogether she has furnished us with topics for conversation for two whole weeks and more.Another interesting curiosity is Miss Frost, of whom I may have spoken heretofore. She joined the Literary Society and was duly distributed into one of the Chapters. There are three young ladies Miss Frost, Miss Burnett, and Miss M. Ida Smythe, (writes for the N.Y. Mercury, and has written a book) whom the distributing committee considered too much talent for any one chapter and conscientiously distributed them, one in each Chapter. Miss Frost appeared a day or two ago, at the door of the Presidentess of her chapter, wearing a most forlorn expression - She desired to see Mrs. Miller alone for a few minutes, and then opened the sad tale of all her woes. "She didn't know, she thought she had better leave the society," "Why?" "Oh she didn't know, she didn't seem to be of any use, all the committees had been appointed, and the officers chosen, and she didn't have anything to do, or any place to fill." "Oh if she wanted something to do, there would be plenty for every one, compositions, recitations, readings &c. no idle ones would be suffered. "Yes, but she didn't know, that wasn't exactly what she meant, but all the officers were chosen and the committees, and she seemed overlooked, she didn't know." Isn't that a superb character? I told Mrs. Miller that I had two votes for secretary, and therefore was decidedly more fevered than she, I sure I don't know what I told you all this for, but what can I write if not about the girls. Miss Avery is giving us a course of Physiological Lectures, they are very fine, end she is a noble woman. I stumbled on Kittie Edmonds a few days ago, she said she knew the first instant she saw me that I was from D. but couldn't remember my name until she heard it, I never should have known her, but after that speech thought I could percieve vague traces of the Deacon floating over her features. I know both Miss Annan and Miss Noye, by sight, they seem like very nice girls, but certainly have most signally failed if they intended make an impression. I believe they arehis mother are doing finely - there is the retiring bell - Good night a thousand kisses from all of us - I can't half say what I want to - Good night. Mattie S. W. [Martha S. Warner, '68]
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 14, 1867
Text: Vassar Collage. May 14, 1867. Dear Will, Don't I beg of your, imagine for an instant that your unwonted epistolatory efforts are to have the effect of silencing mine, that would be a feat as difficult to accomplish for my pea as my tongue. What a good boy you are! Minnie feels highly flattered that her remarks should have boon such early and delightful fruit - Your letters are like cold water to a thirsty soul, if you could in any way appreciate how much we enjoy them, you certainly...
Show moreVassar Collage. May 14, 1867. Dear Will, Don't I beg of your, imagine for an instant that your unwonted epistolatory efforts are to have the effect of silencing mine, that would be a feat as difficult to accomplish for my pea as my tongue. What a good boy you are! Minnie feels highly flattered that her remarks should have boon such early and delightful fruit - Your letters are like cold water to a thirsty soul, if you could in any way appreciate how much we enjoy them, you certainly would be willing to undergo considerable personal sacrifice for the purpose of affording us so much pleasure. Only five more weeks any way! Before I say another word, let me congratulate you upon your promotion.I have but a very vague idea what a "buying clerk" may be, but still I know that it is better than staying up stairs where I was in constant fear lest you should poison yourself, by smelling some thing awful, or put out your eyes by a sudden puff of something, or come to some other equally deplorable end. So Carrie is to be married! I hope that you will go to the wedding, as of course you will if she has any friends at all. Don't I wish that I could be there to see. Hattie and Minnie have scarcely time to breathe, they ought to have a vacation as College boys do, and our class are going to insist upon it next year. They have formed a class organization, and being small in number, but great in ambition, they each took two offices. So their list of officers reads as follows Pres. M. L. Dickinson, Vice Pres. E. S. Geiger, Sec. H. D. Woodward. Treas. H. A. Warner. Poet H. D. Woodward. Sybil E. J.Geiger. Historian H. A. Warner, and I can't think what other thing Minnie is. They have no motto yet, but look longingly toward the Greek language to remedy the deficiency - Our class, numbering twenty five in all, can look down with undisguised scorn upon four Seniors and tell with many derisive smiles, what shall be done by the mighty '68ers. Have you had any spring yet? I don't know whether we have or not. From my own sensations and those of the mercury I should say decidedly not - but the presence of flowers, most of them blue and shivering however, and on occasional light dress, make me believe that the mercury and I err a little in our judgment of things - Ralph Waldo Emerson is going to lecture for us on Friday evening. I am quite curious to hear him, but rather expect him to be dry - He has not condescended to inform the committee what may be thesubject of his lecture, probably considering it sufficient that he consents to lecture to girls at all. I think that we shall have a very good course next year - Helen has, in addition to botanizing, taken kindly to surveying. They are surveying the College farm. I only trust that we shall have the pleasure of escorting her back to her paternal mansion an integer or whole number - I wish I were rather more active, and I'd write you a longer letter, but not feeling at all brilliant I think it my duty to stop before I ruin my reputation. Love to every body in the house & out of it who wants any. Good bye, continue in the well doing you have begun. Your loving sister Marthy S. WarnerMy dear Will, I thank you very much for your letter & will write as soon as I have time. I am very busy owing to the nearness of the close of the year. Love to all. Hattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: June 24, 1866
Text: Vassar College. June 24, 1866. Dear Will, I thought I might as well write once more before leaving here, especially as I desire to congratulate you upon your advanced age. Really mon frere, you are growing old with such rapidity that I expect to regard you with some what of awe and reverence, and to consider "my brother's judgment" as very weighty. Not an insinuation that it was of no weight heretofore, but as "a hoary head is a crown of glory", so every advancing...
Show moreVassar College. June 24, 1866. Dear Will, I thought I might as well write once more before leaving here, especially as I desire to congratulate you upon your advanced age. Really mon frere, you are growing old with such rapidity that I expect to regard you with some what of awe and reverence, and to consider "my brother's judgment" as very weighty. Not an insinuation that it was of no weight heretofore, but as "a hoary head is a crown of glory", so every advancing year adds one point to form the crown. How glad I shall be to distinguish your face among those waiting for friends at the depot, next Thursday. We are calculating upon your galantry you see. Be sure that we havenot counted upon you in vain. We now expect to reach home Thursday night, or rather afternoon, at about half past five. Possibly we may be delayed until Friday, at the same hour, therefore don't break your hearts if we are not there the first day, but I shall mine. Our room is in the most gorgeous confusion imaginable. Yesterday I undertook to pack, and brought out all my dresses, folded them, rolled them, laid them on the floor, sat down on Minnie's trunk and looked at them. After a while, in sheer desperation, I tucked every thing back again to wait till Monday. I am going to do it however, because if I never begin, I shall never know how. Prof. Tenney gave us a delightful lecture in Bible class this A.M., showing our duty to God as revealed in Nature. I wish you knew him. Will, I knowyou would like him exceedingly. He and Prof. Knapp are our men. Poor Prof. Knapp is killing himself just as fast as he can. He is worn out and sick, under the doctor's care, yet he persists at coming out here every day. Thursday he gave our Latin class a lecture on "Comparative Philology," when he had to carry his chair to and fro, to sit down, when he wanted to write on the board. Two or three times he stood up leaning on a pointer, when it seemed as if he would surely fall. I hope he won't come back next fall till he is quite rested and well. Prof. Tenney is well and strong, his work takes him out of doors so much. He is a noble man. I wish you could see little Sannie, only two and a half, and yet he knows more about birds and ether animals than I do. For instance the other day I was in there and a bird began to sing near the window and Sannie shouted "Bot-o-Link!" I hadno idea what it was, but Prof, said that he was right. He cried so for turtles that they stopped bringing them late the house. Won't you be glad to see us again? If not you are a gony, and I don't want to see you a bit. Its hot as peper sauce today, and Minnie after walking to Po'keepsie yesterday, is determined to walk to Sunset Hill. I only hope she won't find any companion, for it will surely make her sick. I guess she won't go - Its a perfect shame that we have not seen any more of the beautiful places around here, but we have never been outside grounds, except to go to that horrible Poughkeepsie. Next year I'm going over the river, a sort of Utopia for botanists. By the way I've seen the laurel! The last excursionists brought home great loads of it - I think it is the most beautiful flower taken in all its bearings that I ever saw. I must stop now. Can't possibly write a word more. Good bye, dear Your loving sister Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: January 25, 1866
Text: Vassar Jan. 25th/66. My beloved Soror, Your letter filled me with unalloyed delight. It is a great delight that all that talent hasn't been wasted on the desert air - You must attribute all mistakes and incoherences, to the fact that Hattie Warner and Hattie Johnson are trying to screw a program for next society meeting - I at present feel highly misanthropical owing to the fact that our chapter is weaker than all the others and yet, owing to the fact that Minnie and Hattie are in it,...
Show moreVassar Jan. 25th/66. My beloved Soror, Your letter filled me with unalloyed delight. It is a great delight that all that talent hasn't been wasted on the desert air - You must attribute all mistakes and incoherences, to the fact that Hattie Warner and Hattie Johnson are trying to screw a program for next society meeting - I at present feel highly misanthropical owing to the fact that our chapter is weaker than all the others and yet, owing to the fact that Minnie and Hattie are in it, all the girls are pitching into us, hands, heads and feet. We are obliged to grow eloquent on the subject of our weakness and imbecility generally - I am very glad that you find Miss Beaumont so agreeable. Dont you see how important it is always to act upon my advice. The first thing I have to say is, that we have invested in a jolly new French teacher.His name is Rondelle. he has a beautiful black mustache, he is a widower, and added to these fascinations is handsome and "polite as a Frenchman". Isn't he a captivating chap and an improvement on our hateful old Madame? That lovely creature grew rampant when informed that her services were not needed, abused Prof. Knapp right and left, declared that her superior attainments, were the cause of her downfall, and wound up by offering herself to the musical department. Being respectfully declined in that quarter, she again attributed it to her superiority over the Prof, this time Wiebe. Then she announced her determination to remain at the College, declaring that they were obliged keep her a year in pursuance with the agreement, consequently the venerable dame has comfortably settled herself and begun to take painting lesson of poor terrified Prof. Voningen. Altogether she has furnished us with topics for conversation for two whole weeks and more.Another interesting curiosity is Miss Frost, of whom I may have spoken heretofore. She joined the Literary Society and was duly distributed into one of the Chapters. There are three young ladies Miss Frost, Miss Burnett, and Miss M. Ida Smythe, (writes for the N.Y. Mercury, and has written a book) whom the distributing committee considered too much talent for any one chapter and conscientiously distributed them, one in each Chapter. Miss Frost appeared a day or two ago, at the door of the Presidentess of her chapter, wearing a most forlorn expression - She desired to see Mrs. Miller alone for a few minutes, and then opened the sad tale of all her woes. "She didn't know, she thought she had better leave the society," "Why?" "Oh she didn't know, she didn't seem to be of any use, all the committees had been appointed, and the officers chosen, and she didn't have anything to do, or any place to fill." "Oh if she wanted something to do, there would be plenty for every one, compositions, recitations, readings &c. no idle ones would be suffered. "Yes, but she didn't know, that wasn't exactly what she meant, but all the officers were chosen and the committees, and she seemed overlooked, she didn't know." Isn't that a superb character? I told Mrs. Miller that I had two votes for secretary, and therefore was decidedly more fevered than she, I sure I don't know what I told you all this for, but what can I write if not about the girls. Miss Avery is giving us a course of Physiological Lectures, they are very fine, end she is a noble woman. I stumbled on Kittie Edmonds a few days ago, she said she knew the first instant she saw me that I was from D. but couldn't remember my name until she heard it, I never should have known her, but after that speech thought I could percieve vague traces of the Deacon floating over her features. I know both Miss Annan and Miss Noye, by sight, they seem like very nice girls, but certainly have most signally failed if they intended make an impression. I believe they arehis mother are doing finely - there is the retiring bell - Good night a thousand kisses from all of us - I can't half say what I want to - Good night. Mattie S. W. [Martha S. Warner, '68]
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 18, 1865
Text: Vassar, Oct. 18, 1865. My dear sister Nellie. Don't read this out load. If Father or Willie are around. My principal, particular, and exact reason for writing to you just now is to sound the praises of Prof. Knapp. We assembled this A.M. in the Livy class, fear and trembling on our countenances, a most horrible Romulus and Remus lesson in our hands. I thought I was completely steeled by my Cicero and Virgil experience, but I never dreaded the thought of reading any thing so much, in my...
Show moreVassar, Oct. 18, 1865. My dear sister Nellie. Don't read this out load. If Father or Willie are around. My principal, particular, and exact reason for writing to you just now is to sound the praises of Prof. Knapp. We assembled this A.M. in the Livy class, fear and trembling on our countenances, a most horrible Romulus and Remus lesson in our hands. I thought I was completely steeled by my Cicero and Virgil experience, but I never dreaded the thought of reading any thing so much, in my life. Prof. Knapp called the roll, took our review translations, which we write out and bring into class, gave us ours for yesterday, told us that he was otherwise engaged and would not heard us this morning, and by the way, we needn't write out the translation for tomorrow, and dismissed us, with the injunction "Go quickly to your rooms." It was all done so naturally and unconcernedly,that a stranger would never have imagined that any more was the matter than he stated. I actually feel affection for him already. I presume at least I hope, that his engagement was to attend a class of Madame's. she doesn't know how to teach very well, and her classes feel somewhat out of patience with her. Miss Johnson went to Prof. Knapp a day or two ago, and asked to be put into a lower class which Miss Fesseadeu teaches, he questioned her a little and said he would go into her class and hear her. Consequently I presume he has gone now. As far as Madame's table is concerned, I sat there for three meals, and found that they only talked French around Madame and never uttered a syllable while I was there, the result was that I was sick with headache and went back to my own table. I believe that they do talk rather more French there now. Prof. Wiebt "the music man" has a German table which I think I shall join. They have no opportunity to speak English under the watchful eyes of Mr. Mrs. and Miss. Imagine methere. The sun has been beautifully eclipsed today. Did you look at it? Miss Mitchell gave Hattie some pieces of glass and we spent most of the time we were not in classes, squinting at his Solar Majesty. Miss M. has been making observations all the morning. We had our study hours assigned today. I am glad for we have been annoyed by visitors when we wanted to study. They are from nine A.M. until twelve, from two till five, and from half past seven until nine - I did beautifully in Livy this morning congratulate me. (I presume that by this time, you understand that today is tomorrow). We were very glad to recieve a paper this morning. How sad Mrs. Strong's death is. I wonder what will become of her little children. I don't know what to say about John Ward, it seems almost as if he deserved it, but think of his poor wife, almost a bride, and of that boy. I should not think he could forget a single instant that he is a mur-derer. Have you got Hattie's letter about that chenile? Minnie's birthday comes next week. Miss Gilbert sent a great deal of love back to you, therefore you need not be afraid to sen some more. She often mentions you and seems to consider you nearly perfection. I guess it is her way to make a great deal of anyone whom she fancies, she does just so by Minnie They are both great favorites here. Miss Mitchel thinks Hattie is fine, she told them one day at the Presidents table about her, and how smart she is, and Miss Wiebe came in here one day and told of it, in her funny German fashion. No American would ever have done it so. I am very hungry for a letter. I had no idea that they made such a difference. I hope you didn't ask any very important questions as I can't find your letter. Who were the ministers at our house? Were they pleasant? I would a great deal to be able to take tea at home tonight, and spend the evening in the back parlor. Give my love to the familyand the girls. I suppose that busy is no name for Sara's state of mind. Prof. Buckham has brought home his family - such sweet pretty little things - the orthodox number for Vassar College, a little boy and a little girl, the girl with light curls. Prof. Buckham looks like a different person. Mrs. Farrar had been visiting almost ever since school began, and that is why we haven't seen her - Quantities of love from all of us to all the people. Your loving sister Mattie (Martha S. Waraer, '68)
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 3
Text: Vassar Nov. 3rd My dear Nellie, Of course I didn't notice your note. Could you have expected that I would do any thing so derogatory to my dignity as to notice a note of one half sheet in answer to my orthodox letter, when it was written in pencil too! Certainly not! Moreover you must not expect to receive letters from me written on other days than Fridays unless the cholera breaks out among us. I am extremely considerate of your comfort and write Friday and then it is matted Saturday,...
Show moreVassar Nov. 3rd My dear Nellie, Of course I didn't notice your note. Could you have expected that I would do any thing so derogatory to my dignity as to notice a note of one half sheet in answer to my orthodox letter, when it was written in pencil too! Certainly not! Moreover you must not expect to receive letters from me written on other days than Fridays unless the cholera breaks out among us. I am extremely considerate of your comfort and write Friday and then it is matted Saturday, but if I write Saturday it wouldn't be mailed until Monday. Don't mention it. I always knew that I was a miracle of goodness. As for Dr. Pomeroy's marriage I did write to Sara as soon as I received herletter, and I didn't before, because I didn't know whether she would want me to. I think that so far from being worse it is a great deal better than Miss Leroy. It won't be half so hard for the girls to have her at the head of the house as it would a young girl, as for her character nothing was ever proved against her, we can't say that she is not perfectly innocent, and what right have we to judge her - For herself personally have always heard her spoken of a very pleasant agreeable woman, and I hope and think she will do all in her power to make it pleasant for the girls. As for George I don't suppose it will make any difference to the poor boy, one way, or the other, very long. I hope that you and Mother will call on her, as if she never had been any body else. I am greatly rejoiced at your good fortune. A water proof dress is not a thing to be despised. I wish you could see the water proofs here. they come marching in it ail kinds of weather intochapel, dining hall, and recitation rooms. For the credit of the young ladies I will say that they have been almost entirely dropped since Miss Lyman gave the a lecture on the subject. But there is a young lady named Swift whom I never have seen without her waterproof but once when she had on a flannel sack and a handkerchief around her neck. Helen Dana thinks it a pity because she will wear it out before the year is out, and be at the expense of a new one. Miss Gilbert had a letter today saying that her brother George is coming home this winter. She is almost crazy with delight. Hattie gave her your messages and she said she know you would if you hadn't forgotten her. She seems to consider you "a model of all the virtues". What has possessed you to attempt giving Hattie Benson lessons? Couldn't she find a teacher anywhere? I am very glad that you have found a German teacher at last. Mrs. King came into Haigh's one daywhen I was there, and quite exhausted me. There is a girl here by the name of Rhodes who is only seventeen and has read Caesar, 8 orations of Cicero, 8 books of Virgil, Sallust and the Germania and Agricola of Tacitus. She is studying Levy, German, Astronomy and French, and is going to take up Eng. Lit. in order to have her time occupied. Moreover she is a very thorough, careful student. Likewise Miss Glover is something remarkable. She went through the Lawrence Schools without making a single failure in any of her classes. She does recite wonderfully - She told me that the last part of the time she studied Xenophon that they took six pages a lesson and were expected to parse as accurately as if it had been six lines, which she coolly said "made it very hard." I like her very much she looks like Hattie Goodell - Miss Starr is coming in after study hours to read over her Greek lessons - I like her better each time I see her - Isn't it funny that her name is Sarah? She is an only child and an orphan. Wears deep black, and has no relative nearer than a cousin and only two of those. She admires Sara's picture very much and always asks me something about her when she comes in here. Also she takes a deep interest in mud turtle, which is thriving finely and an object of much interestto every one who comes in here - I don't know just what to feed him - What an astonishing woman Mrs. Howard is! Do they really think that she is going to get quite well again - I am glad to hear that Mr. Tarbox is fairly disposed of - I wish that Mr. Kent would follow suit - Tell Mother to remember us to T. Hougtingdon and ask him if Sarah is still in Burlington. I was delighted to hear from Father and should have written to him bat Hattie did. A great deal of love to Will tell him that he would be vain enough if he could have heard all I have said about him - Every one makes it a point to praise their relatives a little more than the one that spoke before them. Nellie I perceive that blessings brighten as they take their flight. I fear that if I should come home the cookieswould be as dear as ever. Give such heaps of love to all at home and at Sara's from all of us. Miss G Sends love, as to Mr. Freeland and Co - With a great deal and a thousand kisses I am your little sister Mattie.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar Coll. Sept. 25 My dear Nellie, You have no idea how much I missed home yesterday afternoon, and yet it was not half so lonely as I had imagined it would be. We had a sort of Bible class after chapel conducted by Prof. Buckham. I liked him very much, the school is to be divided into three parts. Miss Lyman takes one Prof. Buckham another and Prof. Farrar the third. I hope we shall be in Prof. Farrar's. After Bible class Miss Lyman came in and told Minnie Miss Fessenden was going to...
Show moreVassar Coll. Sept. 25 My dear Nellie, You have no idea how much I missed home yesterday afternoon, and yet it was not half so lonely as I had imagined it would be. We had a sort of Bible class after chapel conducted by Prof. Buckham. I liked him very much, the school is to be divided into three parts. Miss Lyman takes one Prof. Buckham another and Prof. Farrar the third. I hope we shall be in Prof. Farrar's. After Bible class Miss Lyman came in and told Minnie Miss Fessenden was going to church, and she could go with her, so we flew around and helped her get ready, and found Miss Carr and Miss Deppan (i.e. Deppen) in the hall watching her off. We talked a few minutes and then invited them into our room. They came in and staid about an hour, we had a verypleasant quiet talk. They are young ladies from Troy, both dress in deep mourning, and I have an idea they are cousins. There is a very pretty girl rooms with them whose name is Silsby. I like them all very much. After they left we read different things. I read principally Minnie's big poetry book. We had about half a dozen books from the library, but they were not particularly fascinating. Miss Gilbert brought in a couple of books she had borrowed from Miss Sayles. she let Hattie take one, a sort of poetical treatise on the New Jerusalem. Minnie came home at five minutes after one. she thought the enjoyment scarcely paid for all the trouble she had getting permission. I forgot to tell you that the girls are not allowed to go church but after a good deal trouble Minnie had permission to go with Miss Fessenden. she is a very sweet looking teacher. Minnie came back full of the information that Miss F. had been teaching in Mrs. Worcester's school, knew Katie Pease very well, and had seen a great deal of her this summer. Then we had a very sensible Sunday dinner. Oyster soup, and grapes and apples for desert. After dinner we came back and dressed for chapel. I wore my brown fall dress, a ruffle in my neck, my mauve ribbon. I looked very nicely. Minnie wore her black & white dress. Hattie her fall dress. At half past three, bells rang for chapel where we had an excellent sermon from Dr. Raymond that "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom." After chapel we went into the library for a few minutes, and then came back home. Miss Gilbert came in here a few minutes before tea, when we went to dining hall and I had bread and milk. We always have two large pitchers of milk on the table besides the cream pitchers, beautiful yellow milk. After tea came silent hour, and chapel, then Miss Dana came into our room for a little while. The girls were a little afraid of being considered prisoners, when they found that the gates are locked and no girls allowed to go out, but I think they will soon recover. We have just been interrupted by a visit from Miss Hill and Miss Harris, twoyoung hopes who reside next door. I like Miss Hill very much, but can't say that I care to cultivate Miss Harris' acquaintance. O! I forgot to state, that yesterday morning before we were dressed Mrs. Metcalf brought us a letter from home. I assure you I was delighted. I am very sorry that Mr. Colburn was sick. I am sorry for all we said because he didn't come and see us. I stopped in the midst of this letter. I had to stop for chapel, and on my way Mrs, Metcalf met me with Will's letter. It certainly was one of the best letters I ever read. I shall write him very soon. Does Sara's hired woman have the impudence to sport her daughter also? I am so glad that Mother has a new dress - balmoral ditto. I have read over Mother's and JWillie's letters three times already. It was so kind of Mother to write too. I read my letter first in chapel waiting for Dr. Raymond and ever so many girls looked as greedy as possible. I have not been one bit homesick yet, a day or two ago when Miss Lyman said in chapel that three of the young ladies fathers were waiting to see them it almostmade the tears come. Miss Usher has a letter of introduction to us. I shall be glad when she is able to be seen. I wish you could see Madame. She is killing. Miss Lyman told us one day that we ought to step faster in changing during silent hours - so Madame gathers her skirts around her and rushes through the halls imagine Mrs. McLeod undergoing the same graceful process and you can have a faint idea of her appearance. Give a great deal of love to all. as to Bridget how she would like to wash for three hundred girls beside nine women and children, we are allowed a dozen articles collars & cuffs count as one - I should hate to have charge of the laundry. It is raining hard, the weather until yesterday has been perfect. Miss Gilbert says she doesn't think we shall be reached in the examinations before Wednesday - I wish they were over. The girls almost all wear calico in the A.M. - so Hattle & I are sporting our calicoes. How are the girls flourishing. Tell Father not to be troubled about our lettersfor we haven't anything else to do at present. I am contemplating drawing up a plan of the house & sending it to you.I hope that Max survive my absence with tolerable composure, increased loss of flesh would be unbecoming. I think I have Dr. JL's sweet voice as much as anything.Give a great deal of love to Father, Mother, Willie and yourself - We have got to send all the letters we write home to be mailed for the present. Ican't say I consider it pleasant, but in view of the fact that Miss Hill has five gentlemen correspondents upon whom she had decided I don't know but it is necessary. Do write soon and occasionally send us a paper.Minnie says she wants a plate of grapes too. Unsigned (probably Martha S. Warner, '68)
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar Nov. 20. My dear dear Nellie. I am thoroughly ashamed of myself to have spoken in such a spiteful manner about your writing - especially inasmuch as I received your letter just two minutes after having sealed mine to Mother What is the matter with your eyes? I am sorry for you. You must be very careful and not be induced to use them much. We had Father's note this noon, and I assure you we were delighted at the thought of seeing him - Hattie went up to ask Miss Lyman and she said ...
Show moreVassar Nov. 20. My dear dear Nellie. I am thoroughly ashamed of myself to have spoken in such a spiteful manner about your writing - especially inasmuch as I received your letter just two minutes after having sealed mine to Mother What is the matter with your eyes? I am sorry for you. You must be very careful and not be induced to use them much. We had Father's note this noon, and I assure you we were delighted at the thought of seeing him - Hattie went up to ask Miss Lyman and she said "O yes" almost before Hattie had finished speaking - But our joy was very much dampened by the sad, sad news of Ned Brush. What a terrible blow it must be to the family. Poor Willie must feel very badly. Give all our loves to himand tell him, how much we all feel for him. Ned makes the seventh High School boy that has died - Lucretia Goodwin is the only girl. Did the boys come in from Ann Arbor? And did the High School attend the funeral. I don't think that there is any other boy whose death would have affected us all as Ned's has. I can't realize at all that tomorrow morning we shall see Father! I didn't dream that I wanted to see him so much Saturday we were all so frustrated that we didn't accomplish a single thing - Unless it was to call on Mrs. Banister. She is certainly a wonderful woman. Her hair is but little gray, and her whole appearance is that of a lady whose tenor of life has been very even. She taught Miss Lyman's Bible Class Sunday, and we all went in to hear her. She talked most beautifully to us. I don't believe I shall ever forget it. Minnie says she thinks it is worth coming to Vassar to have seen her. She cameinto our room and admired it extremely - I presume I shall write another sheet tomorrow after having seen Father, but I felt moved in spirit to write tonight - What started Lucy and Ed Butler up to our house? Did they come in the day time? I judged so from your letter. I think Sallie's photograph is perfect. I have taken a great deal of comfort from it. Her dress is sweet pretty isn't it - She told me in her last letter that her Father would be married on the sixth of December. I do hope they will be happy - If Mrs. Birch doesn't behave herself I hope she'll repent of her marriage. How I hope Mary will be married before long. We do use the most refined and cultivated style of Continental here. I have reached such a point of perfection that I can say eenyourea without any desire to shout injuria afterwards as I had at first. Prof. Knapp pronounces beautifully - It is a treat to hear him - For thatmatter he does everything as perfectly as possible. I am glad to hear that you have succeeded so finely with "Hattie's remains." There is a girl here who sports a dress exactly like it. I beg a thousand pardons, but I have just looked over your letter and discovered that you said evening with reference to Lucy - It's singular that we none of us noticed it, but we all spoke of it and wondered if she could have brought him up there in the day time - Lizzie Reed had a letter today containing the death of Judge Collamer of Vt - Has Father heard of it? I am happy to hear that you are so charitably disposed. I hope you will send all your spare clothes. Did you have your waterproof dress made gored? I think they are immesureably prettier. I saw by a paper Minnie received today that they are afraid of cholera in New York. If it comes I have no intention of going there if it does seem - If it wasn't for paying 7.50 per week for board I'd prefer to stay here. I know they will have first class times. Minnie says she just wishes you were here. She thinks you would be a real comfort to our dear little Prof, in German and French - she and Hattie sufficient in Greek! Isn't she puffed up? By the way Nell I wonder if Avery Knapp is any relation to our beloved prof - Such a brilliant younggentleman that it seems a matter of certainty that he is related to some distinguished person - Have your eyes rested upon his fair countenance lately - I am ever so glad you like Miss Beaumeut so well. I hope you will cultivate her with such assiduity as to obtain an introduction to Gardener Clark. But don't on any account say "How do you do Mr. Gardener." Hattie had a letter today containing a photograph of Emma Sebring, she has also had one from Sate Kelley, they are both very pleasant looking girls. One day last week she had a letter mailed at Poughkeepsie. Who it could be we could not imagine, and puzzled over it some time. It proved to be from the illustrious hero, James Cadman, who inclosed in a note, a letter of introduction from his Mother, and asked permission to call. Miss Lyman said that altho' the introduction should have been from her parents, (i.e Hattie's) that she might see him, consequentlyHattie despatched him a note to that effect Saturday afternoon, when we were so anxiously watching the omnibuses in hopes of seeing Father, the little dot who waits on the door, appeared with a card in her hand. We all screamed and jumped, thinking that of course he was here, when what was our dismay to read - "Jas. P. Cadman." "What a fall was there my countryman"! I haven't got over it yet. As the Irishman said "it wasn't the going up hurt me, 'twas the coming down." I wrote thus far last night, when the bell rang and the gas went out. In the morning we started out in a pouring rain and rode down to the depot in style accompanied by Mrs. Raymond and Mr. Smith, that is as far as the Gregory House. I took quite a fancy to her - We waited in the depot for about an hour, when the cars came and out we rushed and saw our dear good Father. How I do love him. We had just about fifteen minutes tosee him, he introduced us to Miss Simpson, she is very pleasant looking. We gabbered as fast as possible until he was obliged to start. I wish it was Thursday. We had quite a time opening our hat box. Father forgot to bring the key and we couldn't find any one that would fit it - Mr. Wheeler tried to pick it but he didn't succeed, so at last Minnie took the lock off bodily. You don't know how very much good the whole contents did us - I am writing with my dearly beloved prodigal son of a lead pencil. Hattie's bonnet is beautiful, and has been much admired - The rose buds are a great addition. Tell Bridget that the cookies were extremely welcome. I was very much afraid that you wouldn't send any eatables. I could smell the apples all the way home. How kind it was of Mother to send me some gloves. Hattie's hat is very pretty. I feel in a most happy state of frame generally. Lottie Harris a dear little girl wholives next door, sends word that she hopes you will send some heavy sponge cake next time - I think I shall like that tintype by day but I can't see it distinctly by gas light. My letters from Sara and Emma were capital - How terrible Ned's death is - I can't realise it at all. Miss Gilbert sends much love. I don't know but I have said that before. Never mind it will bear repeating - I must stop and begin to study. Give such quantities of love to Mother that she won't know what to do with it. Tell Willie poor boy that I want to put both my arms around his neck and kiss him, and tell him how very sorry I am for him. I do hope you'll forgive and forget what I said to Mother, and I'll never do the like more. Don't hurt your eyes my dear. Love to every one Minnie and Hattie of course, say so. They are studying Greek. I do wish I could see you - Write soon as you can but do be careful of your eyes, or I shall have to go home and tend to you. Good bye - Your loving - Mattie. (Martha S. Warner, '68)
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 28, 1866
Text: Vassar College. Mar. 28th 1866. My dear Sister Nellie, Your letter was received with acclamations upon Thursday of this week. You are just as good as can be, to write such nice long letters. The days our letters come are marked with white stones, you may be sure. At first we couldn't hardly believe that that tintype was intended for you, but the more I look at it the better I like it. Your face is much fuller than it was last summer. I am very much obliged for it, it seems as if you are...
Show moreVassar College. Mar. 28th 1866. My dear Sister Nellie, Your letter was received with acclamations upon Thursday of this week. You are just as good as can be, to write such nice long letters. The days our letters come are marked with white stones, you may be sure. At first we couldn't hardly believe that that tintype was intended for you, but the more I look at it the better I like it. Your face is much fuller than it was last summer. I am very much obliged for it, it seems as if you are a good deal nearer. I want Mother's and Willie's now. It flattery is wanted, to secure some photographs, I'll give you as much as you want, send your order, and I'll fill it out. How's Will? You didn't mention him. Can he walk yet? I hope Father has reached home at last.I do wish he could have come to see us. As for Prof. Knapp, we are all happy. I really think that we love him better every day. I can't tell you how much I enjoy Horace with him. He is the most wonderful teacher I ever saw. I don't mean to go home, (thirteen weeks from next Thursday) without his photograph, nor that of Prof. Tenney. So we have fairly colonized! What a shame that Scripps and Richardson didn't follow them. Minnie surmises that a new and feeble church would be too expensive. I consider that suspicion unjust, and presume that the true difficulty lay in the purchase of a ready built church, so that Mr. Scripps could have no opportunity to use that long hoarded fund, which he mentioned to Mr. Wheaton. What a spiteful gentleman the last named individual is! He never seems to avoid an opportunity for a hateful remark. I hope Bro. Kent's search will be successful, and that our new pastor will savor a little more of good looks, and a little less of "steamboat politeness" than that gentleman does. Ah Nellie! that was hateful as ever Mr. Wheaton was, wasn't it. I think I had better put myself under condemnation first. There is a great deal of interest in Poughkeepsie Union prayer meetings are held daily at four o'clock. Prof. Knapp took charge of one last Wednesday; agood many girls went in, but I couldn't. Prayer were offered for Mr. Rondelle, who has been very sick, hemmorage of the lungs, I believe. Miss Tutwiller, alias Alabama, has heard his classes. I like her very much: she is a good teacher, and is evidently thoroughly conversant with the French language. From something our little Prof. told Minnie we have concluded that she is to take charge of the German class as soon as Mr. Rondelle returns. I pity her, for they have been under Prof. Knapp all the year till now. I have never read "Mutual Friend," but want to very much. We are going to read "Philip Second of Spain" provided we can get it in the Library. I read out loud in recrea-tion period, and the girls sew, or do something. Nellie Baker is coming in and we'll have real nice times. We like Nellie very much. she, or rather her parents, are from Rutland. Her father says that he has seen Hattie - but she has no earthly recollections of him - He knows father. (There is a beautiful girl here, a Nettie Caitin, who is a grand child of Horace Wheeler of Burlington. Did you ever hear of him? I think you are mistaken about that Young Men's Hall's performance. A letter from Emma last week told all about it. It is very strange that Willie doesn't know about it. Emma says that the family won't let her take part, which I consider sensible. If you are chagrined at having written me but twelve letters, what will be your sentiments when you learn that you have written Hattie only six. We have contracted a habit, which I think you would like if you should adopt it - viz we keep a letter account, in which we charge every letter we write, and every oneten Hattie twelve letters, counting those to us both, which she keeps - Now isn't that good? Just as many as Minnie's father who is her main correspondent has written. Mrs. D. hasn't written to Minnie once, its very hard for her and M. says she doesn't write a letter once a year - Neither has Minnie written to her but twice. Love to the girls - I hate to stop writing home when I begin - Tell every body to behave with decorum till we come home - Minnie and Hattie send love, be sure and write your next letter to her. Good bye dear, a thousand kisses, from your sister Mattie - [Martha S. Warner, '68]
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: June 04, 1866
Text: Vassar College. 6 mo. 4, 1866. Dear Nellie, Many thanks for your good long letter. What an astonishing man to travel Father is growing to be. Do you suppose he really will come for us? I hope he won't want us to go any sooner or wait any? because I do believe either deed would utterly destroy the remenant of brains which I own. It will be very pleasant to have him, especially as there are several little girls going on with us to Chicago. Helen I don't believe that I shall write to...
Show moreVassar College. 6 mo. 4, 1866. Dear Nellie, Many thanks for your good long letter. What an astonishing man to travel Father is growing to be. Do you suppose he really will come for us? I hope he won't want us to go any sooner or wait any? because I do believe either deed would utterly destroy the remenant of brains which I own. It will be very pleasant to have him, especially as there are several little girls going on with us to Chicago. Helen I don't believe that I shall write to you more than three times more, before I reach home! What is the matter with Congress? I saw in the paper that they had repealed the tax on pig iron, which I supposed would greatly rejoice him. I hope he'll gain his point, whatever it is. Hattie Pearl's marriage as well as Mattie Messenger's had reached me by way of Lucy Hawley to Hattie. I am very glad that Hattie Pearl has married Mr. Pond, and not Mr. Kent. That gentleman does not appear to increase in aimability as his years. Mother must have enjoyed the visit from Mr. & Mrs. Weed very much. I am so glad she has seen them again. Was all that nonsense about T. Huntingdon & his washing true, that Father said? If so I think him an impertinent puppy, & I can't imagine why Mother agreed to do it - Miss LeMaire is to be congratulated - Did she marry a Detroit sprig? If so what is the occupation and calling of the same? It must be a relief to the Silsbee's that Mrs. Silsbee is finally at rest. How are the financial interests of the family? Last I heard they were nearly penniless.I am glad that you have a bonnet likewise a basquine. It will be the duty of the family to provide those articles for Hattie after her arrival in D - What style is Empress? I am a perfect barbarian in regard to fashions you see. What a looking letter! In regard to the exact hour of our return. I am unable to state positively - We had laid all our plans to reach home about five o'clock Friday evening - but of course if Father comes for us, it will be just as he says - I hope he won't see fit to alter any thing, for I don't want to leave here a minute before school is out, and I dont want to be a minute later at home. Won't it be joyful! I can't tell you how I long for a place at the foot of Mother's bed. and a good long talk with all of you - Miss Gilbert is able to be around, but is prevented from hearing her classes, by a large stye on her eye. I think it wouldbe the best thing she could do to go home and stay there, and suffer another one to reign in her stead. We have finished the first book of the Mem. or will have done when this reaches you - We have our last lesson Wednesday - Then we reveiw preparatory to an examination by Prof. Knapp. I am utterly witless this afternoon, and shall wait until evening - [In pencil in a different hand] (Well how do you do? Home in three weeks more!!! Father to go home with!!! Aren't going to have an address before our Society!!! Ought to be writing an article for our Society paper. Don't know what to write about. The last scene in the drama has closed with, Exeunt all my ideas-) Did you ever hear of such impertinence! See what I'll do to her next letter! It's wet and rainy, and damp, and sleepy - Love to all, tell Sallie to write just once more. Tell Mother to preserve her strength to hug us. I don't know anything, or care for anything. Minnie & Hattie send love - Good bye, your most stupid sister Mattie S. W.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: January 07, 1866
Text: Vassar Jan 7/66 Dear Nellie, I was most extremely delighted to receive your letter, likewise the scarf. Seems to me you are growing rather frisky, going to so many parties and fixing up in such grand style. I think that your opera cloak must be beautiful. The pieces were very much admired. I am very glad you enjoyed yourself so much, both at Miss Beaumont's and the McGraws. Have you effected an introduction to Mr. Barnum? I hope you didn't say Mr. Clark Gardiner. Is Mr. Low as...
Show moreVassar Jan 7/66 Dear Nellie, I was most extremely delighted to receive your letter, likewise the scarf. Seems to me you are growing rather frisky, going to so many parties and fixing up in such grand style. I think that your opera cloak must be beautiful. The pieces were very much admired. I am very glad you enjoyed yourself so much, both at Miss Beaumont's and the McGraws. Have you effected an introduction to Mr. Barnum? I hope you didn't say Mr. Clark Gardiner. Is Mr. Low as distressed looking as ever. I am delighted to hear that Thomas Huntingdon is growing so festive, remember us to him. I wish you had had daylight to tell me about Christmas. I am impatient to hear allabout the home Holidays. We had most gorgeous time at Brooklyn. I entirely agree with you that it is the pleasantest family to visit in that I ever came across. Isn't it a shame that they are so feeble. Fannie didn't go out with us but once, to Central Park. that was Christmas, and as perfect a day as we could have had. We had a carriage and didn't walk a step, but Fannie came home with such a headache that she went right to bed and didn't sit up all the next day, and was miserable for three or four days. Mattie wasn't able to go out at all. Aunt Rebecca seems very well, she says you wouldn't know her for the same person she was at Warsaw. Uncle Edwin is magnificent, Uncle Frank was there the last week. The weather was wretched! I never saw such days. First it rained, and then it blew, and then it snew and than - it thew." I was much more tired from school than I had thought, and spent most of my time get rested as hard asI could. I beg of you to excuse this abominable? I shouldn't have used the sheet if I had seen it in time! I went to Central Park, Christmas Day, and enjoyed it extremely. What a grand place it is, and what an honor to New York. Tuesday eve, altho it was raining hard, Charlie, Emma, Hattie and I went to the Academy of Music to hear Dr. Stor's lecture on "American Manhood." The last part of the lecture was very fine he first was rather dull. I was very glad of an opportunity to see the Academy of M. which far surpassed my expectations. Friday we spent at the Duncklee's. We had a very pleasant day. Mrs. Duncklee sent a great deal of love to you and Mother she greatly desires to see that letter which you wrote her about Mrs. Howard. Their house is large and handsome, but I believe they have got to move. Nellie Gray is to be married tomorrow to a Mr. Dimoud of the Sandwich Islands. He is a nephewof Mrs. Dimoud's husband - I believe they are to sail immediately. George Gray is in India, he has made one large fortune and lost it, and is now I believe teaching school. Clara has another baby, a boy a few months old. he was born in the midst of the cholera, none of them had it. Clara was very sick but is well now. They have a beautiful photograph of Clara and her baby. I suppose it is the older one. Mrs. Merriam is pretty well now, but they expect her to be sick after the wedding. Mr. Dimoud is aged twenty six. a widower with three children. Mr. Crafts has married again and Nellie and Harry and Mrs. Douglass have gone on. George was in the army when the war ended, and the last they heard of him he was coming to. They didn't seem inclined to talk about him. Mary hasn't changed a particle. Sarah has improved exceedingly, in every respect. Libbie has altered very much. I should not of have recognized her. Capt.Schauffler, Clara's brother-in-law, called while we were at dinner. I didn't see him. Mrs. Duncklee seemed quite well. So much for them. Sunday we went to hear Beecher. I can't say I should care to make a practice of spending three quarters of an hour Sunday morning, standing in the aisle of Plymouth Church, altho' a great many distinguished persons have done it before me. we had the rare good fortune to sit behind our President, which have amply repaid us for all we had endured even if Beecher had not. I liked Mr. Beecher very much indeed, but I think I have heard Dr. Kitchel preach quite as well. His text was "Old things have passed away." It was a New Years' sermon, and very beautiful. I shouldn't think it would be good any one to go there regularly - it is too much like a lecture hall, or something of that kind. Mr. Lynda told me that he has been there for eighteen years. I should think hewould have lost all idea of a church by this time. Monday being New Year's Day it rained violently, with occasional intervals, which inveighed several young men into getting their feet muddy and being thoroughly drenched - The girls had very few calls but we had a gorgeous day. By the way Ellen Baldwin's husband called on them, and I was induced to him. He is rather forlorn, but they say he is enough sight less so than Ellen. He is sort of foreman at Uncle Edwin's, Emma says he is very kind indeed to her in spite of her conduct. Emma and the Miller girls expressed no enthusiastic delight at their recollections of David Cooker, Jr. but they liked Bell better than they had expected - Tuesday eve Mr. and Mrs. Lynde called upon us. The latter expressed great pleasure at seeing us, and regretted not having been able to see us before. She was very anxious that we should come and see her Wednesday, but we couldn't possiblydo it, as we had to start at one. It is a perfect disgrace to say that Mrs. Lynde looks forlorn or dowdy - She looks at least ten years younger than when she was married, and was very elegantly dressed. She wore a beautiful black rep silk, a large velvet cloak, the sleeves of which were trimmed with grinpeace lace at least half a finger wide, a point lace handkerchief round her neck, and a very becoming black velvet bonnet - Her husband looked very proud of her, as well he might. Wednesday at one o'clock we bid adieu to all our friends and relations, and sallied home in style. I was introduced to Henry Walker on the cars. I was not at all favorably impressed by the youth, he doesn't look as if he amounted to a hill of beans. He and Stephen were away from home all the time we were in New York, except a day or two, when we first came. The girls didn't fancy either of them. It was very pleasant having Charlie there, he wasextremely kind to us, rather more so than I wanted him to be. As for the girls they are glorious! Mattie and I immediately discovered congenial spirits in one another, and became last friends forthwith, Fannie is a splendid girl and seems to be the moving power of the household. Cousin Emma is about as good company as I ever saw. She is brim full of fun and frolic of all kinds The reason Mother thought she was married, was I suppose owing to Bell's having seen Mr. Cartlidge at Aunt Hopkins last fall. She isn't married yet, but hopes to be in future. Fannie expressed strong yearnings to see you, and said that she wasn't half satisfied with your visit before, as she didn't see you at all, being in school. She gave vent to many expressions of admirations for you, which I will not repeat lest your vanity should become unbearable. I must remark in closing that for elegance of chirograph and diction this epistle has beea equalled by none ofmy previous productions. Tell Mother I want to see her dreadfully - and am going to write to her very soon. The girls who stayed here during vacation had a most uncommonly fine time. Christmas tree, charades, reading by the Pres. pop corn Society, bills of fare made out by themselves and all manner of line things. I forgot that they didn't have any Christmas at Brooklyn, at which we were profoundly delighted - I made Auntie a pin cushion the pattern that Sara worked George's slippers. It was very handsome. She loadedus down with good things when we came away - which have lasteduntil the present time. Hattie went around much more than I did, she went down town several times and to two or three fine gallerys - also saw Trinity Church trimmed for Christmas. Where is Willie? I never heard a word of him. Tell him to have some tintypes taken and send me one - I want some kind of a picture of the dear fellow. Give a great deal of love to all my fellow mortals in Detroit. Has Father been to Washington? Good-bye dear Write soon to Your respected sister Hattie's muff is beautiful she is delighted with it. Your respected sister Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: January 11, 1866
Text: Vassar, Jan. 11/66 My dear Nellie, What a "ridiculous mess" that you don't get our letters, I have mailed no less than three letters home (including one to Sara) since I returned from Brooklyn, and Hattie has two. I can't imagine what the trouble is. Hattie wrote once from Brooklyn. Minnie has lost letters from home and we are in a ridiculous state of affairs generally. We propose that Hattie should visit the P.O.M of this devoted city, and see where the trouble lies. I...
Show moreVassar, Jan. 11/66 My dear Nellie, What a "ridiculous mess" that you don't get our letters, I have mailed no less than three letters home (including one to Sara) since I returned from Brooklyn, and Hattie has two. I can't imagine what the trouble is. Hattie wrote once from Brooklyn. Minnie has lost letters from home and we are in a ridiculous state of affairs generally. We propose that Hattie should visit the P.O.M of this devoted city, and see where the trouble lies. I wrote Mother a great long letter of three sheets, you one of two, and Sara ditto. Hattie wrote to Willie and to Mother. What a shame that so many efforts of our genius should have been lost. You can have no idea how perfectlyhappy trio we were here yesterday afternoon. A little young one who wails on the door, came into the chemistry class, and handed a card to Prof. Farrar, requesting her attendance in the parlor, immediately after lecture. After class Minnie was leisurly examining the card when Hattie turned it over and read "Miss M. L. Dickinson, Detroit." Minnie was so completely stunned that she wouldn't believe it, and actually came up to our room before going into the parlor. But before long she returned, with not only her Mother, but also her brother Charlie! Imagine our Joy! It was next to seeing one of you. They stayed until Pat came to announce that the last omnibus was going when they departed for the city taking Minnie with them. We are in momentary expectation of their return - Minnie was almost crazy. As she told Mrs. Tenney "her mother nearly killed her." (Yet I think it is pleasanter for one's friendsto come very unexpectedly, it prevents all that hope deferred feeling, and inability to study which are inevitable companions of the corridor window and omnibus. I am very much obliged for all the news you wrote. How frisky the young people are growing. I thought last summer that very likely Emma Butler and Mr. Morgan would reach a conclusion. Frank Raymond seems to have an affinity for cultivated society, what a shame that he is his Mother's son. Terry Taylor and May Carrier I find no fault with, only I would leave Sevon Griggs at home. Delia Woolsey is rather sorely paid for her folly in regard to Mr. Eves. It is a lesson which I hope and believe she will never forget. I am very sorry for her, how very mortifying such an affair is. I want to go home dreadfully Nellie! when school closes won't I go on the first train and not stop till I get there. Minnie and I are agreed on that.I am not going to write anything over that I have written - until I find out whether you don't get them at all - Hattie is going to direct to Father and I to the Detroit Bridge and Iron Works. We are both going to send a letter by Mrs. Dickinson and if those don't reach you I'll telegraph. I never knew any letters so villainous. Tell Sara that I have written to her and that she ought to have it, and if she hasn't it I am not only sorry but also mad, and will try again, and if that doesn't reach her she had better try me. I hope you won't have this letter framed nor even preserved with extraordinary care - for my biographers - because I don't feel so proud of it as I might - Either in rhetoric or chirography, or orthography - nevertheless I don't want it lost before your having the pleasure of perusing it - I am sorry that Hattie Benson isn't coming here. I wantto go home - Tell Mother that my letter was spandangulous, it will be a terrible loss to the literary world if that production doesn't come to light - With much love I am your obedient servant Martha S. Warner
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: December 13, 1865
Text: VASSAR FEMALE COLLEGE, Poughkeepsie, N.Y. Dec. 13 1865 My very dear Sister Nell, I don't owe you a letter to be sure, nevertheless, I feel moved in spirit to write you a birthday epistle in as much as I can't give you any birthday kisses. What a pity that you did make your advent into this world in summer, and then we could all celebrate together. I haven't any thing remarkable to say, having used up all my ideas on your last letter. The all absorbing topic at present is, "...
Show moreVASSAR FEMALE COLLEGE, Poughkeepsie, N.Y. Dec. 13 1865 My very dear Sister Nell, I don't owe you a letter to be sure, nevertheless, I feel moved in spirit to write you a birthday epistle in as much as I can't give you any birthday kisses. What a pity that you did make your advent into this world in summer, and then we could all celebrate together. I haven't any thing remarkable to say, having used up all my ideas on your last letter. The all absorbing topic at present is, "When are you going to leave?" A great many are going Wednesday, but we stay till Thursday, thereby going down with Cousin Emma,and seeing the last of the College also. We received a very urgent invitation from Aunt Mary this morning, via Miss Gilbert. I wish that we were not engaged for Brooklyn, as she says that it is probably the last vacation she will be keeping house. Fanny Miller has written us, not only inviting us for the Holidays, but for all other vacations we may have here. (What a pleasant thing it is to have friends. Libbie Trowbridge has sent us word that we must let her know as soon we reach Brooklyn. Hattie had a letter from Charlie yesterday saying that he expected to be at Poughkeepsie this week. Miss Lyman has given positive orders, that no young lady should be seen, save under cover of a letter of introduction. But Hattie told him to ask for Miss Gilbert, and she'll electioneer him through, having much influence at head quarters. We have had an addition to the ornamental furniture of our room, in the shape of a philipena present to Minnie, from Mother Hubbard. It consists of a man! named "Thursytes" in honor of the "homeliest man who ever came to Troy." His stately figure meas-ured four inches in his stocking feet. His dress consists of one pair of pants, of red delaine, made very loose and gathered at the ankle, a green jacket or sack, trimmed with one row of very narrow serpentine braid, flying open to display a most beautiful red waistcoat, some what disfigured by paste, and a belt of red and white which looks as if it might have bordered white cotton cloth. His head bears a blue cap bordered with red, in the center of which is fastened a rubber cord by which he is suspended to the gas fixture, then when the dear little fellow is pulled, the elasticity of the cord causes him to undergo a series of gymnastics truly wonderful to behold. His face as nearly as my unskillful pen can portray it, is as followed. as far as I can see that is quite natural. Minnie might not recognize it - Minnie has just recognized in this portrait her long lost sow Thursytes. We were much delighted by a letter from Willie this morning. How he has improved in letter writing since last year. It is as good as a feast to read one of his documents. I have taken to reading my old letters Sunday, and find it highly profitable - If you will come up here next Wednesday, we will entertain you with a translation of the first book of the Odessy. We are a were a very fine class, I beg leave to inform you. We read the whole book to Miss Grant a very fine Greek scholar, and she said it was a fine a translation as she overheard. Miss Gilbert is proud of us. I am very sorry to be obliged to stop without finishing the page, but if you have the letter Friday, and I have any dinner, it must stop here. Minnie and Hattie send much love and many wishes of a happy birthday - Give oceans of love to Mother, Father, and Willie from your ever loving sister Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: December 1865
Text: Vassar, Dec. 1865. My dear Nellie, I can't wait another instant tar to tell you what a grand time we had yesterday - In the first place we didn't have to get up for breakfast until eight - i.e. we had breakfast at half past eight, and Miss Lyman gave express orders that no one should wake up her roommates but that every one should sleep as long as possible. After breakfast every one did what seemed good in her own eyes. Hattie and Minnie went up to Miss Sayles room to help about the...
Show moreVassar, Dec. 1865. My dear Nellie, I can't wait another instant tar to tell you what a grand time we had yesterday - In the first place we didn't have to get up for breakfast until eight - i.e. we had breakfast at half past eight, and Miss Lyman gave express orders that no one should wake up her roommates but that every one should sleep as long as possible. After breakfast every one did what seemed good in her own eyes. Hattie and Minnie went up to Miss Sayles room to help about the tableaux, and I came home and read Aurora Leigh, until Helen Dana and Nettie Huntington came in and talked until chapel time at half past eleven. Pres. Raymond preached a very fine sermon. The choir chanted the "Te Deum". Cousin Emma(as she told us to call her), is a very beautiful singer. She and Prof. Wiebe sung the principal parts. I heard a great many remarks of the difference between her singing and Miss Wiley's. After chapel she came home with me, and stayed till about half past two during which time I recieved a letter from Charlie and one from you, wasn't I delighted tho'! I like her very much indeed. She is exactly my height - has light hair, and a very sweet expression. Likewise she is a very perfect lady. After she went I began to dress for dinner, and had just begun to curl my hair when Miss Griggs made her appearance saying that I was wanted immediately in the Art Gallery. I slipped on a wrapper and ran with my hair all flying. I was seized by Miss Fessenden, and told that I was wanted to act the fact of a fashionable young lady fixing herself before the looking glass and must collect all the finery I could. Consequently I went home and finished dressing when I appearedvery gorgeous in my alpaca and mauve ribbons. Then I rushed up to the chapel and saw the preperations, they had a curtain suspended across the chapel about a foot from the end of the stage, and a large frame, which black gauge stretched across for the front and black cambric for the other three sides making a sort of hugh box, with a seam ripped up on one side to allow us to go in and out. We flew around and rushed up and down, until a quarter past five when dinner was announced. All the Profs, and their families were invited and some other people. They filled three tables with the teachers, while the girls had charge of their own tables and carved their own turkeys. Minnie carved ours in the most highly scientific style, she and Prof. Tenney were the only ones who didn't stand to carve. Our bill of fare was as follows. Oyster Soup, very nice. Roast Turkey, cranberry sauce, squash potatoes (mashed), celery, gravy - third, plum pudding, fourth, nuts and raisins apples. It was very nearly seven when weleft the table. Every thing was very nice, and the girls all seemed to enjoy it very much. Immediately after tea there was a reception in the College parlors and the Presidents, all being thrown into one great room. We went in for about five minutes and then disappeared. I rushed down stairs and in about twenty minutes or half an hour marched into the chapel gallery in the following attire. Minnie's blue silk skirt, Hattie Johnson's white lace waist, four bracelets and Hattie's white shawl. I ought to have told you that Madame Castani, a most remarkable woman, who makes her living in that manner, came a day or two before hand, with a quantity of Greek and Turkish costumes, which she was expected to arranged into tableaux - she watched the girls very closely to find those that she could trust to fill them out - The teachers made up seven, that afternoon which were American. Profs. Farrar and Vaningen assisted them, and they did nobly, adding very materially to the interestoccasion. The first tableau was "A Pasha waited upon by attendants." It was very pretty and much admired. Next came "The Greek Fugitives," the principal figure of which was Minnie standing with her left hand pointing to the Turks in the distance, two children hanging to her skirts, while her noble liege lord squatting on the floor had another one with him. She looked vary grand indeed, and made quite an impression. Next came "Siote defending his sister" which they said was beautiful but I didn't see it as I was at that time in the dressing room. Next was the "Flower of the Family" Every one's expectation was high when the curtain rose and there sat the baker with his cap and apron on, and by his side - a barrel of flour of course there was great laughing, when the curtain ross again, when the baker hammered the hoops as if to open it and when they were all loose out came little Nellie Raymond from the barrel. She looked a pretty and cunning as could be,and as you may wall imagine the effect was capital. Next came "The old plan and the new, or the old plan, and our plan." It was a tableaux in two parts, a screen being drawn between them, sufficiently to prevent their seeming one picture, and yet allow all to be seen. On one side were Miss Mary Granger with a pallet and brushes in her hand standing before an Easel, while Hattie Johnson siting by a table piled with books was criticizing her picture, the background was formed with the College flag so arranged that "Vassar" was plainly discernable. On the other side stood Hattie with her hair done up in a knot, her hoops off, an old calico wrapper on, and her sleeves rolled up, her dress pinned up, and a calico apron on. In one hand she held a mop and a pail stood beside her, altogether she was a most capital Irish girl. Helen Dana sat beside her dressed in a calico dress sewing dilligently, while not far off (on account of the limited space)stood Marthy Spooner herself, dressed as described above, with the addition of a great heap of blue and white flowers on top of her hair, a waterfall cushion underneath her curls, making them stand out not more than half a mile a long white ribbon around her comb, a red opera cloack trimmed with swan's down hanging down her back, her best handkerchief in her hand, busily engaged in fixing the flowers on her hair, looking in a mirror for that purpose. They said it was very good and I have had quite a number of compliments. Next came a Greek tableau of which I don't remember the subject. The American tableaux were all prettier than the Greek ones, at least we thought so. The "Rose of Castile" excited much anticipation and a table nicely piled with Castile soap caused great laughter. But when the "Real Rose of Castile seen in the light of other days" was announced, we all expected something grand, and Iassure you, that the same soap with a tallow candle burning before it raised a shout. "Faith, Hope, and Charity," was the most beautiful of all. Three girls in white robes, one resting on an anchor, another holding a cross, and the third dropping her charities on the floor. It was very beautiful indeed - A portrait of Schiller attracted great attention. She was Miss Treadwell from Jackson. Her face is very much like the pictures of Schiller. The closing scenes were first a Godess of Liberty, steading by Union, while at their feet sat a weeping slave with chains around her. In the next scene Union had lifted her up and Liberty had thrown her arm over them They all went off beautifully, and every one went home feeling highly contented with herself and friends - I didn't tell you about the other Greek ones, as it would have been tedious. Miss Avery came back yesterday and brought out all her infirmary - Miss Lyman thought we could do great wonders, if we could have such fine tableaux on so short a notice. I was delighted to get your letter. What was the matter between Mrs. Birch and the Dr? I am utterly discouraged about them if that is what they are going to do. What a polite young person Miss Lawrence is! I wonder Lucy is really engaged. Of course any of us would have said the same under the circumstances. I am very glad that you had such a pleasant time at that quilting. What did you do yesterday? Write soon and tell me all about it. I do hope you had a good time. I presume you have long before this discovered the whereabouts of your paternal relative and could enlighten me as well if not better than you I. I am very sorry to hear about Eva Standish. How are her sister and niece? I wish I could set my two eyes on you your relatives and neighbors - also onher blue silk trimming. I had a letter from Charlie yesterday, he says his duties may call him here any day and wants instructions how to proceed. Please ask Mother to write him a little note of introduction to Miss Lyman, and tell him to take the Vassar omnibus, & that will unlock all doors - What a goose Mattie is. I am ashamed of her. I'd go out as nurse girl before I'd be dependant as she is, to say nothing of spending money for a plume when my family were suffering - Remember us to Jenny Davy. I would give a great deal to see her. Give a great deal of love to Mother, Willie, and all the loveable people. Minnie wants Father to send her ten $ too because her ma is an orphan. Don't you think I've written nearly enough? I do. Ask Carrie Hawley if she has decided to drop me. I haven't done or thought of a single thing for Christmas With a great deal of love from all of us I remain your off servant - M.S.W.Mattie didn't see the second "Rose of Castile". It was a row of knives, saws, instead of soap. She was'nt near enough to see the distinctly and had not heard it before I don't we you a letter. I am going to write to you a decently long letter some time. Christmas is coming - aren't you glad we are away?
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: April 11, 1866
Text: Vassar College, April 11th, 1866 My dear Sister, I must beg of you, when you have in your company, simple minded people, who regliously believe what ever is said in their hearing, not to confuse and befuddle their brains in such style, that they return to your native state, and industriously spread the report, that you have abjured the faith of your Fathers, and joined yourself to that of the scarlet woman and Pope of Rome. Just this thing Miss Fannie Hammond has done, creating thereby...
Show moreVassar College, April 11th, 1866 My dear Sister, I must beg of you, when you have in your company, simple minded people, who regliously believe what ever is said in their hearing, not to confuse and befuddle their brains in such style, that they return to your native state, and industriously spread the report, that you have abjured the faith of your Fathers, and joined yourself to that of the scarlet woman and Pope of Rome. Just this thing Miss Fannie Hammond has done, creating thereby considerable commotion in the fair town of Pittsford. Clara Warner, in much perplexity has written to Miss Gilbert, she has also recieved other letters on the subject. Miss Gilbert thinks that the best thing you could do would be to write to that hopeful place yourself, stoutly denying the same. She says that to any denial from us, they would say They left before she turned, and the family don't let them know, hasn't Fannie come from there, and doesn't she report the evidence of her own eyes and ears? You will have to walk circumspectly in future my dear, if this is to be the result of any flights of fancy you may indulge. Did I ever tell you that a report was circulated thro' the College, at Thanksgiving time that we were Southern sympathisers, owing to a remark I made, to the effect, that Thanksgiving Day belonged in November, and I didn't believe that the Pres. knew much about Northern customs? We are very much engaged at present in preparations for the Founders Festival. Every thing is going to be done in fine style. I'll send you a full account when it happens. Minnie is one of the committee of arrangements. Hattie has managed to keep clear of nearly every thing.Minnie had a letter from home yesterday. It lacked two days of being four weeks since she had heard, they were very busy with spring work, as I conclude that every one must be, insomuch as this morning there were only three letters to divide among the forty girls on the corridor. Sara, I suppose, is almost if not quite ready - Dear me! how near it is! I do hope that she has these few days for "otium cum dignitate." I am already to rush down to tho depot, either next week Friday or any nearer time required - If you can conveniently please get me a sample of her dresses. I don't expect a letter from her until she has returned from her wedding tour, and is fairly settled as Mrs. George N. Ladue. Where are they going to live? I wish you to understand that you must defer your confirmation until such time as your two youthful sisters "can be there to see". I would advise you to enter the convent as soon you have given up allhopes in the matrimonial line. But so long as one last glimmering hope remains cling fast to that - I must go to French - Good bye Mattie. [Martha S. Warner, '68]
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 25, 1865
Text: Vassar Nov. 25 My dearly beloved and ever to be respected Maternal Parent, With whom do you think I have had the exquiste felicity of visiting this evening - Guess. Its no use, you'd never imagine in the world. It was no less distinguished gentleman than John Gilbert! He came up on his way to New York, and Miss Gilbert obtained permission for us to see him - As you may imagine we were nothing loth to avail ourselves of the opportunity to converse with one of the species of Sunday A.M....
Show moreVassar Nov. 25 My dearly beloved and ever to be respected Maternal Parent, With whom do you think I have had the exquiste felicity of visiting this evening - Guess. Its no use, you'd never imagine in the world. It was no less distinguished gentleman than John Gilbert! He came up on his way to New York, and Miss Gilbert obtained permission for us to see him - As you may imagine we were nothing loth to avail ourselves of the opportunity to converse with one of the species of Sunday A.M. coat wearing animals. He is quite good looking, very pleasant, very much of a gentleman, and althogether is a remarkably agreeable person. Hattie and I were the envied ones at our table last night I can assure you, as we gave mostglowing descriptions of our call. Miss Gilbert went down to New York with him, and never took us too! wasn't she mean? I hope they will see Father. Mr. G. took Uncle Edwin's address. They both seemed anxious to see him. Miss Gilbert evidently considers him something little short of a miracle. Father is splendid! He has written to us every day since he has been in New York. I think he is very kind indeed - Isn't it delightful that he should have met Mr. and Mrs. Catlin? How delighted they all must have been! I wish they would invite us up to Burlington for the Holidays - wouldn't it be magnificent - I think they might. Hattie is half crazy to walk down to church this morning. I think Miss Lyman might let her, but Hattie won't ask her as she doesn't know of any teacher who is going, and has no faith in being allowed to go alone. Minnie has a hard headache today - Two of the Episcopalian girls came in to see if Minnie would be willing to ask MissLyman if she could take them down, but Minnie was not able to go - and Miss Lyman wouldn't let them go alone. I do hope we shall all be allowed to go to Church Thanksgiving day - I really think they ought to. If we have service here, I hope and trust that it wont be in the afternoon. Next Sunday is Communion Sabbath, so that we will all go without difficulty. I wish that we had Communion on the same Sunday that you do at home, it would be much pleasanter, then it comes immediately after morning service, which seemed very strange to me, as I had never seen it before. It seems so queer to have Miss Gilbert gone. I find myself listening for her step and wondering why she doesn't come. She has been very good to us indeed. I didn't dream of her being so good and kind. I think those tintypes of baby are very good. We all like them much better than the photograph. Are they all scratched? I hope not. How is the little Colburnbaby? I hope you go up there often. When you see her kiss her for me. I wish I could see all three of them. Tell Will that when the organ is quite built I am going to propose his name to the Executive Committee as blower thereof - Does it seem possible that Christmas is almost here? We have had scarcely a thought of winter here. Some of the girls are very busy preparing for Christmas, but we benighted creatures at 23, have almost forgotten that there was such a day, to say nothing of making presents for it - I assure you we were much gratified by your kind invitation for spend Sunday at home. Minnie said "I say girls let's go." We all said "Yes by all means, of course we will", but Miss Gilbert put an end to all our plans by marching off to Now York and we couldn't go without a teacher. I would be ever so much obliged to you, if you would send me some of that very narrow red velvet. I think I could wear it and I should like it extremely. I thank you very much for the blue it is beautiful - Please give a great deal of love to Mrs. Raymond and Mrs. Freeland, Mrs. Hibbard & Mr Freeland of course - I am very glad Mrs. Clark came to see you. What has become of John & his wife? How sad about Mr. Sile-bee. What has caused his sudden poverty? I wish I could kiss you Mother dear Shan't I be glad when next summer comes? Are you going to have any one at home Thanksgiving Day? I am fairly aching for a sight of home and home people. Now don't you say I am homesick - On the contrary I am gaining flesh every day - There are some dear good girls here. Minnie is an immense favorite & Hattie & I shine comfortably in reflected glory. Minnie is just as good and lovely as she can be. I love her better every single day of my life, love to every one from your loving daughter Mattie.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: September 30, 1866
Text: Vassar College Sept. 30, 1866. My dearest Mother, How busy you must Be with your house so full, how I wish I could be in two places at once. I am very anxious to see Uncle and Aunt, having heard you speak of them so often - I hope that they will make you a long visit, and that Aunt Mary will stay with you indefinitely - Dr. Wilks of Montreal is here, and will preach for us - I liked him very much better than I expected, this morning in chapel, not being prejudiced in his favor. Has he had...
Show moreVassar College Sept. 30, 1866. My dearest Mother, How busy you must Be with your house so full, how I wish I could be in two places at once. I am very anxious to see Uncle and Aunt, having heard you speak of them so often - I hope that they will make you a long visit, and that Aunt Mary will stay with you indefinitely - Dr. Wilks of Montreal is here, and will preach for us - I liked him very much better than I expected, this morning in chapel, not being prejudiced in his favor. Has he had four or five wives? He is a perfect specimen of Johnny Bull. He was Miss Lyman's pastor for twenty seven years, so that of course she is delighted to see him -I think it would be advisable for me to tell him after chapel, that I dont at all approve of his beloved daughter-in-law. We have been seated in Chapel - the Seniors and Juniors by themselves, the common herd alphabetically - You don't know how ridiculously we all feel poking up to the very front seats, where we sit directly under the President's eye, where he can watch us contentedly. We proposed to the class the expediency of putting on our best dresses, and a quantity of artificial flowers in our hair, and marching in five minutes late this afternoon, In alphabetical order, thereby producing an impression. Strange to say however our proposition was not looked upon with decided favor. Did I tell you that I am a Junior now? We have a new French teacher who is very disagreeable - He speaks very little English, although he understands it; he is very cross, and impatient, if anyone doesn't understand what he says the first time, he grows wrathy, immediately, which isn't fair, as he speaks very indistinctly. Perhaps we will like him better in time. The girls like the two Madames very much. Helen is in our Horace class as well as Hattie, I guess she'll get along well - It is so odd to have three sisters in the same class, sitting in a row. I sat by Miss Stoddard as long as I could, but Friday we were seated. I like her very much, she is very quiet and sweet- Prof. Tenney has returned. His Father was somewhat better when he left, but still very dangerous. He was very much afraid some little thing would make him worse, In which case there would be no hope. He said that the New Hampshire forests were a perfect blase of beauty - that they never looked so bright to him before. The trees here are just beginning to turn, but some of them are very beautiful. Helenattempted to paint one of the leaves the other day, but failed signally. We have taken some beautiful walks lately. Monday we went to Cedar Ridge, a beautiful spot. Friday to Sunrise Hill, where we had a grand view of all the country round. Mr. Mitchell had lent us his opera glass, which added much to our enjoyment. We went in our gymnastic suits, which, are just the dresses for long walks. It was so good to see Mr. King! I wanted to hug him - The day he was here we had a most unhappy season at dinner - At our table we had to wait, after we sat down till our meat (mutton chops) could be cooked, then it came so raw no one could eat it, and not enough to go around the table, two more chops were brought after cooking, but even then all were not served, and we could have no more "as the fire had gone out, and two tables had had nothing" - We were as badly off for potatoes, but fortunately had plenty of bread andtomatoes, which some tables were entirely without. At a quarter of two. Miss Lyman learned the state of affairs, and then her wrath burned high. I never saw her look so angry as when she sailed out of the dining room after the steward, who had not appeared during the meal. I think the unhappy man received a blessing on that occasion, as we have had better food, since then both in quality, and quantity - He is a very disagreeable man, and cordially detested by all who know him. I had a letter from Charlie yesterday, he seemed in high spirits, had just returned to New York after his summer vacation. I don't think he said any thing worth repeating. Miss Gilbert wanted we should tell Father that Asa Nurse represents Pittsford in the Legislature this winter. I suppose Father is deep In the coming election, and that both he and Willie spend their time at politicalmeetings of all kinds. I know nothing about the torn affairs are taking, seeing as I do few papers, and paying but slight attention to the politics of those - The marrying and giving in marriage seems to have begun with vigor in Detroit. How I wish that I was there to see. We are all progressing finely - Helen has joined the Literary Society, as she ought to in all respectability - I have made that white cambric skirt and worn it three times, the weather has been very warm - My sewing is all done except the velvet on my wrapper. I have worn my bonnet twice, once to call on Mrs. Knapp, and once to church. I should like to keep on writing all night, but I can't, and must stop. Give quantities of love to every one. Tell Willie to continue in the good way of letter writing he has begun. His letters are a perfect comfort. How much I would give to kiss and hug you - Your loving daughter Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: September 15, 1866
Text: Vassar College Sept. 15, 1866- Dear Mother, How I hope you went straight to bed after we left and stayed there until you were entirely rested. My conscience smites me every time I recall your poor tired face. I hope next year will be easier. I have been industrious in the extreme, having finished my blue silk, and brown alpaca, and partly sewed the velvet on to my black alpaca. Helen has, I believe, finished all her sewing; she has also passed her preliminary examinations, but has not yet...
Show moreVassar College Sept. 15, 1866- Dear Mother, How I hope you went straight to bed after we left and stayed there until you were entirely rested. My conscience smites me every time I recall your poor tired face. I hope next year will be easier. I have been industrious in the extreme, having finished my blue silk, and brown alpaca, and partly sewed the velvet on to my black alpaca. Helen has, I believe, finished all her sewing; she has also passed her preliminary examinations, but has not yet been examined for classification. Every one seems to think that we must have spent all our vacation in electioneering for Vassar College. I'm sorry for I dont want people to imagine that theyare the class of students our efforts produce. Some of them however are very desirable girls - Fannie King, Delia Howard and Mary Gillett are, I fancy, good scholars, the High School girls I know are, and some of the others I know are not. I hope they will all do well. The College seemed desolate enough this year before the old scholars returned the first day we were here I don't believe there were a twenty old students. Thursday I was in the parlor all day, and I assure you that any familiar face was very welcome. I think that now there are nearly one half old students, but its forlorn. There is a Miss Stoddard here, a daughter of the missionary, who is a very pleasant girl. I am sure we will like her very much; she graduated at South Hadley this summer. Emma Cartlidge's niece is also here, I guess she'll be nice, but she's very young - Miss Pope is a fine look--ing girl, that is she appears like a young lady of strong character. I like Miss Bartlet's looks very well. There are quite a number of new teachers but I know none of them, nor do I particularly fancy their appearance. I am very thankful that Aunt Mary is with you. I hope she'll stay a long time, certainly until Aunt Charlotte has gone. What would we have done without Auntie those last days? Please tell little Mary that we are under great obligations to her for her lamp lighters. We were very glad to hear from Uncle Cephus - it seems that he escaped from Canada in safety, congratulate him. I am glad that Uncle Cephas sent Helen's character. I was afraid she would be called upon for it, and be found wanting. You don't know how glad our Profs- were to see us, it did me good to hear Prof. Knapp exclaim "Oh, Miss Warner."Poor Mrs. Knapp was very dangerously ill during vacation, the Prof- doesn't seem at all rested - Prof. Tenney & his wife are very well - Sannie is as cross as a bear. Hattie is anxious that you should get that velvet, and send her a little piece in a letter, as she wants a braid to match the velvet - Miss Lyman has been as sweet as honey in concentrated essence - I don't know how long it will last - It's forlorn to have Hattie poke off every night. I mean to have a bed made on top of the wardrobe and put Hattie in it - Minnie says Hattie shall share her wardrobe and bureau, if she will only come back. I am going to write you very soon a good long respectable letter, but tonight we have company, and I can do nothing at all - Give a great deal of love to every body - Tell Willie I'll write soon, meanwhile he must do mecredit - Tell Carrie I'll write soon, but she musn't wait - Sara also. Tell her that there is a young lady here named Sarah Pomeroy - Impertinent - isn't it! The Beta Chap - elected me Pres. last Friday night - Imagine me presiding over the meetings. I went to church today, with Miss Blatchley - we went to the Presbyterian church, Rev. Mr. Wheeler Pastor - Kiss every body. I do want to see you very much. Good night - Mattie Please send Helen's silver cup in that bundle-
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: September 23, 1866
Text: Vassar College Sept. 23 1866- My darling Mother, How good it was of you to write us such a good long letter. It is so good to hear from home. I hope you admire the word "good", it appears to be a favorite one of mine - It is a beautiful day, the sun is very bright and warm although it is chilly in the house - Hattie and Miss Stoddard are going to church together, and Minnie is to escort two young girls. I went to church last Sunday, walked both ways, and felt better for it....
Show moreVassar College Sept. 23 1866- My darling Mother, How good it was of you to write us such a good long letter. It is so good to hear from home. I hope you admire the word "good", it appears to be a favorite one of mine - It is a beautiful day, the sun is very bright and warm although it is chilly in the house - Hattie and Miss Stoddard are going to church together, and Minnie is to escort two young girls. I went to church last Sunday, walked both ways, and felt better for it. Yesterday we all three went in, and called on Mrs. Knapp, she seemed very glad to see us - I like her better every time I see her - They are boarding now in a private house, and enjoying life highly. Congratulate the Pomeroy's for us. Howstrange it must seem to them to have a baby at their house. What a pity that it is not a boy, they all wanted one so much. I hope that Mrs. Pomeroy will continue to do well. What will they call her? Is she old enough to show whether she is dark or fair? Was Mrs. Pomeroy ready for her? Do tell me all the particulars The Detroit girls are progressing finely. I don't think they have been at all homesick, either individually or collectively. That Miss Bartlett I have seen two or three times. She seems in a flourishing condition. Emma Cartledge's niece I am ashamed to say, we have not been to see. It's real mean of us for she looks like a child who would be desperately homesick, but we have been so busy and have made so many visits to forlorn new scholars that we haven't come round to her. I mean to go and see her this very day, for today of all days in the week she will need attention. Dr. Raymond is not able to preach today, and they do say that our lovely friend Rev. J. L. Corning will perform that duty for him. Interesting prospect! I wish we could fill our pew at home this evening. Hattie has begun to take observations on the spots on the sun. She takes them every day at twelve, so that at that time you can imagine Hattie on top of the observatory peering at his roasting majesty through a telescope. The sun has been spotless so far, but in at least a month she hopes to see some little black spots the size of a pin's head upon his disk. Clara Glover is to observe the moon and sweep for comets. I don't think it pays. My inaugural came off in a proper manner and I have taken my seat as Pres. of our Chapter, two presidents from our room is doing well, isn't it? Prof. Van Lugen and his bride have arrived. They were thirty two days on the ocean, owing to breakages in the machinery. The vessel was a Dutch one, makingits first voyage. Their friends on this side of the water were seriously disturbed about them before they arrived. Madame Van Ingen Is very tall, and dark, looking far more like a French woman than a Hollander. She wears no hoops, which adds to her apparent height - Her English is almost a minus quantity, and they say, that the poor thing tucked away in the fourth story of one of the Prof's houses unable to converse with any one in the absence of her husband, is some what homesick. I pity her from the bottom of my heart. Hattie wants you should send her that blue paper Minnie gave her & was left in one of the secretary drawers and I want my black kid gloves - I am afraid however with all our wants that you'll have a larger bundle than you can send conveniently. If so leave out anything you think unnecessary - There are about eight new teachers none of whom I like at all - but I shall have nothing to do with them - The Faculty have been working night and day to perfect their arrangements, and have succeeded so well, that on Monday we commence recitations. Dr. Raymond and Profs. Knapp and Farrar look worn out. It's too bad especially has Prof. Knapp had no rest this summer owing to the dangerous illness of his wife. I am thankful that you are having so pleasant a visit with Auntie and Cousin Mary, they must have been delighted to see the last of us - Has Auntie seen Mrs. Howard yet? Miss Gilbert said, in a letter received from her Friday, that Uncle and Aunt Safford, were to visit you soon, so dont despair - She also said that Clara joined the church last communion Sabbath Horace is at home but much worse, they will be obliged to take him back. He is very affectionate and kind whenever he knows them, which he seldom does. She hoped that we would write to them, poor Aunt Sarah is almost, heart broken. I mean to writevery soon. She says that Horace still preserves a gentlemanly appearance, but that he is a very mournful sight - Please remember us to Mr. & Mrs. Ballard, Mrs. Raymond, Mrs. Hibbard, Sara, Carrie, &c. I can't realise now that I've been at home at all, everything looks precisely like last year, except the new faces, some of whom I like, many of whom I don't like - Miss Lyman is so gracious that the old scholars are somewhat bewildered. Helen says she is going to write, but as she is comfortably basking in the sunshine reading, I hardly think she will, therefore I will say for her that she is in ecstasies with every thing and person so far, except Prof. Knapp, to whom her objections seem to be, that he is very handsome, and has a black mustache. Give a great deal of love to all at home. I am thankful that you have a good girl at last. I've been up by a quarter past six every morning till this one - Good bye - Your loving daughter Mattie-Mother if I have not said so before I want to say now, if Auntie would like it please give her for Mary my plaid brown dress. It will be of no particular service to me & she seemed to take a fancy to it & there is enough good to make Mary a very pretty dress - With love - Hattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 08, 1867
Text: Vassar College, Oct. 8, 1867. My dear Mother, Had you concluded that I meant to drop you entirely? I am ashamed of myself that I haven't written before, but it has always seemed that I must tell the girls something whenever I had time to write. I suppose that you are having a grand time in Pittsford. How I wish I could be there with you. I could see all the people with familiar names, who would come to see you, but who never heard of me. How is Auntie Colburn? I hope that your visit will...
Show moreVassar College, Oct. 8, 1867. My dear Mother, Had you concluded that I meant to drop you entirely? I am ashamed of myself that I haven't written before, but it has always seemed that I must tell the girls something whenever I had time to write. I suppose that you are having a grand time in Pittsford. How I wish I could be there with you. I could see all the people with familiar names, who would come to see you, but who never heard of me. How is Auntie Colburn? I hope that your visit will do her all the good that she anticipated. Have you been up to Uncle Jona's? How are they all there? Give my love to them please. Give a great deal of love and every thing to Miss Gilbert -Tell her that I hope to see her sometime when there is less confusion and bustle, and less headache, than there was last summer. How is her health now? We are getting along finely. Helen and Nellie Storke are as amicable as two clams. Helen is trying to raise a geranium, and has succeeded in reducing it to bare stalks. I expect the next move will be for Thomas to carry it off never more to be seen. Flowers never did flourish in this room. I have had two letters from Minnie, she seems to be very busy getting ready - It's too bad that you will not be home for the wedding, isn't it? I am so glad that she is going to be within reachable distance. Won't it be beautiful to go and see her? I am in quite a hurry to be able to tell the people here I am going to tell them the very day. Minnie said that the flannel for her skirt was bought, but she hadn't seen itand didn't know whether it was as nice as the one she bought winter before last. Don't you remember that dreadfully coarse night skirt she bought, and sent word to you to embroider for her? What pattern are you going work it? Oh! will you please tell Miss Gilbert that our mutual friend Mrs. Metcalf is about to join her fortunes with those of a Mr. Harris, a wealthy New Londonner. Impart the news gently I fear for its effects. Perhaps you may have heard me speak of her. The gentleman was divorced from his wife two years ago. When shall you come here? I suppose on your way up from Brooklyn, as it would be out of your way coming from Aunt Katie's. I hope you will make good long visits every where but I am in a hurry to see you. Isn't it delightful to be east once more? Prof. Tenney has been called home by his Father's death. He was a veryold man, over eighty. I haven't seen Mrs. Tenney since. Dr. Stebbins called here on his way home. We were very glad to see him. He was looking exceedingly well. Of course you know of Hattie Goodell's death, and that Mr. Kellogg, the wretch, wasn't at home. And of Mrs. Cressy's death and Jessie Vallee's marriage. Isn't it lovely to have Hattie at home while you are gone? Helen and I are in the best of health and spirits. The only ailment which we at present are suffering from is a great hunger, and the dinner just now ringing promises to alleviate that. We hear occasionally little items of news regarding Prof. Knapp - He is at present in Paris, teaching a class of Spaniards, and also a Sunday school class. I wish I could see you. Please give our love to all our relatives - and take quanti-ties from your loving daughter Mattie.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 21, 1866
Text: Vassar College, Oct. 14, 1866. My dear, dear Mother, I have directed my envelope, so as to be sure and finish my letter before dinner, it will probably seem absurd to you, but I always feel as if my letter was half done when the envelope is directed and lying ready to start. It is a beautiful day today, the air seems ladened with the audible quiet, if I may use the expression, peculiar to a Sunday morning, the house is much stiller than usual this morning also. I think the new scholars are...
Show moreVassar College, Oct. 14, 1866. My dear, dear Mother, I have directed my envelope, so as to be sure and finish my letter before dinner, it will probably seem absurd to you, but I always feel as if my letter was half done when the envelope is directed and lying ready to start. It is a beautiful day today, the air seems ladened with the audible quiet, if I may use the expression, peculiar to a Sunday morning, the house is much stiller than usual this morning also. I think the new scholars are quieting down generally, but at first they certainly seemed to us much more noisy than we were last year. Miss Lyman says they are not, and perhaps it's our vanity. Minnie went on a Geological excursion over the Hudson yesterday. Prof. Tenney took partof his class, but I didn't feel like going, and Hattie, with her usual self denial, stayed at home to go with me. They had a delightful tramp. The girls, all but four, wore their gymnastic suits. You don't know how nice they are for climbing rocks, and Jumping brooks, last time they tore their dresses and caught their hoops, and came to grief generally. If ever I go, I'll send you a full account of the place, and what we saw. We had such a nice time Friday night in our Chapter. I believe that I told Willie that we were to have a magic circle, and what the different articles were to be. Every thing went off beautifully - Helen was fixed up as the most remarkable old maid imaginable. She had her front hair curled, and a black lace head-dress over the back, an under handkerchief, and broad collar, a pair of black mitts, a reticule, an enormous handkerchief, and no hoops completed her attire - You have no idea how comical she looked. Minnie had the desk draped in black and the scrap-box on it. She spoke beautifully. Her oration was unanimously voted the best feature of the evening. I think our Society will be even pleasanter than last year. We are to have a lecture on the subject of Literary Societies from a Mr. Pierson of Waterford N. Y. At least we are going to try to get him. We are also talking of a course of lectures this winter, which I think would be very pleasant indeed, as very few of the girls are able to go to Poughkeepsie to hear lectures there, and even there we seldom hear of them until after they are over. I think that it will be a source ofgreat improvement to all of us. Gough was in Poughkeepsie last week and talked of calling at the College, but I don't think that he did it. Minnie makes a capital President for our Society. We accomplish five times as much business in one hour as we used to with Dr. Raymond in three meetings. Then she presides with so much dignity that it makes us all proud of her - I don't know whatVassar College will do next year with her present Seniors gone. Even the immense dignity and learning of her now Juniors advanced to Seniors will not be sufficient to counterbalance their loss. We do have such good cozy times in our class that it is delightful. We are all nearly of an age, and all like each other, which I think makes a great difference, then we are just a table full, and so get acquainted much faster and better. I do believe people form firmer friendships when they sit at the table together than almost any other way - Then too we always avoid disagreeable subjects at the table which I think is another good thing and a very important one. We are going to have a class organization and a motto. I have no idea what but I presume a Greek one, the girls all prefer Greek to any other language. We have just read Horace's Epistle to Lollius, and I was astonished to find almost every sentence has become a proverb, such as "Anger is a short madness." "Dare to be wise" "A deed well begunis half done" - and so forth. I enjoy Horace better every day, better even than I did Homer. I don't know about that though I do believe that if Prof. Knapp had heard our Homer class, I should have enjoyed it better than Horace. Miss Geiger is our teacher in Herodotus. I like her very much indeed, she is a continual mystery to me - I like her better & better all the time. She seems very sociable, and glad to see us when we go to see her. How good it was for Aunt Mary to write us such a good long letter, and to tell us so much news. How funny it is for Frank Rice to marry Miss Leonard. I always supposed he was rather a frisky young man, but Hattie says he is sober and quiet. I hope he and his bride will live happy - Mary wrote me a full account of their presents, they were very nice weren't they - I suppose that by this time Mr. & Mrs. Griffith are absent on their wedding tour. Beloved ones! How I envy them -Aleck McGraw, Tom's brother, is to be married Tuesday to a Miss Beecher of Battle Creek, they are going to call on Minnie while on their tour. Won't it be pleasant? Have you heard or seen anything of Mrs. Dr. McGraw? Wasn't it a shame that we didn't call on her, and yet how could we. Minnie didn't call on her either. How are your eyes now? Don't think because I have said so little about them that I have thought little. I assure you Mother dear, that I have thought of them almost every hour since I first heard that you must have the operation performed - and I can't tell you how anxious I felt till I heard that it was over. I do hope you will be careful and not overdo yourself in any way. What would become of you without Aunt Mary? Does Eliza prove as efficient as you expected? Love to everyone. Please don't imagine that I've been taking writing lessons of the chickens. I don't know what makes me write so, but I sup-pose its partly owing to the fact that I've been talking most of the time faster than I've been writing - The elections are almost here are they not? Has Father gone to Maine? Has Mr. Ballard been installed? Who preached the sermon? I knew that Mrs. Ballard was an authoress to some extent, but not how far. Mrs. Pratt looks just like it - I presume she has has had her picture taken for some book and has worn her hair so ever since.Tell Father to write me again soon - Good bye Mother dear, nearly six weeks of the forty are gone - Your loving Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 14, 1866
Text: Vassar College, Oct. 14, 1866. My dear, dear Mother, I am so thankful that you are all through that dreadful operation. You can't tell how delighted I was to see your hand writing yesterday. It was like cold water to a thirsty soul. We are progressing finely - Prof. Knapp has our Bible Class, Saturday morning, we met yesterday, we are to study Acts, and I know we shall enjoy it very much. We are doing Matthew in the Greek Testament. I do love him better every day. Dr. Raymond preached on...
Show moreVassar College, Oct. 14, 1866. My dear, dear Mother, I am so thankful that you are all through that dreadful operation. You can't tell how delighted I was to see your hand writing yesterday. It was like cold water to a thirsty soul. We are progressing finely - Prof. Knapp has our Bible Class, Saturday morning, we met yesterday, we are to study Acts, and I know we shall enjoy it very much. We are doing Matthew in the Greek Testament. I do love him better every day. Dr. Raymond preached on dress today. It was a good sermon, but rather amusing, owing to various circumstances. We are learning to move with military exactness at dinner we file out of the dining room by table, thereby giving us an orderly ap-pearance very beautiful to behold. In chapel we do like wise, leaving by seats - I must say that I feel rather green, marching solemnly out, past long rows of people impatiently waiting for their turn. If the "Country Parson" could see that remark he would undoubtedly say that I had yet one of the "Things slowly learnt," to master. We have several Mt. Holyoke girls here, two of whom are graduates, and I believe, are in the Senior class here. They are Miss Stoddard, and Miss King. Sarah Stoddard, as you know, I admire very much. Miss King I don't know at all - The more I see of some new girls the better I like them, on the whole I think that they are good, much better than we at first supposed. When I wrote to Willie I was in a great hurry, and didn't say any about all the news he told me; so I'll have to tell you what I think. In the first place, Mrs. Taylor may have flattered herself that she was making out a grand story, but Ireceive it with great doubt, if not utter incredulity. In the first place, if he fell in love with Bell that summer he did it before that picnic, which happened the last week of his stay in Detroit, and he had seen her nearly every day for some weeks before. Then I happen to know that he did not correspond with her when he first left, at least, for he did with Lizzie Strong, and in his letters to her, he said some hard things of Bell, because she wouldn't write to him, but she didn't want to - They may be engaged now for aught I know, of course - but I think it was strange if Bell engaged herself to any one, in her state of health. I don't know how ever as it is any of my business, if she did. I hope you went to Nettie Vernon's wedding - I wish I could have seen her. I think Detroit must be very gay after so much marrying and giving in mar-riage - How absurd it seems - Helen had a letter from Aunt Catie the other day, directed to "Vassar Institute"- I think she had better learn where she is writing to. Anna is teaching this year - I had a nice letter from Sara the other day, it did me a great deal of good, one from Carrie also - Delia Howard said the other day that you and Auntie were to take tea at her house that day - Did you have a pleasant visit. Please remember us to Mr. & Mrs. Ballard. I wish that I could hear him preach again - I am very thankful that Auntie was with you while you were sick. I hope she'll stay all winter - How glorious the election news is! Father must be elected - I must stop now with this little unsatisfactory letter. I am very sorry for I think you deserve a long one, but I can't write any more now. The girls send much love to every body - What will Mary Colbum's baby do without her? Good bye yours lovingly Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 29, 1866
Text: Vassar College. Oct. 29, 1866. My dearest Mother, Wasn't I glad though when Minnie handed your letter, exclaiming, "From your Mother, only think!" I am very sorry that your eyes do not gain faster - but I think they must before long. Don't let Auntie go till they do. How magnificent it was of Father to repaper our room, and get us some curtains. I should like to go straight home and take a look at them - What style of paper was it? I don't think it at all strange that...
Show moreVassar College. Oct. 29, 1866. My dearest Mother, Wasn't I glad though when Minnie handed your letter, exclaiming, "From your Mother, only think!" I am very sorry that your eyes do not gain faster - but I think they must before long. Don't let Auntie go till they do. How magnificent it was of Father to repaper our room, and get us some curtains. I should like to go straight home and take a look at them - What style of paper was it? I don't think it at all strange that no one was sent to you, when everyone knew that your eyes were sore, and that we were not at home to help you. I should have thought it very inconsiderate if the committee had asked you. But I am very glad that you had friendssince you wanted them. How pleasant it was for Mr. Ballard to be installed on his birthday. Please tell him that he shall have all those congratulations and a great many more from us. We were reading an epistle that morning, in which Horace said that he was just forty four. I nearly made Sarah Starr choke by remarking that he and my minister were the same age. Last Friday was Minnie's birthday, she was twenty three. Hattie gave her a pincushion of crimson merino, braided with gold braid, and a border of chenille and gold braid. It was a beauty, and greatly delighted the recipient. I gave her that Winnifred Bertram which she declared was the very one she would have chosen. In the evening we went into Mrs. Tenney's carrying with us a dish of hickory nuts - Mrs. Tenney took us right down stairs, where we had coffee, raisins and crackers. Every think was so neat and beautifulit did us more good than any one could imagine who hadn't been eating in such a dining room as ours - Yet we are usually pretty neat. Miss Usher had given us leave to sit up a while after the bell rang, so that we had a delightful evening. Minnie said that she hadn't intended to celebrate any more birthdays, she was so old, but now she thought she would begin again. Wednesday afternoon Mrs. Tenney invited me to go out riding with her. I went, and enjoyed it exceedingly. We went to Mr. Buckingham's where the Prof. & his wife made a call. Then he came out and took the children and me out to go over the grounds. They were very beautiful indeed. The view of the Hudson was grand. Then they made two more calls, one of them at a most beautiful residence, whith very large, elegantly laid out grounds. I think the carriage road from the gate to the house must be at least half a milelong, I returned with a much more elevated opinion of the beauties of Poughkeepsie than I had hitherto entertained. I am glad that people are good and go to see us often. I hope they will not grow at all dilatory in that respect. The reason that I am making such chicken tracks instead of writing, is that I am anxious to finish this before mail time - Young Mat. Vassar has just been making a western tour, and is loud in his praises of the Central Depot roof. Maggie B. has the use of her eyes again. She has deserted Dr. Stewart, and is employing Dr. Noyes - I hope he will cure her. Love to all. Did you consider Mr. C.'s servant girl an addition to your pew. I wonder how Libbie felt - I must stop now. Good bye Be sure & tell us that we are to go to Burlington - Mattie S. W.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 07, 1866
Text: Vassar College Oct. 7, 1866. My dearest Mother, How do you do this beautiful Sunday morning? Father told us nothing about it when you were to have your eye doctored, so that I cant tell whether it is getting well, or you have it yet in anticipation. In either case I am very thankful that you have Aunt Mary with you, and I trust that she will stay with you all winter, especially if Father is to be gone this year. And, next you'll have Hattie there all the time. Isn't it gorgeous to...
Show moreVassar College Oct. 7, 1866. My dearest Mother, How do you do this beautiful Sunday morning? Father told us nothing about it when you were to have your eye doctored, so that I cant tell whether it is getting well, or you have it yet in anticipation. In either case I am very thankful that you have Aunt Mary with you, and I trust that she will stay with you all winter, especially if Father is to be gone this year. And, next you'll have Hattie there all the time. Isn't it gorgeous to contemplate. How much I would give to sit on your bed this morning and tell you every thing I have to say, instead of using this stupid pen. I have so many important items to communicate that I can hardly tell where to commence -For some reason best known to their High Mightinesses the Steward and Lady Principal, we, the members of the Junior Class have been honored with a private apartment in which to take our meals - A table has been laid in the cloak room of the dining hall, and there we sit like little lions at a menagerie, on exhibition for the benefit of all passers by. The reasons are conjectured at by all of us. Some, inclined to vanity, consider it an arrangement to show us off with greater ease when distinguished guests are present, others, accustomed to calculations of ways and means, suppose that is in order to determine with accuracy the exact amount eaten by the class in order to ascertain how much the College may be considered in pocket, after we are graduated and gone; others still, of a prosaic tendency, insist that the sole reason is because more room was needed in the dining hall, and the departure of fourteen persons would be a great assistance. However thatmay be, we are well served, and enjoy it highly. When you come to see us, we will invite you in there to dine. We have this morning been divided into Bible Classes. We girls are in Prof. Knapp's, but as he will have to hear his on a week day, or else come out here to live, which latter alternative would be the death of him in a week, I intend to join Prof. Tenney's for Sunday - I don't know yet what they will study. Prof. Knapp has a class in the Greek Testament, which recites twice a week, Mondays and Thursdays, I know that we shall enjoy it exceedingly. He is the pleasantest man to study any thing of that kind with of whom I know. We have for our first lesson, twelve verses of the second chapter of Matthew. Prof. Tenney's department is now in operation. He lectures principally - and is a very interesting, as well agreeable speaker. I presume we will horrify our friends and acquaintances after we return home, byseizing all the millers, grasshoppers, bugs, toads, turtles fee. that we can find, for a collection. Yesterday we went nutting, and Hattie brought home a box turtle for the Professor, while Lillie Beers, had a little garter snake to preserve in alcohol. I believe Helen is writing Willie a detailed account of our adventures. I have not enjoyed an afternoon so much since I came back. Hattie and Minnie have gone to church. I didn't go, as there was no communion in the Presbyterian church, and my morals won't permit my attending the Congregational church here. By-the-way, what is the difference between the old and new school Congregational churches? I never heard of any division until yesterday one of the girls, Louise Blatchley, said that she belonged to the old school Congregational church, and she said that in New Haven the two churches would have no communication with each other, as one considered the other heterodox. Hattie thinks that the division must exist in New Haven alone. How do the electionsseizing all the millers, grasshoppers, bugs, toads, turtles fee. that we can find, for a collection. Yesterday we went nutting, and Hattie brought home a box turtle for the Professor, while Lillie Beers, had a little garter snake to preserve in alcohol. I believe Helen is writing Willie a detailed account of our adventures. I have not enjoyed an afternoon so much since I came back. Hattie and Minnie have gone to church. I didn't go, as there was no communion in the Presbyterian church, and my morals won't permit my attending the Congregational church here. By-the-way, what is the difference between the old and new school Congregational churches? I never heard of any division until yesterday one of the girls, Louise Blatchley, said that she belonged to the old school Congregational church, and she said that in New Haven the two churches would have no communication with each other, as one considered the other heterodox. Hattie thinks that the division must exist in New Haven alone. How do the electionsmuch I want to hug you. Good bye, with a great many kisses, your loving daughter Mattie -Please send us with the other things one of the Physical Geographies. They are, or were, I think on the upper shelf in our cupboard. Helen wants her felt hat.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 17, 1865
Text: Vassar Oct [?] My darling dear mother, What business have you to go home before you got my letter, which I sent to Kalamazoo? I hope Uncle Safford will not take the trouble to send it to Detroit. I can't say that it was a classical production. I am mad enough tat aunt Mary Frances to [?] her up and despatching her to Belancy Bay. So seldom as Aunt Safford attempts to go any where too! How many weeks is she expecting to remain? I am so glad you had Miss Weed stay at our house: it must...
Show moreVassar Oct [?] My darling dear mother, What business have you to go home before you got my letter, which I sent to Kalamazoo? I hope Uncle Safford will not take the trouble to send it to Detroit. I can't say that it was a classical production. I am mad enough tat aunt Mary Frances to [?] her up and despatching her to Belancy Bay. So seldom as Aunt Safford attempts to go any where too! How many weeks is she expecting to remain? I am so glad you had Miss Weed stay at our house: it must have given you a great deal of please to se her. There is a teacher here Miss Wiley who looks some like Mrs. Kindab. Did you have a pleasant wine there? How did her hopeful children behave Did Mrs. Dr. Barrett go to our house with the rest of the family? Have a doubt of it. Do tell us something about Mary Calburn. how she is, and what the baby's name is. I think I shall invite them to call it Martha Spooner I had a very nice letterfrom Carrie yester- day. Nellie is owing me a letter, but I shan't expect one till house cleaning it over. Please tell Willie that I watch the mail every day in hopes of seeing his handwriting. Minnie had a letter from Hattie today. She says that Father has reported Minnie's cold, she is quite over it now. The letter was very interesting told all about Mayor Duncan's wedding and Mr. Johnsons funeral. I wish you would please send us papers occasionally. I had no idea I should miss them so much. Minnie, Hattie and I started out yesterday afternoon at five o'clock, and made four calls before tea. One was on Miss Leland fourth floor, a fat little thing who looks like and appears very much like Emma Kellogg. I like her even as much. We fixed her gas with a hair pin to make it burn better. Our next call was on the second floor, at Miss Dibble'sShe was nice enough, but her room mate Miss Rhoades was even so much nicer. She is the smartest girl in our Latin class. I should judge, from present appearances. Then we went to see Miss Bechwith on the first floor. She was not at home so we pro ceded to Miss Usher's where we stayed till supper. I like her very much indeed. After tea and chapel Prof. Farrar met us in the Chemistry room to see about Chemistry. Then we came home and studied a little while till Miss johnson and Lizzie Cramer came in. We had just the jolliest time possible. We always do when they are here. Lizzie is going to study Geology. I want to even so much but Hattie would let me , and Miss Gilbert says that you lose much more than you [?] by trying to do too much. Consequently I have submitted with as good grace as posse ble. We have been sealed alphabetically in chapel. Minnie of course is at one [?] and we at the other. We have this advantage however we can watch Miss Lyman and see how shebehave in chapel. Also we can see any visitors, who by hook or crook are in at chapel which is a great privilege. I have there by seen three coat wearing animals whom I otherwise should never have known existed. Mother I do wish you could see Madam. she is so silly Satuday she took several of the girls down town and they to get on the good side of her, flattened till she was half crazy with pleasure. The poor woman actually bought herself a light blue [?] (she is fully forty three) and took it to the dress makers. she is told then to make it any two or three inches in front. "Oh no" the dress maker said "not in front" "yes indeed I walkways hold up my dress so" she does make the most ridiculous appearance of any on I ever saw. I do want to see you ever so much. I hope you will make your appearance before long. Do please send me a piece of your dress and [?] us every thing that happened. You write spleen did letters. I wish I could send you some chestnuts. The frost starts them off nicely now. I am going to get some this afternoon I guess. It will depend upon what time we get out of chemistry. Is De. Barrett's sister that is there Ellen? Give a great deal of love to father and the rest. Tell every one to write to us. How is Bridge? Tell her that our girls name at [?] is Mary O'Hare. I don't know what one chambermaid's name is the one we did have suddenly disappearedher substitute informed us that she had "the shakes". She is fully impressed with the fact that Hattie and Minnie are teachers I wish it would rain We are suffering for the lack of it. We are all very well Hattie and Minnie send a great deal of love [?] tell Emma to write to me sometimes love to Miss Raymoona Mrs. Gre land Mrs. Hittard and every one. I do wish I could kiss you. Goodbye Your loving daugh ter Mattie How many grapes did you have. I wish Charles Goldburn would mind his business & write to us. Have you written to Aunt Rebecca yet? I hope Auntie I will write to us MattieTell Nellie that I am listening attentively toward the West for howls. I support that having no one else to quarrel with she has begun on her image in the look glass. I hope she [?] cracks in the looking glass.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 25, 1865
Text: Vassar Oct. 25/65 My darling Mother, I am going to try and write to you before the retiring bell rings, so that it can go tomorrow A.M. but I hardly think I shall succeed — I am very glad that my belongings are turning up so rapidly - I hope you will appropriate everything you find. Miss Fessenden came in here this evening just before tea and made us quite a visitation, she admired Katie Peale very much. I think she is the nicest of all the lady teachers. Minnie, Hattie and I had the honor of...
Show moreVassar Oct. 25/65 My darling Mother, I am going to try and write to you before the retiring bell rings, so that it can go tomorrow A.M. but I hardly think I shall succeed — I am very glad that my belongings are turning up so rapidly - I hope you will appropriate everything you find. Miss Fessenden came in here this evening just before tea and made us quite a visitation, she admired Katie Peale very much. I think she is the nicest of all the lady teachers. Minnie, Hattie and I had the honor of sitting at Miss Lyman's table Sunday night. We had a very pleasant time, and I soon discovered that she considered Mrs. Sumner "one of the rare women of the earth".Mrs. Perkins she evidently did not admire, and said that she could hardly realize that Minnie was a married woman. She spoke very highly of Mrs. Geo. Foote i.e. Miss Dwight. Miss Mitchel I admire more than I do any woman here, she is tall, has grey hair which she wears done up in two little knobs on each side of her head, that look as if they would be curls sometime, the rest is in a black chenile net drawn up on top of her head just as Emma's is. She being a Quakeress always wears black and grey, and her whole appearance never alters a particle. She is a noble woman. She asked me yesterday why I didn't come into her class this year. I told her I thought I could study it to better advantage another year she said she should never have another class like the one she has now. I forgot to tell you that Miss Lyman didn't know me in my everyday clothes and invited me there yesterday noon. To day is Minnie's birthday. I am very sorry that your answerto Hattie's letter hasn't come yet. She is very much disappointed. Finding that I have plenty of time, I am going to read the Odessy, as soon as the books come. There are only four of us in the class and as one of the teachers said, "there's is metal there". Miss Starr Prof. Knapp says pronounces Modern Greek better than any American he ever heard, she seems to be a born scholar. Miss Glover is a very fine scholar, so is Miss Blatchley, time will develop the resources of Miss Warner. We are all in the same Latin class. There is one little girl here Miss Carter, who is only fifteen, is reading Livy, in the first French class and studying Astronomy, she is a very throrough scholar also. We are all of us very well, haven't had a sick day yet. Minnie was threatened with a head ache last week, but didn't have it. Country air and bread and milk are beginning to tell upon my physical frame. I shouldn't be surprised if I had gained several pounds. The President gave us a lecture yesterday, on the subject of waste in gas and heat, both of which are a far greater expense to the College than they had anticipated. Give a great deal of love to all. Tell Helen that Hattie was delighted with her letter, and will answer it before five weeks are up. Minnie and Miss Gilbert send much love. The breakfast bell has rung - I haven't been writing all night. Good bye - your loving child Mattie. Excuse haste.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 19, 1865
Text: Vassar Oct. 9, 1865 My dearest Mother, I went to church yesterday. Only think how grand I felt as I saw the windows crowded with girls who couldn't go, because it wasn't their communion Sunday. I actually laughed to myself all the way down. I was so delighted to get out side the lodge. I can't say that I enjoyed it so well when we reached the city and every one stared with their eyes and mouth wide open, and every one going into church stood still to see us gracefully descend...
Show moreVassar Oct. 9, 1865 My dearest Mother, I went to church yesterday. Only think how grand I felt as I saw the windows crowded with girls who couldn't go, because it wasn't their communion Sunday. I actually laughed to myself all the way down. I was so delighted to get out side the lodge. I can't say that I enjoyed it so well when we reached the city and every one stared with their eyes and mouth wide open, and every one going into church stood still to see us gracefully descend from the omnibuses, I walked in first with Miss Usher, and sat at the end of the seat. The church is small and very fanciful. Mr. Corning who writes so much for the Independent is the minister. I liked him very much indeed except a furious denunciation of the Conn. legislature for refusing the negroes the right ofsuffrage, and at the Communion he compared John Brown's last supper with his wife, to that of Christ with his disciples. His text was, "Not for that we would be unclothed, but clothed upon, that mortality might be swallowed in life" It was very finely written indeed. His manner in many of his expressions were like Dr. Hogan, or, as I heard others say, a faint imitation of H. W. Beecher. There are seventeen of the girls long communicants, six teachers at least, and Profs Buckham and Farrar. These two gentlemen walked down yesterday and home again. Prof. Buckham didn't come into dinner until we were eating our pudding. I am in Prof. Farrar's Bible Class. I like him very much. We are to be subdivided next Sunday, when I am in hopes I shall fall to Prof. Tenny. I must tell you an adventure of Nettie Huntingdon's. Prof. Buckham didn't hear his bible class until evening yesterday, because he went to church in the A.M. Nettie is in Miss Lyman's class, but was very anxious to hear Prof. Buckham so she thought she would go into the gallery, but be-ing very anxious to avoid attention, she took off her shoes and proceeded on tiptoe. Alas! for the fallacy of human expectations! Her foot slipped going from one row of seats to the next, and down she went, bump, bump, on the two next. Great agitation below! Prof. Farrar Buckham anxiously inquired "Has any one fallen?" A small girl in the gallery rushed to the rescue. On her way she discovers Nettie's shoes which she seizes, and presses on, mistaking Nettie's entreaties to keep quiet for signals of distress she ran to her, still bearing the shoes aloft, and announces to the alarmed Prof, "no one hurt." Poor Nettie retired completely overwhelmed with chagrin and mortification, inwardly resolved never again to attend Prof. Buckham's Bible Class "sub rosa". Pres. Raymond preached us an excellent sermon yesterday afternoon, text "The perfect law of liberty". I like him very much indeed. Prof. Knapp is splendid! I really believe he's the best teacher I ever saw. He is a wonderfully, linguist. He has lived in Paris and understands all the crooks andturns completely. We study our French just as we do Latin, take the Grammar thoroughly and parse and every thing. He is very handsome too. I am very glad you are out at Kalamazoo, but you must be sure sad come and see us. Hattie is studying Astronomy. Prof. Farrar thought I had better, but I told him I thought I had better study it another year, as I wanted to study Analytical Geometry & Chemistry first. Like a reasonable man he acquiesced in my judgement and thought so too. Give a great deal of love to Uncle and Aunt, they must enjoy your being there. Have you seen any of Hattie's friends? Is Willie going out to Kalamazoo? How does he get along? I do so much want to see him - Isn't it funny about Mary Colburn? Give her my congratulations when she comes home I wonder how Mr. Colburn likes it. I have decided to fascinate Matthew Vassar Jr. or "Young Mat" as he is universally denominated. He is a gay young widower of fifty or more, who makes himself quite popular among the girls. I wish you could see old Mr. Vassar, his face is a perfect sunbeam,he seems entirely happy and contented to walk over the buildings and nod at all the girls. Every pleasant day his carriage is here. Mother dear, if I don't tell you what you want to know or anything you must tell me. I think I write my letters very much at random, but I don't make any progress in improving them. I do want very much to see you, but I haven't been homesick a bit. I said this A.M. at breakfast that I hadn't shed a tear, and Miss Deppen said she wished I had done some of her crying for her. How is Mrs. Howard? & Bell Adams, give my love to Mr and Mrs. Raymond, when you go home. Do stay ever so long. I wish I could kiss you good night. Mattie (Martha Warner, '68)
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: October 16, 1865
Text: Vassar Oct. 16, 1865. My dear Mother, I came very near writing to you last night if it was Sunday, and was only prevented by being so sleepy that I went to bed instead. Yesterday went off quite as entirely to my satisfaction, perhaps more so, than any since I have been here. In the first place it was rainy, and that was precisely what we had been wishing for, ever since we came. It rained violently all day and, I hope, has done much good. Then we were all dressed some time before the bell...
Show moreVassar Oct. 16, 1865. My dear Mother, I came very near writing to you last night if it was Sunday, and was only prevented by being so sleepy that I went to bed instead. Yesterday went off quite as entirely to my satisfaction, perhaps more so, than any since I have been here. In the first place it was rainy, and that was precisely what we had been wishing for, ever since we came. It rained violently all day and, I hope, has done much good. Then we were all dressed some time before the bell rang, a very unusual circumstance which put us all in high spirits. Next the Bible Classes were subdivided yesterday and to my intense joy I was assigned to Prof. Tenney — Hattie and Minnie to Prof. Knapp. He takes it up with reference to the Greek.We are going to study Isaiah. It was so stormy yesterday that Prof. Knapp who lives in the city was not present, so Hattie came into our class, she told me afterwards, that she did not know but she envied me after all. In the afternoon Rev. Thomas Beecher, of Elmira, preached for us. His text was, Luke 24.32. "And they said one to another. Did not our heart burn within us while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the Scriptures?" It was very plain and simple, not at all Beechery in his style or manner, but it was certainly one of the best sermons I ever heard. I don't mean in point of rhetoric, but of instruction. I hope that Henry Ward will come up to see us this winter. He ought to, being one of the Trustees. Miss A very doesn't look as if she had had a history although after the reading of your letter, Hattie and Minnie concluded that there is something about her mouth conveying the impression of some kind of a secret. (What a graceful sentence) She looks to me something like young Mrs. Wardwith all the sweetness taken out of her face. She has a very decided look, just as if she was capable of doing what you said. I don't know her at all, but she is not a favorite with those who do. I only hope I shan't be sick here. Hattie says that she shall never let me be taken to the "Inventory". I don't think Miss Lyman is much of a sight. She is very pleasant, but can be awfully stern. I don't think she is any more like Mother than I am sure I don't know what. Prof. Knapp, Prof. Tenny, and Mrs. Pres. Raymond, are our biggest sights, also the little Raymond child aged four years - I wouldn't have you think that I don't like Miss Lyman. I do, very much. I am growing very impatient to see you. you are surely coming are you not? I am going to take you up to my room, see if I don't - I feel just as stupid as an owl - therefore you must excuse the brillancy of this document. I shall try and do better next time. (You'll get tired of that before long I'm afraid).Minnie had a paper this morning saying that Tillie Davenport has married her Major General. I am very glad. The same paper brought intelligence of the death of Mrs. Degarmo Jones. I didn't suppose she was so old. What a pity that you couldn't remember Mr. Freeland's message - Please give our love to him especially mine - Mrs. Raymond I always send love to, whether I say so or not, also Mrs. Freeland Mrs. Hibbard and the girls - How is Mrs. Howard? Tell Nell I shall write to her pretty soon, unless there is a prospect of something interesting's happening - Our life goes along in a sort of monotone, nothing occurs that would interest any one outside the building. Rev. Mr. Beecher took dinner here today. Miss Sayles and Miss Avery sat one on each side of him - We have lost our nice dining room girl. She had a fuss with Mrs. Fowler, and was started off - We have got the pokiest thing in her place. Yesterday she didn't get us helped to meat until we had been at the table twenty five minutes - We had ever so much fun and Mrs. Fowler gave her a scolding that made her cheeks burn. She did better today - Minnie and Hattie sendmuch love - Has Father entirely forgotten us. He hasn't so much as sent his love to us since we left. How is Le Maire? likewise Billy Gray? Love to all at home & abroad - Your loving daughter - Mattie S. W. You didn't ask me any questions did you?
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 25, 1866
Text: Vassar College. Nov. 25, 1866 My dearest Mother, Your letter filled me with delight. It always seems as though you had made such an effort to write to me that your letters are doubly precious. I am very sorry that you should have worked so hard getting Auntie and little Mary ready to leave. Are you quite rested now? Have they gone yet? I had a letter from Miss Gilbert yesterday, in which she said that Katie Penfield was in all probability at my Mother's. How glad you must have been to...
Show moreVassar College. Nov. 25, 1866 My dearest Mother, Your letter filled me with delight. It always seems as though you had made such an effort to write to me that your letters are doubly precious. I am very sorry that you should have worked so hard getting Auntie and little Mary ready to leave. Are you quite rested now? Have they gone yet? I had a letter from Miss Gilbert yesterday, in which she said that Katie Penfield was in all probability at my Mother's. How glad you must have been to see her. I hope she will make you a nice visit, and that no other person will dare to show his or her nose inside of the house while she stays. By-the-way don't youthink that Miss Penfield would feel complimented if she should see the manner in which I spoke of her a few lines higher up. Never mind, she'll never know, and I certainly meant no harm when I wrote it - How is George? I feel very anxious to hear from him. How do the family feel about him. Thanksgiving Day is almost here is it not? I hope you will each eat a double portion of dinner to make up for us - As for us, I don't know what we are to have but we have engaged Clara Glover to carve our turkey, the terrible thought has just crossed my mind that perhaps they won't give us a turkey! horrible! What I would have given if Mr. Curtis had only seen Father. Wouldn't he have been wrathy to meet him marching around his College? I wonder if Aunt Martha still considers Galesburg far superior to Vassar College. I wonder ifMr. what's-his-name, that resident clergyman, will go and tell Mr. Curtis what Father said about him - Wasn't Mrs. Ballard's letter good? likewise her husbands. I am more and more surprised and astonished at their kindness in writing to us. I shall certainly write to them as soon as I have an opportunity. I wish I could hear him preach this afternoon - We are going to have the Episcopal service here this afternoon - I know I shall enjoy it very much. Mr. Scarborough is a very earnest christian and a good speaker. I decidedly agree with you in not caring to change places with Dr. Hogarth's people. I am glad that your visit with those children was so successfully completed. Where is Bloomfield? I never heard of it before. It seems to me that my relatives have a peculiar fancy for Illinois - Horace Halleck is married, as ofcourse you know. One of the girls here is acquainted with his wife, or rather her sister is, and she wrote her a long account of the wedding - I pity the poor woman he has married. Don't you? I combed Helen's hair this morning, and you can't imagine what an improvement is is - I should like to do it every day if it didn't take too long - I must stop now, and get ready for church, or chapel rather - O Mother! how I wish you could hear Prof. Knapp in our Testament class - He is one of the best Christian men I ever saw. Prof. Tenney wants to get that Mastodon for the College, but has few hopes of success - I must stop now, for I am in a great hurry - Yours with much love Mattie S. W. I forgot to send my love to all the people but of course they will take it for granted.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 04, 1866
Text: Vassar College, Nov. 4, 1866- My dearest Mother, I am all alone in my room. Helen has gone to church, Mattie and Minnie are in chapel, and I have seized the opportunity to write to you. How glad I am that you could hear Mr. Ballard today, and didn't have to sit an hour and listen to Dr. Raymond - Why doesn't some institution make Mr. Ballard a D.D. I am sure he deserves it as much as any one - I wish Father would please tell Ann Arbor to show her appreciation for true talent, and...
Show moreVassar College, Nov. 4, 1866- My dearest Mother, I am all alone in my room. Helen has gone to church, Mattie and Minnie are in chapel, and I have seized the opportunity to write to you. How glad I am that you could hear Mr. Ballard today, and didn't have to sit an hour and listen to Dr. Raymond - Why doesn't some institution make Mr. Ballard a D.D. I am sure he deserves it as much as any one - I wish Father would please tell Ann Arbor to show her appreciation for true talent, and give him all the title our poor ministers can ever aspire to. We told you didn't we that we were put into Prof. Knapp's Bible class? He, poor man, is so crowded with business that he finds it impossible to comeup here Saturdays, even for the exquisite pleasure of having a class of sixty one girls, of all ages and beliefs, at a time when but for love of the man, they would rebel, so he has dropped us, and Miss Lyman told us to pick ourselves up, and put ourselves where we pleased, for which last unexpected concession, I assure you we blessed her - So we are in our dear Prof. Tenney's. He is treating the first chapter of Genesis taken Geologically - He was very interesting indeed this morning, and as I hear Prof. Knapp twice a week in Greek Testament I am well satisfied with the change. We have a new music teacher who has just come over from Germany, her name is Sue - She is very odd looking but may be very nice indeed. I believe that she speaks very little English. How hard it must be for Carrie to have Mrs. Avery sick. Seems to me Mrs. Avery is sick a great deal lately - I do think thatCarrie is as lovely a girl as I know. Isn't it gorgeous that Maggie can use her eyes again? I think no doctor but an oculist ought ever to experiment on people's eyes. I do hope that your eyes are growing strong again. I want so much to see you Mother - it doesn't seem as if I could wait till next summer, but the time is going very fast - There is an utterly disagreeable young woman here named Frothingham, who attended Dr. Pease's church in Rochester. She sits at the head of the table this week, and as I sit close by her of course I have to be as agreeable to her as possible. She expatiated for some time on the love they all bore him, also the influence he had over the young gentlemen - Mother I don't want any bonnet, and for a hat get me any thing you want to. I don't know anything about it, not having seen a single hat of any kind. I think a felt hat would be very pretty indeed. Nellie wore her velvet hattoday, and it looked very pretty — Is it not becoming? I hope that you wont be worn out with company, but yet I am glad every time I hear of any one's being at our house. I suppose that Sarah is having a splendid time keeping house. Won't it be forlorn if George has to go away - What a goose Julia LeMaire is! I am out of all manner of patience with the people. Won't you have some body at home Thanksgiving? It will be so desolate with out any one - Tell Father that he Is a jewel to want to share the good things with us, and I wish he could. I am going to write to him very soon, just as soon as I have any ideas. I am perfectly destitute of any thing of the kind. Hattie wants you to please send her, her pink Bible Dictionary - She say that she an accumulation of duties just now, but just as soon as she can, about by Teusday she will write. How did you manage with Rose and her baby both sick? Hattie likewise wants a belt. She can't find onein Poughkeepsie. She will send you a sample - All send s greet deal of love - Please remember us to all the nice people whom we like - Love to Auntie & Mary in large quantities - Willie and Father also - Good bye - with much love from your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 15, 1866
Text: Vassar College- Nov. 15, 1866- My dearest Mother, I was delighted to receive your letter, how good it was of you to write to me - We are so much rejoiced to hear such good news of your eyes. I hope that they will continue to increase in strength, until they are as well as they used to be before. You don't know how astonished I was to hear your news of Sarah. I was so positive that nothing of the kind was the matter with her, that I could scarcely believe my eyes. Do tell me all the...
Show moreVassar College- Nov. 15, 1866- My dearest Mother, I was delighted to receive your letter, how good it was of you to write to me - We are so much rejoiced to hear such good news of your eyes. I hope that they will continue to increase in strength, until they are as well as they used to be before. You don't know how astonished I was to hear your news of Sarah. I was so positive that nothing of the kind was the matter with her, that I could scarcely believe my eyes. Do tell me all the particulars as soon as possible. Nov. 21. I wrote thus far last Wednesday but was prevented from finishing it, and have not been able yet to finish it, but I am going to now any way - We are having a beautiful time prepar-ing for our public meeting which is to take place next Monday week. If Father thinks best I shall enjoy staying here very much although of course I am very anxious to see Burlington and its inhabitants once more. I don't know whether we shall have to pay board or not, but I think it altogether more probable that we will. When you send the box will you please send that large shell comb of Aunt Rebecca's? I want it very much, and will take excellent care of it. What is the matter with George Pomeroy? Your letter to Helen said that he was very low if alive. Is it not very sudden? I had not heard of him being ill - I don't know whether any one could mourn for him or not. If his mind had been unimpaired I think that he would have made a fine man - He was a very smart boy. As it is, I could hardly be sorry for him, or for the girls, his life, if helives, must be a terrible burden to himself, if not an utter blank, and a constant cause of anxiety to his friends - If he dies please tell me all about his sickness and the family, please do any way. Has Mrs. Pomeroy quite recovered? How is Sarah's health? We received Mr. Ballard's letter today. How very kind of him to write, and of you to ask him - I think the motto a beautiful one. You heard it did you not? "Per aspera, ad astra," "Through trials to glory." The girls like it very much, but we are going to get several together before we decide upon any. Did you read his letter? It was a very kind one, but I must say I dont fancy the idea of a dock in church. The church was what he meant by the "audience room" was it not? Did you hear that Italian lecture? I hope that he presentiment is a true one, and that the Pope will leaveRome before the close of the year, but I must say that I have little faith in such predictions - He seems to me very much like a fixture - Get me a felt hat please. Mother, a real pretty shape, turban if they are prettiest, and please send me my felt turban that I foolishly left behind me. Auntie and little Mary have left I suppose. I am very glad that they made you such a good long visit, & I wish that some one else would come and make you another while Father is gone. Otherwise how forlorn you will be. How did you ever come to take tea at the Colburn's? Has the old lady grown gracious? or what? Do tell us what you are going to do for Thanksgiving? Who are you going to have to dinner? What are you going to have to eat? &c &c. I am hungry and want to hear of some good things to eat. I suppose that we are to have some kind of a dinner, and a Shakspeare reading in the evening. Coming as it does just before our public meetingit was not considered necessary to have any thing much - Give a great deal of love to all the people who want it. Father, Willie, Sarah, &c - I hope that your eye is quite well now. I am very sorry that I let so long a time elapse between my last letter and this, and never mean to do so any more. With a great deal of love, and a great many kisses, I am Your humble servant, M.S.W.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 17, 1865
Text: Vassar Nov. 17./65 My darling dear Mother, What a dear good woman you are to write to me so often. You are worth half a dozen Helen's in that branch of the fine arts. Not that she is at all to be slighted - but I don't believe she has injured her eyes sitting up at night to write. However Nellie "its very good what there is of it." I should like to see Mrs. Taylor - Did she tell any news worth hearing? Anything about the Peases or Catlins? I suppose she has material for...
Show moreVassar Nov. 17./65 My darling dear Mother, What a dear good woman you are to write to me so often. You are worth half a dozen Helen's in that branch of the fine arts. Not that she is at all to be slighted - but I don't believe she has injured her eyes sitting up at night to write. However Nellie "its very good what there is of it." I should like to see Mrs. Taylor - Did she tell any news worth hearing? Anything about the Peases or Catlins? I suppose she has material for conversation sufficient to last at least one year. I should enjoy hearing her talk. By the way where's Miss Seger? Please remember us to her. Also to her Mother. Miss Grant that was, Mrs. Ban-ister that is, is visiting Miss Lyman. She is a very remarkable looking woman. We haven't been to see her yet, but are going tomorrow morning. Miss Lyman told her about us, and she expressed a strong desire to see us. She spoke very highly of Mother to Miss Gilbert. I was delighted with her appearance as far as I saw at chapel. She is as tall as Miss Lyman, and I had always imagined her short. I wish I could pass myself off on her as Miss Morrison. By the way I am going to send home for our family Bible in order to prove satisfactorily to myself and the world at large, that my name is Martha Spooner Warner, and not Morrison. On the whole I have decided not put my eyes out looking for Father. I have concluded that he will be visible to the naked eye when he does arrive. Bridget must be a useful member of society since her two wakes. I wouldn'twake a man that died drunk seems to me. "But every one to their taste as the old woman." I read that chapter. It is very beautiful. They are building the organ in the chapel, so that we can't have our half hours with Miss Lyman. I am sorry for she wanted Mrs. Banister to address us. Prehaps however the organ will be finished before she leaves, as I believe she is going to stay some time. Minnie had a letter from Maggie a day or two ago, in which she said "Mrs. Powel has just returned from Elba. Mrs. Town is ill, she has but one opinion in regard to her sickness - consumption." Won't it be dreadful if we never see her again. Only four weeks more to Christmas! Does it seem possible? Has Aunt Rebecca written anything more about our coming there? I believe I should prefer Vermont on some accounts. Aunt Mary is very anxious we should come and see her. I should like to I think. Who is the "little minister" at Mr. Eldrige's church? I thought Dr. Eels was there.Tell Father I am extremely obliged to him for putting "Knickbocker" in with our books. For that matter the girls feel their obligation equally with me. I read out loud in it last night, to the great edification of all present. I had no idea it was such a keen satire. Mill Gilbert sends much love. Hattie and Minnie are considering the subject. O Mother! You can't imagine how much I want to see you, and have you see us, and how comfortable and happy we are here. I do believe that we three girls are as contented a trio as can be found in the college. Every says when they come in here, "Oh! what a pleasant room! only two bedrooms, how's that? Just you three, why how happy you must be! All I want to make me "perfectly happy" is, some sweet apples. I want you to see Miss Starr, she is lovely - Tell Nellie that a letter that came from her would be highly acceptable - But I know the dear child is very busy - Remember us to every body - kiss Mary Colburn's baby for me. Tell Mrs. Raymond that the President's little Nellie reminds meme extremely on her little Hattie. Give my love to every body and tell them I want very much to see them - We have begun to practise in the labratory. I like it very much. If I hadn't anything else to do - I think I should stay there all day long — I do love Prof. Farrar dearly - There's chapel bell Good bye my dear dear Mother - Your loving daughter Mattie Dr. Magoon of Albany preached for us Sunday. We liked him very much.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: November 10, 1865
Text: Vassar Nov. 10./65 My darling dear Mother, How much do you suppose I can get written before the tea bell rings? I shall try to get down the page. I can't tell you how delighted I was to hear from you, as for worrying about Hattie's having more letters from you than I, it never occurred to me that she did, but what comes to her comes just as much to me. What a shame that Alice Holmes and her baby are so feeble. I hope that it will live. Is she going to try Mincassia? There is a Miss...
Show moreVassar Nov. 10./65 My darling dear Mother, How much do you suppose I can get written before the tea bell rings? I shall try to get down the page. I can't tell you how delighted I was to hear from you, as for worrying about Hattie's having more letters from you than I, it never occurred to me that she did, but what comes to her comes just as much to me. What a shame that Alice Holmes and her baby are so feeble. I hope that it will live. Is she going to try Mincassia? There is a Miss Treadwell here from Jackson who lives very near Mrs. Hobart. I like her very much indeed. She has a really remarkable face. Miss Wiebe says "she looks like our poet Schiller." I feel quite proud of her.I expected nothing more or less, than that the Brooks and Bernards would appear in red or green on the first Sunday How do you admire the new style of bonnets ? I think that they are the most graceful shape that I have seen. How thankful I am that Mrs. Wheaton has something new to put over her self. Where is Mrs. Tarbox going to live? I should like to have seen her married - at least I should to have seen her husband during the ceremony. There is the tea bell. Don't you think I'm smart. Miss Gilbert is sick. I am afraid she has a touch of ague. She really is quite sick. I had the honor of teaching our Greek class, as for giving out the lesson went. She is so different from what E has always imagined. Every one likes her very much - Some of the girls think she is the nicest teacher here. She has been very kind to us, very indeed. I had a nice long letter from Sara today, she does write capital letters. I do want to be at home next month. What are you going to do Thanksgiving Day? Doesn't it seem improper to have it in December. Aren't you sorry for Mrs. Rumney? It does seem as if she had children enough. How's Cousin Bell? Give a great deal of love to her. Are the old lady and gentleman any respectabler than formerly? Frankie Hunt wrote to Prof. Farrar's wife to the effect that we were here Prof. Farrar stopped Minnie coming out of chapel last week and told her that his wife despaired of hunting us out and therefore wished us to call on her, consequently night before last, we started out and invited Miss Sayles to take us. We had a most delightful visit. I do love Prof. Farrar, his wife is very pleasant. The Prof. knew Mr. George Curtiss very well, (you know he came here from Elmira) It seemed so pleasant and home like there, that nothing less than the demands of some terrible lessons at home was sufficient to tear us away. I am going to cultivate Prof. Tenney, he lives so near it would be delightful to go and see him. I have given away my beloved mud turtle. H. and M. didn't find him a congenial parlor mate. Miss Avery came in here Sunday and staid nearly an hour. She was very pleasant, talked about almost every thing. We have got to go into the Labratory at least half an hour a day - I presume we shall enjoy it very much. What a kind considerate man Mr. Pease is, the more I know of him the better I like him. Do tell me what Mrs. Coucklin did to those collars? Did she make them chokers or what? I don't believe I brought your stocking - I remember seeing one and not the other when packing but thought the other one had been put away I am very sorry about it. When is Father coming? Nobody had mentioned it lately. Do the girls say much about their Father marriage? are they making many preperations for Mrs Fomeroy? How does Mary feel? How's Miss Seger? Love to her. Mrs. Sumner Mrs. Raymond, Mr. and Mrs. Freeland ditto - How I wish I could go to church.You don't know how much I like to hear from you. Give a great deal of love to every one I known especially May Colburn and her baby - Send us some pound sweets do. I think I should like to have you send the whole city at the same time. How does Helen get along? Tell Willie I do want a letter. Can't you come with Father? I fairly ache to see you. Good bye your loving daughter Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar [?] My darling Mother, Here we are safe and sound Mattie unpacking her trunk, Minnie arranging the books on the what not, my things lying around promiscuously and my self writing you. We got her in the finest sleigh imaginable. No one could have been kinder than [?] [?] and Bessie was very pleasant and agree ably disappointed me. She expressed her pleas rue several times at having us with her, told us to call her Bessie. I felt as though I had known her all my life. We did not have to...
Show moreVassar [?] My darling Mother, Here we are safe and sound Mattie unpacking her trunk, Minnie arranging the books on the what not, my things lying around promiscuously and my self writing you. We got her in the finest sleigh imaginable. No one could have been kinder than [?] [?] and Bessie was very pleasant and agree ably disappointed me. She expressed her pleas rue several times at having us with her, told us to call her Bessie. I felt as though I had known her all my life. We did not have to change cars except at Niagara where we found very dine fleeing cars. Hattie and Miss. Bell had one bench. Mr [?] ones and Bessie and [?] Wgeb we reached Pokeepsie (fashionable appalling here) one of the railway officials conductors to the rails [?]. He went so fast that we lost sight ofher. Mc. Clellan alrother and so had no op portunity to thank her, we both felt very much mortified about it and wish you would ask father to thank him for us. He was just asking if any one could be. We rode up in the omnibus which was jammed with girls and their Father and Mothers I wished. I was any when else in the world. I don't think I even dreaded any thing quite as much as I did that. We got with in sight of the building and it looked just like the lectures we drove thro the lodge up to the door and alighted there we watched to see what other people did. and as they all posted up to the front door we posted after them. there we stood [?] and solitary when a very handsome young gentle man with light hair said to us "have you seen Miss Lyman?" We signified that we hadn't but desire to do so. He inquired if our Father was with us. Hattie said no but we had a letter to her. he seized it inquired our names and dragged us in to the reception room, which was packed full of ladies and gentlemen in the midst of which stood a tall lady in [?] white lace [?]with kink rodes, and almost white curls to whom every one was talking and who seemed to be the center of attraction generally. the gentleman (Mr. Terry as we have since learned) introduced us to her and handed her the letter she shook hands with us and write out waiting to say "how do you you do or anything she exclaimed "do you know that your mother was a class mate of mine, we were the same age. I am delighted to have her daughters under my charge" - I do not remmed beer ever feeling so relieved and refreshed by a few words in my life. She then put us in charge of Prof. Henry who conducted us down stairs and put us into the Prof. Buckham can who look down our manner and sent us into a room to wait until our turn came to go into the clark and pay our bills & get our keys. we waited an almost [?] amount of time before our turn came when Hattie attended to the many mat ters and came back and we sailed up stairs when we were met by a lady teacher who conducted us to our room. just as we almost reached it some one came rushing out an adjoining room and there was [?]me. She said she had been waiting for us all day and was greatly disappointed at not having [?] us to our room or anything. We took off our things and I found that I was nearly dead. Hattie was not quite so much exhausted as I, but pretty nearly. We started out to look at the house a little when Minnie introduced us to Miss Gilbert. She was very glad to see us but we none of us fell in love with her. We went into the art gallery which is beautiful and into the chapel which is very pleasant, and then the dinner bell rang. I felt to tired to eat and so went back to our room which is just as perfect as we could ask it is in the south wing the back room. our parlor is about as large as our room not quite. but plenty large for our pur pose. the furniture is a [?][?] Hattie says she has told father about it. We are all charmed Yesterday after the frills came up from dinner Minnie thought I would setle better if I had a cup of tea. She went to M[?] Fowler (the house keeper) and she very kindly sent us up a pitcher of tea. two cups and saucers a pitcher of beautiful cream & [?] [?] brought us some bread & butter & felt very much better after it & I dressed for tea but got belated and didn't go down. Our bed room floors are oiled and uncapped except a rug your loving daughter Min front of the bed. I am delighted write every [?] [?] I am just going to say a word to Jon this time. We going to be very happy hire I know. I do so want to see you all I want you to see the building & everything here very much, Give my love to [?] tell her I will write very soon. Minnie is asleep Mattie telling me to hurry. Good by my dear darling Mother Hattie give us a great deal of love to Helen & Willies father Prof. [?] says that we must go on work tomorrow. We say his examinations are not going to [?]difficult but after you are in a class you must do your best and [?] your placeperfectly or we will go down with out mercy. Love to Dara and the rest for you- I do hope you are better-
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar College Oct. 4. My dear Nellie, I received your letter this A. M. on my way down stairs to purchase a Livy. I did not get my Livy but it made very little difference. How much news you do have! Poor stupid I with the outer world safely locked out, can tell you little of interest save what immediately concerns us, and although we may be deeply interested in the fact that Miss Johnson has lamed herself so that she can hardly walk, practising gymnastics, or that Miss Burnet desires to room...
Show moreVassar College Oct. 4. My dear Nellie, I received your letter this A. M. on my way down stairs to purchase a Livy. I did not get my Livy but it made very little difference. How much news you do have! Poor stupid I with the outer world safely locked out, can tell you little of interest save what immediately concerns us, and although we may be deeply interested in the fact that Miss Johnson has lamed herself so that she can hardly walk, practising gymnastics, or that Miss Burnet desires to room with Lizzie Dramer on the ground that they are congenial spirits, nevertheless we cannot expect you to be particularly entertained thereby. One thing I desire to complain of immediately lest I forget it. That is, the long length of time it takes for our letters to go to and fro. A letter mailed from Detroit on Saturday, reaches here Wednesday, that is not bad, butMother's letter mailed Tuesday, the day we started, didn't reach here till Sunday. I don't think it is fair at all. So much for growling. What under the sun possessed Mary Colburn? I am so glad it is a little girl. How forlorn Mr. Colburn must feel in Detroit with her out there. I hope she will do nicely all through. How terrible Lulu Goodwin's death is. I can scarcely believe it. I had not heard of her being sick. I saw her out riding a few days before we left. It seems very much like Nellie Davidson's death does it not? Minnie had a paper from home with Tootle Dey's death in it. What was the matter with him? I am very glad that Mother has gone out to Kalamazoo. I hope she will enjoy it ever so much, and stay a long time. H Willie goes out to Mr. Cobb's I know he will like it. They have a very pleasant place and Mr. Cobb is extremely good natured. I am ever so glad that you went to Mrs. Ladue's. You must have enjoyed it highly. Who helped you dress? How kind Mother is! did you make up your handkerchief? What a delightful escort George Pomeroy must have been, but yet, if hedid as well as he knows how he would be a great deal better than no one. Who else talked to you? Was you introduced to any one? What time did you get home? You see I believe in plenty of questions to draw one out. The girls must have looked lovely, especially Sara. I fancy that Emma's style of coiffure would have looked better in a tableau than at a dancing party, but of course I cannot tell. What a very brilliant affair it must have been. I wish I had been there to see. Mrs. Ladue should have waited until next winter, when her party might have had a "bright peculiar star." Give rather our warmest congratulations upon his triumph. I am very glad indeed, about as much for the factory as for the bridge. I hope they will get the one in Canada also. Be sure and be very sociable this winter, especially now while Mother is gone and you are alone. I would advise you to call upon Miss Beaument. Remember me to Mr. Pease, if you should see him. Mr. Colburn ditto, also Mr. Freeland. Tell the old Doctor when you see him, that I have forgotten the name of the hill hetold us about. We are kept pretty closely here, that is as far as going down town is concerned. We are allowed to wander over seventy acres of the ground at will, (provided we are in immediately after sunset) as the droughts have been so severe this year, that the river channels are exposed in some cases, and after sun down the air is not considered healthy. Eastman's Commercial College in Po'keepsie contains 1100 students, and Bryant & Strattons several hundred, there are two Military Schools and several private schools, so that the streets are running over with young fellows, some of them not of the highest order, there are always plenty of girls in so large and establishment as this who would delight in such fine opportunities to start flirtations with any one they saw, and very probably would get themselves and the teachers into a great deal of trouble, and reflect anything but credit upon the College, therefore I don't at all blame Miss Lyman or the President for hedging our way to town with innumerable difficulties, and flanking us with teachers. For the same reason gentlemen calling on the ladies are to be provided with letters of introductionfrom their parents. Nellie have pity on me. I am condemned for the space of one week, to sit at Madame Spartan's table and be talked to in French only. Shades of Epicurus! I shall starve altogether. If a skeleton should come to you nicely boxed up, shed a few tears over it for memory's sake, and write as its epitaph, "Died of Madame's French." I am to recite to Prof. Knapp in both French & Latin, and are to study "Knapp's French Grammar" on the plan of Andrews and Stoddard's Latin. I may send home for Racine, but can't say. It will depend on whether the tragedy he wishes us to read, is or is not in the Reader. Prof. Knapp is very handsome but he reminds me of George Cochrane. I have struck up an acquaintance with the "music man" who lives next door. We have confined our remarks so far to "It's a very cold morning," and "Yes Sir", but practice makes perfect. I wish I could have seen Jake Beller chase his watermelon down stairs. It must have been a sight for sore eyes. I have laughed a great deal since I have been here, over our washing as much as anything. We have all had colds in our heads.Minnie is very bad yet, and as we are not allowed but twelve pieces, we have great fun deciding what dozen to send, and what to save over. I thought at first that a dozen was a great plenty, but when I came to count my handkerchiefs, collars, underclothes and so forth, its magnificent proportions dwindled fearfully. I shall have to manage however. There are a great many girls, whom I know something about, or live near, or know their friends. The other day I was talking to Ida Lynde about Mrs. Lynde when Miss Huntingdon exclaimed "Do you know her friends too? Seems to me you know every body." By the way Kittle Edmonds, daughter of the Judge is here. I haven't seen her yet, but intend to hunt her up. O dear I can't think of anything but that wretched French table. I wish Miss Gilbert would have to sit there all the time. No use blaming her tho, for she only did as she was told. I must stop as it is nearly time for French class. I don't think I put much into my letters, yet I manage to spin them out considerably - Give a great deal of love to every one at home and to the girls - Write as soon as you have time, how remarkably smart you are growing. Yours lovingly Mattie.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: n.d.
Text: Vassar Coll. [?] My darling mother I [was?] just finished my composition and in consequence thereof. I feel so for feel that I cannot refrain from writing to you. My subject was "The Wreck of the P[?]" Minnie and Hattie consider it good. Hattie wrote [on] [the] a letter describing our journey, which was ex- cellent. Winnie's subject was "[?] [?] [?] of Vassar College" I think it was very good indeed. Prof. Buckham is the only one who sees them and he is to preserve...
Show moreVassar Coll. [?] My darling mother I [was?] just finished my composition and in consequence thereof. I feel so for feel that I cannot refrain from writing to you. My subject was "The Wreck of the P[?]" Minnie and Hattie consider it good. Hattie wrote [on] [the] a letter describing our journey, which was ex- cellent. Winnie's subject was "[?] [?] [?] of Vassar College" I think it was very good indeed. Prof. Buckham is the only one who sees them and he is to preserve them in the ar chives of the College. I wonder if we shall have to write one when we graduate to go alongside. Matthew Vassar founder has sent an in vitiation to the school to visit his country seat. Part are going this morning, part this afternoon, and the remainder another day. We are among the other day saints. Hattie and Minnie are going down town in a few minutes under the convoy of two teachers. I don't think that I shall ask to go in a hurry it is such a labor of love to obtain per- mission. Hattie is already quite a favorite here Miss Gilbert said the other day that they made fun of her in Faculty meeting. Hattie wanted to know what they said and she told that Prof Knapp said that she had read ore Greek and Latin than there is in the regular courts and Prog Gar man said she had studied more mathematics. Prof. Knapp is very anxious to have Minnie and Hattie alone in a Greek class. He doesn't think Hattie had better study latin this term. he has also decieed that I shall not study Greek. I am a little disappointed but perhaps it will be better for me. I want to study some Franch of Natural [?] in order to recite to Prof [?], I like him more than all the other Profs put together. He was the first person who spoke to us after we came and was so polite and kind that I wanted to hug him. He lives next door to us and I often pass ing to and from our corridor. The music man lives in the other side of his house, but I can't sayI am unable to control my affections for him. Minnie and I went out to walk yesterday (Hattie had bumped her toe, and was unable to accompany us) we went way over to sunset hill and saw the sunset. The view was very gin, but there were not clouds enough. i got some very pretty wild flowers and made a bouquet for Miss Metcalf. at which she expressed great pleasure. I was very tired when I came home but feel very finely today Last night we held a reception and invited all our table to come only size came, but we had a real nice time. Miss Hart wore her gymnasium dress gray flannel trimmed with red alpaca braids. it had just come and was very becoming. She turned out to be a [?] girl. knew Anna Marock and family is a cousin of Lucy Ward's husband and are ola play She recognized the girls pictures, but thought they had improved wonderfully. I am more and more astonished every day of my life and number of girls there are here whom I know about or know their friends Hattie said yesterday that we were growing like you in that respect. By the way every one who seesyour ambrotype things that I resemble my mother very much. Did you see Willie's letter to me? Wasn't it capital? What has become of Helen why doesn't she write to us? Minnie hasn't heard a single word from her home: isn't it a shame? She says that I Detroit might be razed to the ground and they never would send her word. Ida Lynde is here. I like her very well. She is a wild little thing. Mrs. Metcalf's little girl is the most perfect witch I ever saw. She is into every thing and every body but she is just as smart as she can be! What would you think of me Mother if you should see me drowning in bread and milk every morning and night, and deep in the mysteries of roast beef at noon? I was the first over at our table who dared to do anything so vulgar as eat bread and milk but every one at the table from Miss Gilbert to Miss Glass fool lows my illustrious example. There is always a large pitcher of milk on each table at breakfast and too at supper. ouch milk as you can't think of in Detroit. Yellow as creel al most and nearly as thick. Doesn't it seem as if we had been here two years instead of two weeks? I for as much at home here as if I had always lived here, but I do want to see you. You are certainly coming are you not? Don't think I am forgetting the home people because I don't send more messages but to tell the truth I [?] somuch to say to every one that I can't single out any one thing to send. Why doesn't Sara write to me? She promised so humbly that she would answer my letters im mediately but I know I ought not to say [?] for she has more than she can do now. I am going to be very faithful and answer every letter very promptly but after we begin to study I shan't write but once a week. School gins regularly Mon day. I think they have been very smart to examine all other girls and classify them, besides receiving them and assigning their rooms in a week [?] a half. The teachers look completely aorn out Mrs. Metcald examines seventy in history one day and fifty five the next. in consequence of which she has been [?] able every day since. Give a great deal of love to all the home people and every one else. Tell Mrs. Raymoth that Dr. Bymond has a daughter Hattie. She hasn't come yet, but I believe she is to be a scholar when she does make her appearanceMy dear dear mother take care of yourself and send me a piece of your dress give a great deal of love to father and h[?][?]. Your loving daughter [?]
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 31, 1867
Text: Vassar College May 31 1967 My dear [?], My pencil again you see, don't be alarmed however, you know that all my ailments tend directly to make me shaky. I hope to be able to write you a natural letter before I go. Home. Oh! how glad I am that the time is so near! I don't intend to come home infirm if I can help it and I think thats Miss Avery's powders and a total absence from books for a period, will fully restore me to my pristine vigor. There isn't any thing in...
Show moreVassar College May 31 1967 My dear [?], My pencil again you see, don't be alarmed however, you know that all my ailments tend directly to make me shaky. I hope to be able to write you a natural letter before I go. Home. Oh! how glad I am that the time is so near! I don't intend to come home infirm if I can help it and I think thats Miss Avery's powders and a total absence from books for a period, will fully restore me to my pristine vigor. There isn't any thing in particular the matter with me. I eat and sleep as well as could be desired, but I seem to have "given out" physically and mentally. However I intend to give up all attempts to go to my classes for a little while and then I shall come home lookinglike and Amazon. Don't be at all wore ride about me, for if I was much sick I should immediately leave for home. Many thanks to father for that paper containing and notice of Carrie's marriage. Did you know that she is coming to see me? I am so delighted that I don't know who to display my joy. I think I verged very near a flood of tears when I read her letter. I had almost given her up and I do want so sorely to see her. I am very impatient to hear about the wedding. Did she look pretty? Don't you like Mr. Howards? Of course though you don't know him very much and he rarely talks in company, but he is more for tunate than the majority of young men in possessing a brain and a desire to fill it he has read a great deal, and converses very well. I saw him several times last summer and being partic ularly interested in him watched himclosely. Far between you and me, I have known the particulars of the case even since a year about last March. Don't say that I ever denied a knowle dge of it. I only asked you if you were quite sure. Mr. Howard is a good Christian man, and I am sure will make his wife very happy and I am very glad that she is married. They will or here two weeks from Yesterday, Thursday June 13 and will be in Detroit the fifteenth I think Did you read that article in the "Free Press" on Detroit forty years ago. It was very interestingg and sounded like C I Walker. We jab a lively representation of our beautiful city here in the person of a [?], vulgarly called [?] unproperly styled "Liza and" her is attracting much attention and calm. He waves his breathing apparatus for the benefit of admiring young ladies. with as much nonchalance as if he had done it all his life and earn ed his daily wooms in that summer. No one would imagine from his ap prance that he had [?} five hundred miles in a tin pail pack ed in grass in ice. When Minnie was at home she brought back too large creatures preserved in alcohols for the collections. Prof. Jenny was very much interested in them and was anx ious to see a living specimen. [?] Darwell (Nettie's brother) who procured the others for her, with a good deal of trouble got this one and sent it out to her. I regret to say that it has called forth a good many remakes not quite complimentary to the state of our water pipes. The girls are busy as ever. I hope that the w[?] of their hour ry will be over week after next. Our class chose rooms to day . We remain in twenty three. Love to all the friends. It hardly seems worth while to send messages when we shall see them so soonexcuses the [?] but I thought you would want to know just how I am. The seniors and Juniors are invited to the Pres to tea tonight I expect it will be delightful Good bye. I hope that you have a girl. Do take a stick anything rather than now The girls send much love one of whom is your loving daughter Martha S Warner
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 02, 1867
Text: Vassar College May 2, 1867 My dear Mother, I wish I could hug you across the five hundred miles between us, and make you understand half how glad I am to have you at home again. Will's joy and Father's, to say nothing of your own, made me feel as if I could feel myself in your room once more. Only seven weeks more Mother dear! Won't we rejoice then - I am glad to hear of Uncle Shepherd's improvement. I trust that he will not kill Aunt Phebe before he gets well. How long...
Show moreVassar College May 2, 1867 My dear Mother, I wish I could hug you across the five hundred miles between us, and make you understand half how glad I am to have you at home again. Will's joy and Father's, to say nothing of your own, made me feel as if I could feel myself in your room once more. Only seven weeks more Mother dear! Won't we rejoice then - I am glad to hear of Uncle Shepherd's improvement. I trust that he will not kill Aunt Phebe before he gets well. How long does Aunt Katie intend to remain in Rockford? I very much hope that she will be able to stop and see us, I have a great curiosity to see her althoughI dread it exceedingly. Founder's Day is over! I can't tell you how relieved I was when the people were fairly out of the dining room, and my responsibilities were over. Did I tell you that I was committee on collation? Every thing passed off beautifully, except that it rained, so that we couldn't have our out door reception. I wore my blue silk, Hattie her grenadine, Helen her light silk skirt and a white waist, Minnie her black silk. (Characteristic vanity, putting myself first, but never mind.) There were a great many persons here. I don't know just how many, the collation was provided for seven hundred and fifty persons - There were about two thousand and fifty invitations sent - of course the vast majority of them complimentary. I hope that the Ballards were not offended at my sendingthem one so late, it was not my fault but that of the publisher. The salutatory was a very pretty poem, written and delivered by a very pretty girl. The Parthenaeum was a paper, & consequently I think, stupid, it had some good things in it however. Miss Pope's editorial was very good. She is a lovely girl, and a beautiful reader - Prophecies - by Miss Clinton was smooth and flowing, rather than thoughtful. It made a favorable impression however, as such things always do. Louise's poem was lovely, and very well written some parts of it were beautiful. One verse I particularly liked. "Alma Mater! Alma Mater! Strange words for our lips to speak, No wonder 'tis with kindling eye And crimson flushing cheek. For the hand that through the ages We reached not with our ownHas led our way, two years today. In paths we had not known-" I can give you no idea how beautifully she read it, every word rang through the chapel, so clearly and sweetly - The colloquy was very good also. On the whole it was a success. You can see a very good criticism of it in the Tribune for Teusday - April 30 - Helen had a letter from Charlie on Monday, saying that he was to open an office on the first May for himself - I hope that he will be successful - He did not mention Aunt Rebecca's illness, but said that Fannie was not well, so that Auntie must be well again. Did you know that Mrs. Stoddard the ex-missionary, is about to be married to a brother of her former husband's? I believe to Mary Palmer's stepfather. Mary Palmer and Sarah Stoddard will enjoy rather an anomalous relationship to one another, will they not? I must stop. I am so glad that you are at home again - Minnie was greatly disappointed at not seeing you. You have seen Sarah's baby too! How much I would give to see it. Give a great deal of love to all - Congratulate Father for me - Hattie and Helen and Minnie send an equal share of love to be equally distributed, and a private bundle for you. Your young, but wise daughter Mattie -Tell Will that his letter was grand, and I am going to write to him very soon - I guess I'll put in one I wrote last Sunday but failed to send -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 20, 1867
Text: Vassar College May 20, 1867- My dearest Mother, I have broken the bounds of propriety once, and found it so delightful that I fear I shall be tempted to again, and you might as well steel yourself immediately to receive all manner of scrawls from me in future. It is a lovely Sabbath day. I should like to have gone to church this morning, but Louise and I have registered solemn vows never to be caught walking down to Po'keepsie again. To say nothing of sundry vicious looking cows, rampant...
Show moreVassar College May 20, 1867- My dearest Mother, I have broken the bounds of propriety once, and found it so delightful that I fear I shall be tempted to again, and you might as well steel yourself immediately to receive all manner of scrawls from me in future. It is a lovely Sabbath day. I should like to have gone to church this morning, but Louise and I have registered solemn vows never to be caught walking down to Po'keepsie again. To say nothing of sundry vicious looking cows, rampant horses, and noisy drunken men whom we met our glorious career was suddenly cut short by the discovery that Louise had a back and I a head. For the sake of burying this discovery in the profoundest oblivion we register-ed the vow above mentioned. I have been writing to Carrie, and feel really very sad at the thought that I shall never write to her, or see her again as a girl. Oh dear! How fast the girls are getting married. I never did see any thing like it. We will be entirely behind the times soon - Please insert an advertisement in the paper, to the effect that four young damsels are ready and waiting for any body that is willing to take them. Has Aunt Katie come? Don't tell her how very anxious we feel, lest Anna may have been more fortunate and she be tempted to undue exaltation. Emerson lectured here Friday night. His subject was "The Man of the World." I believe that he gave universal satisfaction, although he several times alluded to the extreme youth of his audience, probably overlooking Miss Mitchell, Miss Lyman, Prof, and Mrs. Tenney, the Raymonds,Mr. and Mrs. Corning, and all the teachers. Once in the course of the lecture he stopped and marching over to Minnie (who sits on the stage, and introduces the lecturers) asked her, in not exactly those words, if it was the girls' bed time. I hope that I shall be on the lecture committee next year, and have the priviledge of speaking to all the great men. Mr. Corning had the impertinence to ask Emerson to preach for him today! He declined, but I wish he hadn't, I think it would have been the means of ridding Po'keepsie of its pseudo-Congregationalist minister. Think what doctrine the man must hold who invites Ralph Waldo Emerson to preach for him! So Mr. Pope is to favor Detroit with his family as well as himself. I am glad that he will have no further excuse to play old man of the sea to you. Is that Mrs. Cook Clestia's mother?If so I don't know which family I envy more. I am glad that you are getting along so nicely with your sewing. Your gingham is a beauty, and I should judge that your other dresses must be very pretty also - I have thought some of having my travelling dress made short before going home but have where decided not to worry myself with the where with all I shall be clothed, which is a very comfortable decision to come to, inasmuch as, like the old woman of Cumberland, I am full of "rags, and shags, and prickly shags" - I must say that when I commenced my letter I had no intention of trying you with quite such a looking scrawl as this, but Mother dear, just reflect that every day I am coming nearer my dotage, and be thankful that I am no more infirm than I am. Love to all - Hattie and Minnie are in a very unsettled state, but hope to feel better in the course of the next six weeks. Good bye dear. I must stop now - Your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 14, 1867
Text: Vassar College May 14, 1867 My dear Mother, Please excuse my pencil. I am not very well and it is easier to write with than a pen. Hattie is so busy that there is very little to be expected from her in the way of letters before commencement. As for Helen, it's harder for her to write than for the rest of us I think. So you will be obliged to content yourself with such letters as I can send you. Dont be alarmed and imagine that I am sick for I am not. I expect to be quite well tomorrow....
Show moreVassar College May 14, 1867 My dear Mother, Please excuse my pencil. I am not very well and it is easier to write with than a pen. Hattie is so busy that there is very little to be expected from her in the way of letters before commencement. As for Helen, it's harder for her to write than for the rest of us I think. So you will be obliged to content yourself with such letters as I can send you. Dont be alarmed and imagine that I am sick for I am not. I expect to be quite well tomorrow. Mrs. Banister is here again. I have only seen her to say "how do you do". The girls think that she looks much older than she did last year, but I did not notice it. She is feebler I think, for she has not spoken to us at all. Miss Lyman seemsto enjoy her being here exceedingly. Mrs. Comstock, a Quaker lady from Michigan, spoke to us last night. I mean Sunday night. She has been working among the prisons and lost women of New York since the war, during it in the hospitals. She is a lovely looking lady, I should say about sixty years old, but people say much younger. I suppose her cap made her seem older as well as her whole dress. Her theme was the love of Jesus, especially its consoling power in time of trouble. It was one of the best sermons I ever heard, and comes home to us now with a great deal of meaning, for last night Mary Whitney, one of our class and considered by many the best scholar in it received a telegram announcing the death of her father. She is a Unitarian and a devoted admirer of Miss Mitchell, but it does not seem possible that she should forget what Mrs. Cornstock said. There were at least a dozen Quakers up here Sunday night. I never saw so manybefore in my life. There are a great many in Po'keepsie, so many that they have two meeting houses. This lady was an Orthodox Friend, as is Mr. Mitchell, but Miss Powell, and several of the girls are Hixites. I think that this lady is an aunt of Mr. Jones. Prof. Knapp is sick with the fever and ague. I hope that he can break it up, but he works so hard, and takes such miserable care of himself, that I am afraid it will make him very sick. I never saw a man who knew so little of the laws of health, or at least regarded them so little. I have gone into his room when the heat was stifling, and upon telling him so he would immediately spring up and open the window sit down again and forget it, and appear the next day hardly able to speak. Then he works like a galley slave for the College, and the Po'keepsie people, having no minister make him do instead, andhe leads their prayer meetings, talks to their young men, goes out all hours of the night to see their sick people, and is all the time a perfect saint. I wish he could find a place where he could be fully appreciated by the powers that be. Does it seem possible that Carrie is to be married in just two weeks? I cannot realize it at all. Talk to her Mother, and make her stop and see me, she can just stop over a train or a boat or any thing that they see fit to travel in - I do want to see some home person most direfully I am glad that you are going to make her a skirt. If you can, will you get her some thing for me? If not, never mind. Is Aunt Katie at our house yet? I want to see her too. Sarah must be joyful enough to have you at home again. I hope that you aren't sick. Don't attempt too much, wait for us to come home and help you. Helen is getting along famously with her herbarium. She has about eighty specimens, more than any other memberof the class. Please give a great deal of love to Father, Auntie if there, and all the others who want any - Only think how soon you'll have us back again. Good bye dear Your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 25, 1866
Text: Vassar College May 25, 1866. My darling Mother, Fourtune favors the brave most truly! Here we have been sighing and sorrowing on our way, because we had no letters, but yesterday we publicly avowed our intention of making way with every relative or connection by marriage, whom we possessed. Today our room has beea favored by seven! More than we have had in the same length of time since we've been here. Minnie had long letter from her sister Lizzie, who has been very sick with...
Show moreVassar College May 25, 1866. My darling Mother, Fourtune favors the brave most truly! Here we have been sighing and sorrowing on our way, because we had no letters, but yesterday we publicly avowed our intention of making way with every relative or connection by marriage, whom we possessed. Today our room has beea favored by seven! More than we have had in the same length of time since we've been here. Minnie had long letter from her sister Lizzie, who has been very sick with intermittent fever. Hattie had three from Maggie Buchanan, who can hardly contain her hoy at Mrs. Town's presence; she also received Father's letter. I had yours and Helen's. Such a feast as it has been!Helen's letter came this morning and we puzzled over Mrs. Whitaker considerably, when your noon letter solved the mystery. I am glad she came and that you enjoyed it so much. Have you been up to Elmwood lately? I am very anxious that both graves should be planted with flowers. Isn't it good that I am so strong, and have learned to take such long walks? Tell Father that he needn't worry any about evening dews and damps, for we are not allowed to put the tip end of our noses out doors after sunset; and as for drafts its so cold we have the steam on. It seems to me that if the cholera was going to be at all prevalent this summer it would have appeared before this - Just think its almost June. Don't let Helen and Father frighten themselves into fits, on the subject. Who do you think is going to preach for us next Sunday? None less than Dr. Goodell of Constantinople. Isn't itworth while to go to Vassar College, and see all the dignitaries? He has returned to this country to pass the remainder of his life. I am very thankful to have an opportunity to see him - By the way a returned missionary read for us last Monday evening, and such a looking woman, and such a dressed woman, and a reading woman I never saw before and trust I may never see again. Dr. Raymond is better I believe, but he still suffers very much, especially from his head. We miss him very much. Prof. Farrar is going to take his classes that have just finished Algebra to Rhinebeck, to visit the country seat of Hon. Wm. Kelly, President of the Board of Trustees. He is very fond of having parties come out there, and has often invited Prof. Farrar to take some of the young ladies. They'll have a delightful time. We think of joining the Algebra class next year -Do please tell me, or tell Helen to tell me in your very next letter, whether or no Sara is living in the Walker house. Every letter I have says something about seeing her so seldom which alarms me lest Mrs. Ladue was successful in her search for another house. Another thing that frightens me is that I have asked the question so frequently and it has not been answered. In pursauce of Father's advice we are going to make some calls before tea. I don't think that we go into any of the girls rooms to make a call, on an average once a month. I have never sat down next door but three times, and they are very nice girls, and not coming back next year. We visit Prof. Tenney about twice a week. We are going to Mrs. Farrar's after Literary. I am glad you like the catalogues and that they make a favorable impression. I want every one to like Vassar College. Five weeks from tonight I hope to take tea in our dear old home. It makes me almost wild to think of it - The time glides by like a dream. I can't realize it all. Poor Mr. & Mrs. Freeland! I hope they won't be gone all the time we are at home. You have called on Mrs. Town have you not? How does she seem? Love to all. I'm so glad you have your flower beds made - also congratulate you uponSat. A.M. Dr. Goodell is at the breakfast table, and such a looking man! He must be over eighty years old, and has the appearance of second childhood. He wears a velvet skull cap, braided with gilt, and a long tassel. As I passed the table he had a napkin tied around his neck, as if he was about four years old. He looks just like the kind of a man that would go to sleep and continue preaching an indefinite amount of time - The girls are all prophesying a three hours sermon for tomorrow. Only four Sundays after tomorrow and then we'll go to church. Next Sunday (i.e. the first Sunday in June), Louise Blatchley and I are going into Poughkeepsie to hear Mr. Lawson, the Baptist minister, preach. He is a young man, an old student of Prof. Knapp's. Miss Gilbert has given up her corridor, rather she is going to. Her health is miserable. She is one of the oddest persons I ever knew. Sometimes I like her verymuch, and sometimes I don't at all. When she was home last, the Warner girls sent me a hugh bouquet of trailing arbutus which she left in a fine state of preservation on her dining room table. Wasn't it provoking? We called on Mrs. Farrar last night, but she had gone to Elmira, so we had to visit with Miss Stone and Prof. Farrar. We didn't stay but a few moments, but went to Prof. Buckham's where they paid no manner of attention to our vigorous and repeated raps. Then we made a call of Mary Granger and her room mates which we have owed every since we've been here almost - after which we landed at Prof. Tenney's. We almost invariably go there Friday night after Literary, and they always expect us. I want this letter to go off in the morning's mail so I must stop - Tell Nellie that I'll answer her good long letter soon - but too many a once would be a pity - We are talking of a row upon our "beautifully secluded pond" this morning - Good bye, Mother dear. Your loving daughter Mattie -Mrs. Sumner's removal - It will be a great comfort to you to have her so near. I think Emma Cartlidge might write to us. I am out of patience with her - not one syllable have we heard since she was married - See if I write to her when I am Mrs - I am very sorry for the Smiths. It seems as if a very large number of young people had died since we left home. Poor Mrs. Adams - Carrie speaks in every letter of Bell's increasing loveliness of Christian character. How is Mrs. Stebbins - Love to all the usual people - I want very much to see Mrs. Raymond - Good bye your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 20, 1866
Text: Vassar College. May 20th, 1866 My dear Mother, I can't let Father's letter go without one to you also. Wasn't it good of him to write to me? I was very much pleased. We have been doctoring our ink with water, which makes it write easier, but hasn't improved the color materially, if you can't read this, "just lay it aside till I come home." I had a nice letter from Carrie yesterday. I like her letters very much, they are so very easy and spicy, her hand...
Show moreVassar College. May 20th, 1866 My dear Mother, I can't let Father's letter go without one to you also. Wasn't it good of him to write to me? I was very much pleased. We have been doctoring our ink with water, which makes it write easier, but hasn't improved the color materially, if you can't read this, "just lay it aside till I come home." I had a nice letter from Carrie yesterday. I like her letters very much, they are so very easy and spicy, her hand writing is beautiful. She says that Bell Adams is very sick, and seems to think it doubtful if she lives long. Mrs. Adams will miss her dreadfully will she not. You aren't all tired out are you? I am almost afraid to hear from homelest both you and Helen should be completely worn out and weary. Just consider, Hattie and I will be ready to lend a helping hand, in five weeks. I have just been marking the catalogue for your benefit. Those who are only friendly acquaintances I marked 1, those I like and know well I marked + and my most particular friends *. So you see the latter circle is not extensive, comprising only two besides our Greek class. Helen Dana, and Minnie - Of the girls so marked Louise Blatchley, I like best. I'll tell you all about her when I go home. Please give my love to all the girls and Willie. I intend to patronize the latter extensively when appear in your august city - I forgot to tell Father how deeply indebted I feel for that new sidewalk. I wish I could write more but have no time. Tell Nellie that I am compelled just now to keep a strict account with her. Good bye my dear, dear, mother. Your loving daughter Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: May 13, 1866
Text: Vassar College. May 13th, 1866 My dearest Mother, How much would you give to have us at home this beautiful May morning, going to church as Christian people should do, instead of lounging around aimlessly until time to dress for dinner, or after dinner for chapel. This morning however, we contemplate an excursion to sun rise hill, famous for its beautiful scenery - but, owing to its situation, just outside bounds, we have never been there. Dr. Raymond has however proclaimed liberty to all...
Show moreVassar College. May 13th, 1866 My dearest Mother, How much would you give to have us at home this beautiful May morning, going to church as Christian people should do, instead of lounging around aimlessly until time to dress for dinner, or after dinner for chapel. This morning however, we contemplate an excursion to sun rise hill, famous for its beautiful scenery - but, owing to its situation, just outside bounds, we have never been there. Dr. Raymond has however proclaimed liberty to all seniors, juniors, and all over twenty, which last was an important addition as no mortal persons know whether they are in the Freshman or Senior year - Minnie is going try for a standing permis-sion for me to go with her and Hattie. I don't much believe she will succeed. We were delighted with Helen's letter - I am glad that you liked Emma so well, Mr. Cartledge also - I shall always be thankful that she came here, and we became so well acquainted with her. I am also glad that she read that account of Founder's Day, she could make you understand much better. Helen said that you would be house-cleaning this week, I hope you have not worked too hard, or got too tired, you must take good care of yourself. Only five more Sundays Mother! I can't realize it at all. I am very sorry, much as I want to be at home again, to have the time fly so. We have a great many good friends here, who do not intend to return next year and whom I shall be very sorry to lose sight of. Minnie says decidedly that she shall not return. The girls here are grand. It does not seem possible that wecan have so many smart girls here another year, although of course there are a great many in the country. Miss Mitchel firmly believes, and loudly affirms, that no future class will ever be equal to her present astronomy class. I don't believe that she will ever feel the same pride in and affection for, another, that she does for these her first pupils. I suppose that Sara Ladue (do look at it) is very busy moving. I have been looking eagerly for a letter from her, but of course her time is very much occupied in receiving calls, and getting settled in her new home. Of course Mrs. Ladue did not succeed in finding another house, or you would have told me. Won't it be joyful to see her again. Do her new dignities as a married woman alter her any? I hope she will live happily with the old lady and Lottie. I do wish the latter would be married - What has become of Carrie?I have heard nothing of or from her lately. Did Mr. Lever come, and how did you like him? I hope they'll settle Mr. Ballard if you like him - I feel very indifferent indeed about it - In fact I can hardly realize that we have no minister, or that it will ever make any difference to me who preaches there - I am very glad that that Concert did so finely to such large houses. Tom wrote that it was very remarkably fine. Congratulate Willie that he is through. How old he is getting! I declare I shall hardly know him, almost seventeen - I am very impatient to see him, he must be sure and be at the depot - I have so much to say to you Mother dear, that I have resolved not tell you anything till I go home, which must account for the meagre character of my documents. Of course you know that Katie Penfield's father is dead, and that the Manlys have moved into her house. I'm going to write to Sara tonight. I feel justlike it, and have nothing else to do. Please give my love to the usual persons. We didn't go to Sunrise Hill it was so windy - Minnie has the headache, but I hope she'll sleep it off - I am surprised she hasn't had one before. Hattie and I still preserve our accustomed health, altho' a sermon an hour long of the stupidiest material he ever displayed to us, nearly broke down my constitution this afternoon. Prof. & Mrs. Tenney and the young Tenney are all well - Prof. T. is our Father Confessor I dont know what would become of us without him - Mrs. T. is as lovely as ever -Mrs. Knapp made us a call nearly an hour long Saturday. She is a charming little lady. Miss Usher is very miserable. I am afraid she won't try it here another year - Miss Gilbert has been sick for a day or two, but is well now. She is growing old and rheumatic - Our fascinating Baptist minister has the impudence to be a married man - Tell Nellie that she is greedy to want another letter before she has answered mine - Love to all - Good bye your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 12, 1868
Text: Vassar College March 12, 1868 My dear dear Mother, Why you poor unfortunate woman! I am so sorry for you that I could cry. I am thankful that Hattie is at home, and I wish I were. Don't you ever dare to write another word to either Helen or me. I feel very guilty for having said any thing to make you feel compelled to write - It was very mean of me, for although I had no suspicion about your eyes, I did know that your hands were always full, that we had all the letters we needed, and...
Show moreVassar College March 12, 1868 My dear dear Mother, Why you poor unfortunate woman! I am so sorry for you that I could cry. I am thankful that Hattie is at home, and I wish I were. Don't you ever dare to write another word to either Helen or me. I feel very guilty for having said any thing to make you feel compelled to write - It was very mean of me, for although I had no suspicion about your eyes, I did know that your hands were always full, that we had all the letters we needed, and more than we deserved, and that you always were inclined to write more than your strength permitted - Don't sew any more, Mother dear, you have done three times your share of the world's work in time past,and can afford now to rest upon your laurels. You know that I am coming home soon, and shall be all fresh for work of any kind, except study - I shall rebel if any body asks me to pay any attention to hours, or books, till the spirit moves - It seems to me that after twelve years hard work, it wouldn't hurt Hattie to rest a while, but I suppose that is none of my business - But it is my business to attend to you. You know that you are my especial care when you are sick, and I shall feel very anxious about you till I hear that you are quite well again - I am so glad about Carrie. How does she feel? and when does she expect to be sick? I have not heard from her, but have faint hopes of doing so before long - I wish I could do some thing for Carrie, but can't this spring - I hope the baby will be a girl - If they have a boy of Carrie'slively turn of mind what a contrast he will be to his father! How thankful I am that the Pomeroy infant is a boy! I suppose that the Dr. is entirely satisfied now. What are they going to call him? I hope that they have succeeded in getting a nurse with at least the recommendation of sanity - I hope that Mary won't be altogether worn out by the care of the house and Bertie too. The latter is as much as one strong woman ought to have the care of. What happened to Emma's friend that he went home on crutches. Did Hattie mean Mr. or Miss Worthington? She wrote Mr. but I thought that he left long ago - I am very sorry to hear of Mrs. Avery's poor health. It seems hardly possible for her to live very long. She is a very good woman, isn't she? It makes me feel unusually mean whenever I remember my former hatred of her.It's extremely humiliating to have so many follies, and worse than follies, to repent of - especially those comitted between my fourteenth and seventeenth years. If ever I have a daughter of that age I shall forbid her to speak under any circumstances, to others than the members of her own family. Has there been more than usual suffering among the poor? We are so entirely shut out from work of that kind that we forget that there is any to be done - The subject of the Howard Mission, has done us a great deal of good in making us think - So has Dr. Post's appeal for help. Every girl must have felt his words as especially addressed to her, in fact he did speak directly to our class, like Mr. Van Meter, he is unwilling to wait - he said that their hands were tied for want of women to do the work, which none but women could do. I wish Iwere strong- I should feel called to go. Mary Griggs is going to Burmah, and is to study medicine three years in Philadelphia first - that will make her twenty three, which Dr. Clark thinks about the right age. I suppose though, that it is no use for me to think about it; with such a head, I should be of little service in a hot climate - We are going on much as usual - Helen is studying her Physiology in a very dangerous frame of mind, for nearly every day she announces a new discovery regarding the scientific method of comitting murder. If you hear of my dying suddenly, and mysteriously, you may know where to look for an explanation - Oh I had forgotten! What culpable negligence! My letter should have been wreathed in mourning - To think of the loss that Detroit and the Warnerfamily have sustained! I doubt if Helen will be able to return so deep in her affliction. Of course you do not hesitate to apply my remarks to the departure of our beloved friend Thomas Huntingdon. My chagrin is great, inasmuch as I have previously invited sundry of my classmates to visit me, holding out the possibility of winning such a prize as the great inducment to our beautiful city. Alas! alas! "I never needed a dear gazelle" &c - You know Mother, that I never did - Has Father satisfied himself regarding his false works? or is he still sitting upon the banks of the Mississipi shouting to the "Father of Waters" "thus far shalt thou go and no farther"? I have been thinking of cheering his solitude by an epistle, but not knowing where, or rather how, to direct, I have refrained, having no force to throw away, writing letters that never getthere. If you will send me his address, however, I will see what I can do. He must have his bridge in good order a year from next summer, when Miss Mitchell and her six astronomers are going to Burlington to see the great eclipse. They are going to make us a visit on their way out - Won't it be fine? The eclipse takes place Aug 7, 1869 - Hattie ought to go on with them, and celebrate her birthday - I am thankful that I live just where I do, for thus I can see all the girls who go west, or east, or up the Lakes - Anna Baker is only nine hours ride from us, and she says that the ladies often go up to Detroit to shop. Nellie Leland is going to live in Chicago, so she will come and see us, and we shall have beautiful times. You will like the girls very much. Wasn't it nice that Sam Clary stopped in Detroit? I wish I had seen him -What is he going to do now? Not live at home I hope. Miss Lyman is in very poor health. I am afraid that she will not live very long. It will be a great blow to the College to lose her - I do love her dearly, and she is just as good to us all as she can be. Prof. Tenney leaves in about six weeks - I can do nothing but clothe myself in mental sackcloth and ashes and rail alternately at Williams and at Dr. Bishop - Do ask Mrs. Ballard what style of a man the Dr. Bishop in the Board at Williams is. Don't ask her husband, for if he cant admire Dr. Todd, I have no confidence in his judgement - Give my love to them both, please. Love to Hattie, Will, and yourself in great measure - Tell Bridget that I shall be home before long to eat up all her soda biscuit - Do take care ofyourself, dear Mother, and don't let your goodness kill you - Poor Mrs. Sumner, I am so sorry for her - Love to Carrie, Sarah, Minnie, Mrs. Raymond, and all the friends - Spring vacation is coming in a few weeks, when I think of sitting on top of one of the turrets and sunning my self - Spring is struggling for life, and winter is slowly giving way - I have seen some grass, of a pale live green color. Good bye, Love to all. Your loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 10, 1867
Text: Vassar College Mar. 10, 1867. My darling Mother, I can't tell you how rejoiced we all were to hear from you again. All account's of Uncle S. had reported him failing rapidily, and we were very much afraid that he was dead. How joyful it is to have him better! Do the Drs. really consider him out of danger? It hardly seems possible when he has been so very very sick, and with so terrible a desease. I suppose that he will never be able to regain his former health, or is that too...
Show moreVassar College Mar. 10, 1867. My darling Mother, I can't tell you how rejoiced we all were to hear from you again. All account's of Uncle S. had reported him failing rapidily, and we were very much afraid that he was dead. How joyful it is to have him better! Do the Drs. really consider him out of danger? It hardly seems possible when he has been so very very sick, and with so terrible a desease. I suppose that he will never be able to regain his former health, or is that too considered possible? I am anxious for you to be at home again and fairly rested so that we can hear all about your visit at Rockford, and about the Curtises. You won't be sick will you? That would be so too bad, but after such a seige as youhave had I should be a little surprised if you were not sick. I think you will be fully appreciate at home if you ever were appreciated any where. Poor Will seems utterly disconsolate, he says that it seems five years since you left. How is Auntie? I hope she won't be sick again. What a dear little child Emma is to write me a letter, but I do hope that she has no distinct idea of what she intended to say, or that she asked any very important questions. I thought somewhat of learning the Hebrew alphabet in order to descipher it. She is just a little over three years old now. I wish I could see her. Sanie Tenney is just about her age, and a dear little child. I was examined in Botany yesterday, and feel very comfortable now that it is over, but am very tired today. We have to be examined in all the Junior studies which we have taken here. Natural Philosophy, I intend to take next year, as Ihave my hands full for this year. Prof. Knapp has a new assistant, who has our Greek class. I like him very much, he is very particular indeed. We are commencing Thucydides in Greek, and it's very hard causing very hard study upon our part. We have also commenced the Tusculan Disputations which are as easy as Thucydides is hard. I like it very much indeed. Miss Avery is delightful in Physicology. I know that we shall enjoy the class very much. I don't quite enjoy the bones yet, and can't help shuddering at the thought of taking a hand tomorrow and studying it. I never liked to handle such things, but I suppose that we will outgrow all such follies, and will fit skulls and knock on bones with as much nonchalence as Miss Avery herself, in time. I didn't suppose that Miss A. would be nearly so much at home or so pleasant in the class room as she is. I am growing to like her very much.Dr. Raymond is away, and I have no idea who will preach for us. Dr. Lord preached last Sunday, a very good sermon in some respects but extremely cynical in many respects. I don't like men who regard themselves as social Ishmaels. He has very disagreeable voice, and that makes what he says sound even harsher. I had a very nice letter from Carrie, bemoaning your absence and longing for your return. She seems in a very prosperous state. I haven't written to Sarah yet, & it is disgraceful, but I don't seem to have any time. However I intend to do it this afternoon. Will writes that Kittle Ward's cousin Miss Murray is going to be married to Mr. Williams of Farrand, & Sheley - So J. T. Tilman is dead! How many old citizens have died lately. We are all well except Minnie who has not been very well lately, having a disagreable combination of cold and headache. Hattie & Minnie send much love. Minnie says "tell her I'm glad she is going home, she will seem nearer-" I must stop and write to little Emma. Good bye, give a great deal of love to all the people, & tell them how glad we are forthem. I wish I could kiss you. Good bye again. Your very loving daughter Mattie -
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 31, 1867
Text: Vassar College March 31, 1867 My darling Mother, Do you think that I have gone to sleep, or fainted away, or eloped, or have you not noticed how long it is since I have written to you? I am very sorry, and very much ashamed of myself, but Mother dear, I have been so busy that I couldn't in the week days, and Sundays I have been prevented - To night I am so sleepy that I can hardly keep my eyes open, and have no hope of writing an intelligent, or legible letter. Indeed you must not be at...
Show moreVassar College March 31, 1867 My darling Mother, Do you think that I have gone to sleep, or fainted away, or eloped, or have you not noticed how long it is since I have written to you? I am very sorry, and very much ashamed of myself, but Mother dear, I have been so busy that I couldn't in the week days, and Sundays I have been prevented - To night I am so sleepy that I can hardly keep my eyes open, and have no hope of writing an intelligent, or legible letter. Indeed you must not be at all surprised if you find another date before the end of the sheet. Minnie is going home, not to stay, but for a week or two, till she gets able to come home, or rather back - I can't understand what is the matter with her, she seems tohave broken down altogether. I hope that a quiet rest at home will restore her health. You don't know how much we all wish that you could be at home, but of course it is best for you to be in Rockford. I think that Mr. Curtis is contemptible, altogether beneath notice. I am glad that you and Aunt Martha didn't attempt to discuss those questions - How is Uncle Shepherd now? Does the doctor think there is really any hope for him? How good God is to make him a Christian. I don't think we ought ever to despair of any one. I walked into church today, and am more tired to night on that account. It has been a beautiful day, that first that has promised Spring. The beauty of the weather tempted a great many to walk in. Dr. and Mrs. Gleason, friends of Miss Avery's from the Elmira water cure are visiting here. Mrs. Gleason spoke to us after Chapel Friday night. I liked hervery much. She was in one Physiology class also. I suppose Hattie told you all about the crowd of Holyoke teachers we have been favored with. I just saw Mrs. Stodard in the hall, for I was at Latin when she was in our room. I can't say that I fancied her. I presume it was in part owing to my disliking her daughter so much. Miss Lucy Wright, daughter of the late Dr. Wright of Persia, is to be married Wednesday, to a Mr. Mitchell of Po'keepsie, and is to sail immediately to Syria - Mrs. Cochrane knew her, do you remember? Jessie Campbell is to be married Teusday evening to John Harvey. They are to be married in the Christian Church, in grand style - Jessie will wear white silk. Minnie had a letter from Hattie Dickinson a little while ago, describing her elegant presents of silver, and the beauty of her outfit - She has six elegant new silks, garnet, blue, green,black, black and white check, and white, the black and white is her travelling dress. They are going to keep house on Winder street. Mr. Henry McKnight is dead, as you probably know. The Jews have bought the church where Mr. Freeland's people meet, and they are obliged to build a chapel on their lot, immediately. Delia Howard is in very poor health, and is talking of going home to stay. She has not been well since the holidays. The other girls are all well I think. Clara Glover is sick a good deal. Please give a great deal of love to Auntie, Uncle, and the cousins. Tell little Emma that I will write to her soon but can't this time possibly. I am glad that my other effort proved satisfactory - Minnie, Hattie, and Helen send much love. Sarah says "I do so want your Mother to come home." She says that she is not very well yet, has notregained her appetite - Her baby drinks a tumbler full of milk at a time, she not having enough for him - I hope that she will be well soon - Carrie is busy getting ready to be married, & she too is longing for Mrs. Warner - If ever I am in half as great demand as you, I shall consider my mission in life fulfilled. Good bye dear - I have written this all this evening in spite of my fears - Yours with much love - Mattie
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 14, 1866
Text: Vassar Mar. 14/66- My own dear Mother, I can assure you that your letter was welcomed with enthusiasm, this noon. I have often felt since I have been here, what a good thing it is to have a mother to write me such good long letters. What an active young lady you are becoming! I don't believe Nellie could endure such an amount of running as you related of yourself, for last week. (Graceful sentence isn't it?) Is Willie's acute so very bed? Poor boy! what does he do with himself...
Show moreVassar Mar. 14/66- My own dear Mother, I can assure you that your letter was welcomed with enthusiasm, this noon. I have often felt since I have been here, what a good thing it is to have a mother to write me such good long letters. What an active young lady you are becoming! I don't believe Nellie could endure such an amount of running as you related of yourself, for last week. (Graceful sentence isn't it?) Is Willie's acute so very bed? Poor boy! what does he do with himself all day? How I wish I was at home to help comfort and entertain him. Tell the young man that I have read out loud so much lately that I am becoming quite an adept, and am ready to fill all orders with neatness and dispatch - I am a-fraid you won't feel inclined to vouch the same for my letters. I am really ashamed of them, and mean every time to do better, but seem to do worse instead - Helen Swift is expected here tomorrow morning. The thought of seeing her is very pleasant to us. I wish it was a little more decided weather, but I had rather see her in the mud, rain and wind, than not at all. I haven't any idea how long she will remain. She will be Miss Usher's guest, right under us - Helen didn't tell me a word about either who joined the church, or Scripps' essay in monthly concert. Do tell me all about it, I am anxious to hear some news of that worthy man. (Hattie has confiscated my pea, and this is the meanest one I had any thing do with.) I am glad that you and Fannie Hammond are having so pleasant a visit. I am sorry that Will's dislike for poor Cornelia Ponfield continues unabated-Give Nellie all manner of commiseration from each and every one of us. I hope her illness was caused by neither the decay incident upon old age, nor by excessive gormandizing. The latter bears the blame of all my various aches and ills, the former of Hattie's and Minnie's Minnie and Helen Dana (aged 24) have decided to marry young, and are anxious that Helen should bear them company in the determination, also in the praiseworthy deal with which they intend pursuing any opportunities chance may offer them. Miss Gilbert expresses joy at not having heard the resolution, "because her mother wouldn't like to have such ideas put into her head." Dutiful child! I am very glad that Mrs. Clark has been to see you at last. I hoped that you would see a good deal of her this winter - Just think Mother dearest! spring is fully here, the grass is beginning to grow green, the air is tangy and, the walking muddy-in fifteen weeks from today I shall start for home! In five weeks from today Sara becomes Mrs. Ladue! Does It seem possible? I can't realise it at all - How does Mrs. Pomeroy continue to be liked No one has mentioned her at all lately and never but once her youthful daughter Do the girls like her as well as at first? We are going to have a concert here Friday night. Prof. Wiebe is anxious to prove to world that music can be taught in classes. I'll write Emma about it - Ask her how she would like to hear the Wedding March played by thirty two hands? Eight pianos, two at each. I haven't been invited to take part as yet, doubtless because he felt that I needed no previous practice - Please ask Will what French books they use at the High School? I am vary anxious to know. I am fairly ashamed to send this letter, but I know you won't judge me harshly - Give a groat deal of love to every body, and oceans of it to yourself from your daughter Mattie - Minnie and Hattie send love - I want to go home, and I want something real good to eat - I wonder if you at home look forward to next June with half as much eagerness as we do. I can hardly wait - When is Father going home? We have heard nothing of him lately. You must miss him - Good night again - a thousand kisses Mattie. Love to Mary C. and baby when you see them - I forgot to say that the money came safely and I am very much obliged.
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Creator: Warner, Martha S.
Date: March 19, 1866
Text: Vassar Mar. 19, 1866 My dearest Mother, It is cold as Greenland's icy mountain today, which is rendered all the more noticeable, from the fact that for several days past, the thermometer has stood at sixty° or thereabouts. I can't bear to see any returning symtoms of winter, I do so long for summer and home. We heard from Emma Hopkins today. She is very busy preparing for May, she says that her spine troubles her very much, but her head is better - I hope she will have a good long...
Show moreVassar Mar. 19, 1866 My dearest Mother, It is cold as Greenland's icy mountain today, which is rendered all the more noticeable, from the fact that for several days past, the thermometer has stood at sixty° or thereabouts. I can't bear to see any returning symtoms of winter, I do so long for summer and home. We heard from Emma Hopkins today. She is very busy preparing for May, she says that her spine troubles her very much, but her head is better - I hope she will have a good long rest, and entirely recover her health after she is married. Her Aunt Parker gave her a set of teaspoons, and helped her very much with her sewing - I presume Emma has told you about Helen Swift's visit. We were delighted to see her, but very much disappointed atthe brevity of her visit. We had hoped she would stay over Sunday. She says that Mrs. Ball is very well and has gone home to stay until after July, through the summer I think she said. Miss Swift has gone to housekeeping, or rather is going - She has bought a house and Mrs. Wright and her son are going to live with her. Helen looks just the same as ever. Charlie came up with her. He is in a law office, is very busy, and in fine spirits. Minnie and John Almy are in Brooklyn. Minnie thought some of coming up. I very much wish she had. Minnie D. had a letter from Horace Burt today, in which he proposed at some future time (not distinctly stated) to call upon her, in her rural retreat - He sent his regards to Hattie, but entirely ignored me. Finney has dropped the ministry, and is about to enter the N.Y. bar. Hattie had a long letter today from Miss Leach, she seemed well and happy.I suppose Fannie Hammond has left - I hope you were not utterly tired out, both of you. Miss Gilbert says she is hard to talk with. Minnie recieved a letter from Little Brown & co. the other day, to whom she had written in reference to a book, which was directed to "Mrs. M. S. Dickinson," and addressed "Mrs. M. S. Dickinson, Dear Sir-" Business-like isn't it? Minnie told Helen Dana, that she had got the start after all. Have you read Whittier last poem "Snowbound"? If not do get it and read it. I think it is exquisite - Shouldn't you like to see one of those great snow storms? Miss Treadwell from Jackson Mich, recieved the notice of her brother's death, on Saturday - Just think, he was dead and buried before she heard of it - The Saturday before there were two girls telegraphed for, one to attend the death bed of her aunt, the other the funeral of her Mother. It makes me tremble to hear of so much troubleI am so afraid some of you will be sick before we get home. Is there actually so much alarm and excitement in Canada and thereabouts, as the papers represent? What geese the Canadians must be! The Free Press takes it up as solemnly as if it soberly believed, that the whole thing would go off with out the slightest difficulty - It must be fun to see the beloved birds flocking to our shores. Sannie Tenney has had the croup, and is really quite sick. I do hope the dear little fellow will get well soon. I am exceedingly tired and sleepy, and think it will be altogether for the interest of both you, and myself, if I stop while my eyes are open. In some of these blissful days about now, Big Sinn contemplates taking unto himself a partner of his Joys and sorrows. Happy Mortal! Tell Nellie to please write soon. How's Willie's acute? Love to Cousin Bell and Bridget - Has Father wandered home again? Love to all at home & abroad - Hattie and Minnie send love - I am extremely sleepy - Good night. In fourteen weeks from next Wednesday I'm going home. Your loving daughter Mattie-
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