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Vassar Colleger June 4/69* My dear Brother, yours of May 26th. came duly to hand and I was very glad Indeed to hear from you once more, although the letter was the barrier of such unwelcome news as that you should probably not come. I am very sorry, for I want you with me, and I want you to see the College. I want you to see my friends here* I want you to see Prof. Farrer and Prof. Backus. X know you would be very much pleased with them and Miss Fessenden and Susie W right • but, 1 suppose It...
Show moreVassar Colleger June 4/69* My dear Brother, yours of May 26th. came duly to hand and I was very glad Indeed to hear from you once more, although the letter was the barrier of such unwelcome news as that you should probably not come. I am very sorry, for I want you with me, and I want you to see the College. I want you to see my friends here* I want you to see Prof. Farrer and Prof. Backus. X know you would be very much pleased with them and Miss Fessenden and Susie W right • but, 1 suppose It is unavoidable. I am somewhat perplexed by your mention of some particular, unmentionable reasons why I should steer directly for Portsmouth, after Commencement. I am willing howevar to take such reasons on faith; but will only ask would not the purposes be equally answered If 1 came later in the summer? I find myself in quite an awkward situation in regard to the summer. I want to go to Milwaukee, to Portsmouth and am also desirous of visiting some of my College friends. If this latter is accomplished it must be in the first of the summer. Two of my friends who live in Delaware have Invited three of us from the College to visit them, Just after Commencement. They have had this planned for some time, and it seems too bad to disappoint them all* Then one of my best friends, to whom I have been promlofag a visit these two years, and had thought I would give it this summer, -Sh* lives In Auburn, N.T. and will be away from home the latter part of the summer, so if I visit her at all I must visit her not long after Commencement. 1 wanted too, if possible to go with George and Aunt Mary, for I don't think the little fellow would be happy without her, to some cooler region than Southern Ohio, during the hottest part of the summer. I had hoped perhaps they might come on here in June, and then we might go to New Hampshire or up here in the Catskills for a few weeks* I askec Carlos about it and he was to write me soon about it. Since that time, about a .month ago, I have not heard a word from him. I hope he will come on, any way. Now you see how perplexed I am about the summer, and if you can help me out any, I shall certainly be very much obliged. You and George and Carlos come first. I must visit you, whether I visit anyone else or not. X am 30 glad to hear that George is well, and I hope he may keep his good health during the summer. to partake of a strawberry supper, which one of our number has provided. The road is very pleasant, shaded all the way by splendid, great trees on either side, with beautiful residences all along. and pretty pictures of broad valleys, across the river the Highlands and still farther off the Cat skills, blue in the distance and occasionally a gleam and flash of the river. Last Saturday night the German Department gave an entertainment, all in German* There were scenes from dramas of Schiller and Faust, and from two comedies. I represented Queen Elizabeth in a scene from Schiller's Marie Stuart. Every one was very much pleased with the entertainment. But you must be tired of College news. I wish I could see you, and look at you and hear you talk. It would do me good. Do come if you possibly can. Today is my birthday. Do you realize that I am twenty one? But T must bid you good-bye. Please write me soon again. I hope you are well and will continue so. You have my most earnest prayers and love. Your Sister, Annie. lAnnle (Glidden) Houts, '69 P.S. I sent you a Vassar Transcript ic invitation to Commencement &c. yesterday. The cards for Class Day have not yet come. I will send you one Enclosed find a programme of Commencement week.
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November 08, 1868
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V.C. Nov. 8, 1868 My darling Brother, You have been much in my thoughts, today, and I must write you a few lines, or I can not call the day well over. I was made happy by the receipt of a letter from you the day before yesterday. I am glad you have become a member of the Young Men*s Association, of which you spoke, and I hope you will find it a means of much active labor, and a benefit to yourself, as I know you will. I have seen somewhere something to the effect that a free gift blesses the...
Show moreV.C. Nov. 8, 1868 My darling Brother, You have been much in my thoughts, today, and I must write you a few lines, or I can not call the day well over. I was made happy by the receipt of a letter from you the day before yesterday. I am glad you have become a member of the Young Men*s Association, of which you spoke, and I hope you will find it a means of much active labor, and a benefit to yourself, as I know you will. I have seen somewhere something to the effect that a free gift blesses the giver no less than the receiver. Its reflex influence is as great as its direct influence. I think the saying is certainly true whatever be the nature of the gift, be it money, time, labor or any-thing that it is in our power to give. Where are you now? You tell me you are quite pleasantly situated, but do not say where. I hope you will write to me often. A very short letter, if you have not time to write more, will cheer my heart wonderfully. You don't know how thankful and happy it makes me feel to know that you are keeping up, true and firm. Are you much alone, when not at the Office? What do you do with your time evenings? Whom have you for companions or friendd? I wonder what you are doing now. You must seek those whose friendship and companionship would strengthen and sustain you. I know there are many such, who will be ready to help and assist you, as well as those to lead you astray. It is time to go to prayer-meeting, and I must leave you for a few moments. Nov. 8, 1868 - 2 We have a Missionary Society In the College, meeting once a month; and have readings from magazines or any information in regard to missionary work. Tonight, a lady was here, who has just come from Syria and told us about her work. It is very interesting, but very sad to think of the degradation and ignorance of our fellow - c r ea tur e s. However, one need not go to Syria to find it. There is plenty of opportunity for missionary work in our own country. My life here is much the same from day to day, a very busy, happy life. I find I cannot go to work quite so vigorously as I did last year. I have to ease off, every once la a while. However, I did not expect to be equal to as much for the first part of this year, as I usually am and am getting along very well. X have many good, dear friends and after all, they are the very best gifts the world can give us. Xt is getting near my bed-time and I think I must say good-night. I will think of and pray for you at the time you spoke of. Think of me, and pray for me, brother, that I may live a pure Christian life, aad may be a worker for God. X am progressiag well la German, and am very fond of it. My room- mate says I do nothing but grin from the time I take up my German book, until X am through studying It. Write to me soon again. May the Lord bless and keep thee Is the earnest prayer of, Your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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V.C. Dec. 6, 1868 My dear Brother, I received a short letter from you the first of the week, and have been hoping, ever since, to hear from you again, especially In regard to my coming home. I am very anxious to do so, more to see you than for any other reason, and dear little George. If Carlos could be there too, at the same time, I should be glad. 1 am thinking some of going to Pittsburgh, if I do not come home: but Shall not decide until I hear from you and Carlos. You speak to me of Mary....
Show moreV.C. Dec. 6, 1868 My dear Brother, I received a short letter from you the first of the week, and have been hoping, ever since, to hear from you again, especially In regard to my coming home. I am very anxious to do so, more to see you than for any other reason, and dear little George. If Carlos could be there too, at the same time, I should be glad. 1 am thinking some of going to Pittsburgh, if I do not come home: but Shall not decide until I hear from you and Carlos. You speak to me of Mary. Her load is heavy enough, and could I add to it by my blame fc censure, I would not do it, or could I lessen it by worthy any.means I should not hesitate to do so. In the rise and growth of the trouble between you, I can not consider her wholly without some blame, although the great burden of it falls on you. It is a hard matter to judge of her final course, and as the Great Master has told us to "Judge not," it is unnecessary for me to do so. X believe her course costs her as much self- sacrifice as it does you and that she takes that course because she believes it to be right, and as much if not more for your sake than for her own. I am afraid I am not charitable enough to say the same honestly of Mrs. Bell, anyway and am wavering as to Mr. Bell. But let that pass. I have had a glorious walk this morning. There was a heavy fall of snow yesterday and last night. This morning the sun came out bright, and the air was most delightful, and exhilarating. We have a most glorious picture-gallery spread out before our view of ever-new and ever-changing scenes. Our North windows give us a view of Po'keepsie and beyond the Catskills rising till they are lost in the clouds. On the West we see a roll* ing country until our eye is arrested by the Highlands just across the river. The shadows of th^louds on these hills are beautiful, and, oh, the sunsets. I never saw such glorious, wonderful sunsets as we have here. It is only a little more than two weeks now before College closes, so I shall have to decide pretty soon where X will spend the time. The vacation is very short. Just two weeks I believefrom the day College closes, It opens. I might, if it were really necessary, have my vacation prolonged a few days. I hope the weather will be good at that time. How is your cough now ? You do not say any thing about your health. W e are very busy prepar- ing for a Society Entertaiament which is to come off next Friday. We have a very pretty little drama written by our clsss poet, for the occasion. I shall be glad when the affair is over. Last Friday evening I spent a very pleasant evening at one of the Professor's house. Six of us were invited to tea, aad enjoyed ourselves very much in the change. Tomorrow evening we are (when I say we, I mean the Seniors) are invited to the President's, to hear him read "Macbeth". He is a fine reader, and I am looking forward to a treat. X hope my little details of my life do not annoy you. I want to write to you, and as I am limited in my movements am necessarily limited in my subjects of intelligence. I hope to hear from you soon, my brother. Accept my best love end prayers. May God guard and preserve you. Your sister, Annie* ,Annie (Glidden) Houts, <69,
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November 13, 1865
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Vassar College, Nov. 13, 1865. My dear brother John, Have you forgotten that you have a sister, at Vassar, has the advent of that wonderful "tenpounder," sent every idea out of your head, or why Is it you don't write to me ? I wrote to you some time ago, and looked for an answer right away, but I have looked and longed in vain, in that direction. To-day, X had made up my mind, if I did'nt hear from you, to write a real hateful, scoldjng letter that wuuld provoke you to...
Show moreVassar College, Nov. 13, 1865. My dear brother John, Have you forgotten that you have a sister, at Vassar, has the advent of that wonderful "tenpounder," sent every idea out of your head, or why Is it you don't write to me ? I wrote to you some time ago, and looked for an answer right away, but I have looked and longed in vain, in that direction. To-day, X had made up my mind, if I did'nt hear from you, to write a real hateful, scoldjng letter that wuuld provoke you to make some reply, and I had got up some real ugly things to say; but on second thought I concluded I would not, especially as Pres. Raymond gave us a lec- ture on the subject of correspondence, this morning, saying among other things, that, any-thing once written could never be recalled. So as I am afraid, if I should write such a letter, I would say some-thing I would be sorry for, I will try and prevail on you to write, by simply reminding you that I am here, if you have forgotten the direction, I'll forward it, and I should be most happy to hear from you. Now, honestly, laying aside all joking, John, I think you might write to me often, long letters if you can, but I would be very thankful for short ones, and I would wonderfully relish the rnmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmrn sight of a Cin. or Ports, paper, if you can spare the time to direct it, ink, stamp fee. And now, I am in need of money. I am owing a dress-maker's bill, and there are several things I need for winter, also I want to get some things to make my room more comfortable. I believe I enumerated, in my last letter, and it is useless to repeat, but I suppose I shall want as much as Nov. 13, 1865 -2 fifty dollars ($50.00). It is nearly bed-time, and I am greatly hurried to get to write this much to you. But I guess It does not matter much, for judging you by myself, which Is fair you don't care to hear from me. For, if I want to hear from folks I write to them. I am very busy here, but I always answer your letters as soon as they are received. But I am afraid I am doing what I did not intend to, so I will desist. Now, I shall look for a reply to this very soon, and if I do not get one, I can't answer for the result. As a "dernier resort," I will have to get real mad, and write you a letter you will remember for some time. But you won't provoke me to that, will you? Now, do write soon, and tell me all about "the baby" Have you named it? who does it resemble be. fcc. Give my love to Mary, and Charlie, and kiss the child. Ever your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69, P.3. Please write immediately, and send the money*—
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V.C. Oct. 25, 1868. My dear Brother, I have just been writing to Mary, and must give you a few lines, although I have not heard from you for quite a while. Do not let us get into our old careless habits of writing. I want to hear from you often, If only a few lines. I think of you so much and so often, think of you with faith, and hope that you will succeed in establishing yourself, since I believe you are founding upon the Higher Rock. I wish I could see you today. X am having a very quiet...
Show moreV.C. Oct. 25, 1868. My dear Brother, I have just been writing to Mary, and must give you a few lines, although I have not heard from you for quite a while. Do not let us get into our old careless habits of writing. I want to hear from you often, If only a few lines. I think of you so much and so often, think of you with faith, and hope that you will succeed in establishing yourself, since I believe you are founding upon the Higher Rock. I wish I could see you today. X am having a very quiet Sunday. My room-mate is away, so I am all alone, and my thoughts turn on the loved ones far away. John, do you know X have such a strong belief that you are going to be firm in the right, X feel that you can not fail. X feel that God will not let my prayers go unanswered, and though I can not understand His ways, I believe I will yet see my wish accomplished, via: see you a loving, earnest, living child of God, laboring for His cause. X put not much confidence in outward appear- ance, attendance regularly upon the services of His people - although that is, of course, desirable and an excellent things but the heart is that which should be clean. God's love in our hearts should move us to open our lips and love to meet with those who love Him: and thus observances of the ceremonies should follow from the love in the heart, and because that love is there, not from mere decency's sake, as is too often the case, and is better than that they should not be observed at all, just as "half a loaf is better than no bread." Oet. 25, 1868 -2 There is more sickness in the College than has been, at any one time since it first opened. There is a tendency to fever which makes the usual amount of colds, looked for at this season, more formidable. How- ever, it is passing off now. The sick ones are most of them betters and the well are in better spirits. I feel quite well and am very thankful that my strength is coming back so nicely. From all appearances, I have a very pleasant and profitable year before me, and as I suppose it is my last school-year I shall endeavor to make the most of it in every way, and shall see it go with a mixture of joy and pain in about equal proportions. Write to me soon, dear Brother, and, believe me, Your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69, I did not send your letter, today, so will add a few lines. We are going to begin to analyse soon In Chemistry, fc after a while I should like to analyse some-thing that there is some curiosity fc interest about, fc if you can conveniently send me on a specimen that you brought from Virginia, I should like to have it- Yours, Annie.
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May 11, 1866
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May - 11, 1866. John Glidden, I am real mad at you, would bite you If X could see you* firstly, because you don't let me hear from you, secondly, because you send me none of the all-powerful "root." Just fancy, for a moment, your sister far away from all the friends of her youth, forsaken and penni- less, obliged to borrow even a stamp to send a letter to her forgetful, recreant, brother, to jog his memory, and refresh his mind on the subject of his absent sister's wants....
Show moreMay - 11, 1866. John Glidden, I am real mad at you, would bite you If X could see you* firstly, because you don't let me hear from you, secondly, because you send me none of the all-powerful "root." Just fancy, for a moment, your sister far away from all the friends of her youth, forsaken and penni- less, obliged to borrow even a stamp to send a letter to her forgetful, recreant, brother, to jog his memory, and refresh his mind on the subject of his absent sister's wants. Picture this to your-self, and now it is proved that "truth is stranger than fiction". Now if there was only a little more romance connected with it, it would be quite fine, but there is most too much hard reality about it to make it the basis of a novel. Suppose I should write cne, and name it "The desertion of Ann Maria by her brother," and render myself famous thereby, would not I be gloriously revenged, and heap coals of fire on your head? X could tell how she borrowed until shame caused her to cease, how she went without a spring hat for weeks and numerous other trials, which this firm-hearted heroine endured, "too numerous to mention" She now comes, beseeching you, for the last time, and, if you can resist this heart-touching appeal, she gives you up, and X can not tell what rash deed she may do. Answer forth-with, or the consequences may prove fatal. The time soon draws nigh for her to return to the home of her younger days, six more weeks only, and she is looking forwardanxiously and with bright anticipations to that happy time. She would like to know if her brother intends to come for her, or if he means to have her, an unprotected "Vassar female" make her way Dec. 25, 1865 - 583 aa bast she caa to the haunts ol former days. Should he think best* she others could go, la company with several from the same state, who will be journey- ing that way. But she would be highly gratified to learn by matt the opinion he has, concerning the matter, so that her mind cauld be ia a settled state. Not a line does she receive from him, and, though busied and hurried by many cores, she Is constantly wishing to receive something, if but a line from him* Che is very busy now, with her studies, and has some extra work in surveying tha farm. L lie would like to be kindly remembered to Mary, & Charlie, and to have several, very many kisses bestowed on the young "olive-branch," on her behalf. She wishes also to send much love to her brother, to be kindly renien&> bered to Mr. Bell's family and all other friends. She would like to know the state of Mr. Bell's health, aad also, when her brothers family expect to move, and any other Item of news would be acceptable. Her earnest request and entreaty Is that you write as soon as possible, and send tho sum specified In a letter sent, well - some time the first of April, I believe, T sign myself. Respectfully, A.M.Q. Her Amanuensis. lAanle (Glidden) Heats, '69,
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<p>Vassar College, Mon. Dec. 4, 1865 My Dear Brother, I received your nice long letter last Friday, and was very much gratified to hear from you. I wrote to you last week on rec't of the dft. you had forwarded to me. I also read a paper Sat. the direction of which looked much as though it might have been written by Mary. Am much obliged for the same, aad for all your kindnesses to me. I don't care about taking the Forts, paper, but if you would send me one once in a...
Show more<p>Vassar College, Mon. Dec. 4, 1865 My Dear Brother, I received your nice long letter last Friday, and was very much gratified to hear from you. I wrote to you last week on rec't of the dft. you had forwarded to me. I also read a paper Sat. the direction of which looked much as though it might have been written by Mary. Am much obliged for the same, aad for all your kindnesses to me. I don't care about taking the Forts, paper, but if you would send me one once in a while, I shall be very willing to accept. You are very kind to me indeed and don't think because I don't say much about it, I do not appreciate it. What I say or write always seems so stiff, that I sometimes think I would do better to leave it unsaid. I will try and keep an account of money, as</p> you wished, drawing from the Bank here. I shall have to see Mr. Vassar, the treasurer about it. I wish you would write a note to him about it} you can send it to me, and I will give it to him. X am afraid he might think there was some mistake in it. You know there are so many girls here, and they've nothing to trust to but appearances. So if you will do that, I will be ever-so-much obliged to you, I went to the city Sat. and came home, nicely tired out. X have a Job on hand X am greatly dreading and that is to have some teeth fixed. They have a dentist come out here every Sat. and I guess I'll take my turn next Sat. The sooner over, the better. X think you have given your boy a beautiful name. I always like "Robert,"— I suppose it is "Bobby" for short—and hope he may prove as Dec. 4, 1865 - 2 good a man as his name-sake. I am sorry to hear that Mary suffered so severely* and very much rejoiced to know she Is improving. The bell has rung, and 1 must go to gymnastics, will finish this evening. I am glad you are getting along nicely with your house, but you must not be in too great a hurry and take your family—ahem—into it before it is sufficiently dry. Better live crowded a little while. I scarcely know what to write to you about, there is nobody here you know any-thing of, but my-self, and I must either talk about that interesting personage, or imagine you know every- body, as well as I do. Guess I'll adopt the latter method as I've no desire to b become egotistical. One of our teachers Dr. Avery, received sad news a few days suice, namely, the death of her father. Ol what a loas it is to lose a father) One never knows how precious the relation is until the dear one has gone, never more to be seen on this earth, never more to mingle in the paths of men. The more I think of our dear father, the more I lament his departure. I, some-times, when I hear other girls speaking of father or mother, and looking forward with such happy anticipations to the time, when they will meet one or both, think it is very hard, that I should have, so early, been deprived of both. But when I think how much better off I am than many a poor orphan, how good God has been to me In giving me, brothers, aunts and many kind friends to care for me, when I so little deserve any, I am rebuked, and ready to fall to the dust with shame for daring to quarrel with such gaacious Providence. Dec. 4# 1365 - 3 The girls sre ell studying, perhaps I should be doing the same. One of them just remarked "Why, Gild, have you got all your lessons for tomorrow11? I guess I will have to look over them a little yet this evening, but there's glenty of time. We are taking pretty long lessons in Cicero now, as we want to finish this oration before Christmas. What do you say to my coming here four years ? I don't know yet how the course will be arranged, but I have a desire to take the regular course. However, I think probably I can accomplish my work in three, and I guess I will be willing to leave school, by that time. Though I am so much accustomed to school-life, X don't know hardly how I'll conduct myself, when I am free from &TAch fetters. I guess I will always stay at "Vassar", and perhaps some-day attain the honor of "lady-principal-ship." No, I have no such ambition, but really. If I ever should teach, I would like to teach here. The teachers all have nice salaries, and don't any of them, teach more than four hours a day. Then Prof. Knapp has a class in German for the teachers so they can pursue that study. Our ink is getting pretty thick, and I cannot see the lines of this paper, so you see I am laboring under difficulties. In two weeks is vacation and the girls all go away. One of my parlor-mates is going to stay. I sm going to spend my time reading, writing, and skating if there is any ice. There is a poor show for it now. The weather is unusually warm. You say yod^eard from Carlos. I wish he would favor me in a like manner. I wrote to him a few days after I first came here, but never a scratch of thepen have I had from him. I think I*U have to do, as I did with you, keep writing until I get some response. I am much pleased to hear the "Spader" is to prove successful, for both of your accounts. I should like to see you all tonight, and the baby; most of all. I am very anxious to get a peep at it. Sallle wrote me it looked just like our mother's babies, fit it looks like Cora or George, I know it is pretty; but I can't say about the rest. Well, I must look at my lessons a little, though I think I've about mastered them. Give love to Mary, Charlie, the baby, and last but not least, in stature or in love, your own self. Wishing you a happy good-night, I remain, Your loving sister Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69, P.S. I will take back what X said in my last, and ask you to write soon, often, and as much as you can. Yours fcc. Annie.
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Vassar College, Jan. 17/69* Dear John, Your letter of Jan. 11th was very welcome indeed* being the first tidings from Portsmouth which X have had for some time. You have probably ere this received my letter written since my return and know of my manner of spending the holidays. I have not heard from Carlos for some time. X am sure I hope Kate is recovering her mental powers, for there can be nothing worse it seems to me than the loss of one's mind. We have had such glorious weather here,...
Show moreVassar College, Jan. 17/69* Dear John, Your letter of Jan. 11th was very welcome indeed* being the first tidings from Portsmouth which X have had for some time. You have probably ere this received my letter written since my return and know of my manner of spending the holidays. I have not heard from Carlos for some time. X am sure I hope Kate is recovering her mental powers, for there can be nothing worse it seems to me than the loss of one's mind. We have had such glorious weather here, the past week, clear and cold. There was first a storm of snow or rather rain and sleet, which covered all the trees and twigs with icej then came the clear, sun shiny days, making the world a perfect blaze of crystals. TMy chum keeps hsr own horse and sleigh, and takes me out riding with her very often. I don't think I shall ever forget a ride we took on one of those crystal days. The road we toofc was lined on either side with trees, which glittered and flashed In every imaginable color, the snow looked like diamond-dust, and the sky was of the most beautiful blue one can conceive. It was, as our German teacher says, "wund ,f. By the way, I want you to revive your know- ledge of German, so that we can read something together. I think I never had a study that I enjoyed so much. We have just begun translating Schiller's William Tell. Last evening we had a social meeting of our class, which was very pleasant, indeed. The meeting was in the Society, which was very prettily decorated and looked home like and pleasant. We had music and Jan. 17, 1869 -2 dancing, and a gypsey who told all of our fortunes. Altogether, the evening was very pleasantly passed. I shall be glad to have you write me from some work of merit, as you spoke ofam certain it will be profitable to us both. Did you evar read Robertson*s Life or Sermons ? I am just reading his life, now, which is very interesting indeed. He was an English minister, a most devoted pure man and his sermons are splendid, so powerful intellectually and filled with so much real Christian heartiness and love. Curtiss is going to lecture in Po'keepsie, one week from next Friday, and I think Z shall make an effort to hear him. On the same evening, our Miss Mitchell lectures before the Society, and unless that is changed I shall be loyal to the home-Interests and go to hear her. I doubt not X shall be quite as much entertained and instructed, for Miss Mitchell knows a great deal, and knows how to tell it; but X have heard so much of the M silver-tongued'• Cur tics, that X am very desirous of hearing him. X am truly glad to learn that George is so well; X hope he will out-grow his troubles, and be a healthy man, yet. X hear that Col. Moore is going to move away from Portsmouth, and also the Robinsons and Riggses. If so that will take away quite a number of the prominent people there. I am quite in doubt as to my studies for the coming term. X suppose however they will be German, Moral Philosophy, fc Kame's Elements of Criticism. Of the first two X am certain, but do not incline strongly to the latter, because all my Jan. 17, 1869 -3 friends of last year's class disliked it so much. It is the study for that term however, so I suppose I must take it. I hope you will write soon again; your letters are most gladly received. Invoking God's blessing upon you, I remain. Your loving sister, Annie M. Glidden. {Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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New York, May, 10, 1867. My dear Brother, It is so long since I have heard from you I have lost the reckoning. I suppose you are thinking the same of me * but, I wrote last. I suppose you are rather surprised to hear from me, from this place. Jennie & Katie came up Friday morning. I returned with them, the same afternoon. They are stopping at a very pleasant private boarding-house, so I am having quite a nice visit with them. We were out, all day yesterday. In the morning, we went to the ...
Show moreNew York, May, 10, 1867. My dear Brother, It is so long since I have heard from you I have lost the reckoning. I suppose you are thinking the same of me * but, I wrote last. I suppose you are rather surprised to hear from me, from this place. Jennie & Katie came up Friday morning. I returned with them, the same afternoon. They are stopping at a very pleasant private boarding-house, so I am having quite a nice visit with them. We were out, all day yesterday. In the morning, we went to the "Academy of Design", and in the afternoon to see the Japanese. Such performances as they had! twisted them-selves into all imaginable and unimaginable positions. It did'nt seem to make any particular difference to them, whether they stood on their heels or head or on some one else's head. This morning we went over to Brooklyn, and heard a most excellent sermon from Mr. Beecher. It was very characteristic. The church was jammed. We just managed to get a back seat. The organ in the church is a very sweet-toned & powerful instrument, and I liked the singing so much. I think It is so much more sensible to have such sing- ing, than it is to hire four professional singers, & have the congregation sit in mute admiration or consternation, whichever the case may be. Tonight we are going to hear Dr. Chapin, up on 43rd street. Dear me! I don't believe I could ever stand it to live here. So many people, it tires me} and such long distances. It takes one an hour to go anywhere. Perhaps I might endure it, if I had a mint of money & could have every luxury, I wanted; but then, I don't Dec* 16, 1866 - 604 know whether I should care for it or not. Well, how about "Nephew No.2"? Has he received a name, as yet? I hope there is a letter for me, at the College, from you. I shall be very busy, when I go back, and, so, cannot write for seme time. So thought I would write today. I have not hoard from any of Aunt Mary's folks for a long time. You must write as soon as you can. I am afraid you can not read this scrawl; but you must excuse it, for I am not accustomed to this kind of a pen. With much love and a prayer for you all, Your loving sister, Annie M* Glidden. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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V.C. Nov. 29, 1868 My dear Brother, I am in debt three letters to you, I believe, and will [?] all of them to the best of my ability. In opening your letter, I dropped the specimen you sent me and was not able to find it again. Those you were to send by mail, I have not received. I just came up from New York last evening where I spent Thanksgiving. Of course there was a great deal to interest me, and as the weather was charming. I had a most delightful time. I am exceedingly desirous of...
Show moreV.C. Nov. 29, 1868 My dear Brother, I am in debt three letters to you, I believe, and will [?] all of them to the best of my ability. In opening your letter, I dropped the specimen you sent me and was not able to find it again. Those you were to send by mail, I have not received. I just came up from New York last evening where I spent Thanksgiving. Of course there was a great deal to interest me, and as the weather was charming. I had a most delightful time. I am exceedingly desirous of coming home this winter. The only thing that hinders me in the least is the distance. The journey will be a longcold tiresome one. I would not dread the inconvenience of the journey at the time so much as the fear that it might make me sick. However, I think that might be avoided by care. I should not like to make the journey alone at that season, nor should I want you or Carlos to come on here at such an inclement time. I might find company part of the way & one of your could meet me in some such arrangement be made. I shall wait anxiously to hear what you think about it. I received a letter from Carlos the same day yours came. He spoke of going to Portsmouth soon. I have been thinking too of some means by which your load could be lightened, and you could again find yourself unencumbered[?] by debt. It seems an almost hopeless task toattempt to rise again with such a load holding you down. You know I have very often said I would do whatever I could to help you and now I am going to verify my assertion. In order not to be too hasty I have waited a week, and my decision is the same as it was the moment I had read your letter. I shall be glad to have you sell my ten lots, take the money & settle up your debts; and I shall consider myself more than repaid if I may feel that I have been a real help to you in your great life-work. I hope you will write me soon again, I send you my best love and prayers and long to see you. Your loving sister, Annie P.S. Please direct Vassar College. Vassar Female College does not exist.
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Vassar College, Jan. 25,/69. My darling Brother, Yours of Jan. 20 came duly to hand and I was most truly glad to receive it. I am glad to be assured of your love and trust, and to know that your feelings towards me were not such as I feared. I understand your feelings towards those you love, as you speak of them, for X feel that they are my own. The power of those X love to hurt me is greater far than their power to anger me. X feel so near to you, to-night, my heart goes out towards you in...
Show moreVassar College, Jan. 25,/69. My darling Brother, Yours of Jan. 20 came duly to hand and I was most truly glad to receive it. I am glad to be assured of your love and trust, and to know that your feelings towards me were not such as I feared. I understand your feelings towards those you love, as you speak of them, for X feel that they are my own. The power of those X love to hurt me is greater far than their power to anger me. X feel so near to you, to-night, my heart goes out towards you in love and thankfulness. X can not find words to express to you, my thoughts It emotions, this evening. Cod knows my thoughts and prayers for you, and mayhap, in some lonely hour, His Spirit may comfort you, by whispering in your ear, of them. Every-thing goes on here about as usual, every day busy, and full of work. We are studying electro-plating in Chemistry, and practicing in the Laboratory plating keys, rings or any little articles we have. The first half-year closes in about two weeks, when we shall have to say good-bye to our Chemistry. We have made an elfort to secure two lectures a week from the Professor, for the rest of the year, which X think he will give us. X expect to go to Po'keepsic next Friday evening to hear Curtiss lecture. We had a very fine lecture, here, last week, from a Naturalist, who has recently returned from a trip through the valley of the Amason and across the Andes, on scientific investigations. His lecture comprised an account of a portion of his trip and of the general features of the country, particular- ising certain portions for more minute description. South America Is Dec. 13, 1868 - 2 certainly a paradise for the Naturalist, for nowhere is Nature so gigantic and grand, or so lavish of verdure. We have been enjoying such glorious weather, the past two weeks. X never saw such beautiful clear days in January. They are splendid for Winter sports, aad the girls all are mak- ing the best of them, sleigh-riding, skating aad sliding down hill, vigor- ously and perseveringly, spite of bumps and bruises. I have done my share of skating, and sleighing, but have not yet participated in the "coast- ing." Our Society of Religious Inquiry, In the College, the object of which is to keep its members Informed as to the general state of Religion throughout the world, had a very interesting meeting last Sunday evening. A paper was read, containing various articles of interest, In regard to both home and foreign missionary work, and quite an interest was created In the College. Yes, my brother, we all can labor for Christ, we all have that glorious privilege, and my highest aim Is to work for and with Him, and my fervent prayer to God is that He will show me where I can do His service best. How little all our life seems, when compared with that great Eternity to which we are fast going. God grant that ours may be an Eternity of Peace, Joy and Love, with Him. W rite to me soon again dear brother and believe me. Your loving Sister, Annie M. Glidden. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, »69,
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V.C. Nov. 22, 1868. My dear Brother, Yours of the 17th is at hand, and I hasten to answer it. I am very sorry indeed that your health is so miserable and most sincerely hope your fears may not be grounded. I could not bear to lose you, now, my brother, end I want you to have many peaceful, if not happy years left. I wish I could be with you to help you, cheer you and comfort you. Z know you must need the tenderest, best of care. I know you must feel your life is very empty at times. Z know...
Show moreV.C. Nov. 22, 1868. My dear Brother, Yours of the 17th is at hand, and I hasten to answer it. I am very sorry indeed that your health is so miserable and most sincerely hope your fears may not be grounded. I could not bear to lose you, now, my brother, end I want you to have many peaceful, if not happy years left. I wish I could be with you to help you, cheer you and comfort you. Z know you must need the tenderest, best of care. I know you must feel your life is very empty at times. Z know how you must miss the dear little prattlers and that you may some times think there is nothing left to live for; but do not give way to those feelings. God may give you many happy years yet; and we must be grateful for those wfce which he gives us, and seek to live them well. We, of course, know not how soon we may be called hence. The best prayer we can make is "Thy will be done", in the world and in our hearts. We cannot pray for life or death, for we know not which is for our good. Do take good care of yourself, for my sake, my dear Brother, and do not, if you can help it, let that hacking cough gain the mastery over you. I have time to write but very little this evening, as it is almost my bed-time. Enclosed you will find some-thing that Z have written, and which I send you, not through any egotism over any supposed or conjectured merit it may have, but because the writing of it has done me good, and Z thought perhaps the reading might benefit you. There Is no sham about it. Z have Nov. 13, 1865 -2 felt every bit of it. I will be obliged if you will return it, after reading it. We bave a few days Holidays this week, in honor of Thanksgiving. At my room-mates invitation I shall spend the time with her, at her home in N. York. I must say good-night, my darling Brother. May the Good Father guide, guard and ever protect thee is the prayer of Your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College, September 28, 1868. My darling Brother I received your letter today, and was glad, so glad to hear from you. You don't know how much I think of you, hope for you, and pray for you. I know I did a selfish thing in taking Carlos from you, but it did not seem to me then as it does now. Though I can not think Carlos could have helped you except in so far as his presence was a help. That i3 now past, and if I did wrong to you in what I did, I ask you to for- give me. Godknows...
Show moreVassar College, September 28, 1868. My darling Brother I received your letter today, and was glad, so glad to hear from you. You don't know how much I think of you, hope for you, and pray for you. I know I did a selfish thing in taking Carlos from you, but it did not seem to me then as it does now. Though I can not think Carlos could have helped you except in so far as his presence was a help. That i3 now past, and if I did wrong to you in what I did, I ask you to for- give me. Godknows I would not add one atom to your sorrow or take a single ray of comfort from you. I mean to be a true, actively loving sister to you, and I want you to look upon me as such and come to me for any- thing I can give or do. Write to me and tell me about yourself, all, or at least, as much as you choose. I know you must be so lonely, but do not be disheartened. You are a young man yet, and there may be a glorious future yet before you, I mean not so much glorious in making for yourself a high position in life and maintaining it, though that indeed is worthy of ambition, as glorious in righteous and holy living in a generous out-pouring of your-self for others. You musttake care of your healths you know the weakness of the family, and must be careful. How is your cough? Where are you living? I want to hear from you often. Write to me frequently, will you not,? I hope to do better by you than I did last year. O John, I feel so anxious for you; Dec. 25, 1865 - 28 you don't know how I long for your success. First, not in your own strength. Look to God, who is the Father of the fatherless. Go to the Saviour, who is ever ready to welcome a repentant one. Seek strength from above. Flee from temptation. Seek the society of those whose influence you know to be good. Strive to avoid everything, that is not pure and true and good. You say "if I fail"—do not fail—keep up strong heart and courage. Remember you have a mother, many near kindred, and nearest of all, three angel children waiting for you. Can you disappoint them? I want you to be assured of my affection, and to know that I shall always - no matter what you do - feel for you a strong sisterly love. I want you to feel that it fc some thing you can depend on - come what will. I hope to hear from you soon and often. I am getting along pretty well, am feeling a little stronger every day. With a prayer for your welfare, here and hereafter, I remain Your sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69, P.S. I don't know that X shall write Mary now. X should feel some-what delicate about it, unless she wrote me first. Annie.
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Vassar College, Jan. 18, 1867. Good-evening to you my dear brother, how is your health this even- ing, and that of your family? I am all ready for tea, but tea will not be ready for me for some fifteen minutes. So X think I can do no better with these few spare moments than devote them to you, although I am not In debt to you, only so far as this) that X think I ought to write you at intervals not too long, whether you respond or not. However, X hope this will not encourage you in your...
Show moreVassar College, Jan. 18, 1867. Good-evening to you my dear brother, how is your health this even- ing, and that of your family? I am all ready for tea, but tea will not be ready for me for some fifteen minutes. So X think I can do no better with these few spare moments than devote them to you, although I am not In debt to you, only so far as this) that X think I ought to write you at intervals not too long, whether you respond or not. However, X hope this will not encourage you in your remissness. I have not heard from a soul in Portsmouth town, for four or five weeks, and I am provoked with all of you. I will not say more of this, but, by way of instituting a beginning to a "coal-of fire-heaping-on-your- head" process, which I intend to continue until you are brought to terms, X send you the enclosed picture, taken, as you will observe, in the great city of Bosting. X should be pleased to know your opinion of it, when you feel disposed to write. We are having some very cold weather now. Today, it was so stormy, we did'nt go to the Observatory to our Astronomy Class, almost an unheardof thing. We are to take observations, as soon as the weather is clear enough. O, if you will look in your "New Encyclopaedia," under Mltchel, Maria, you may find out a little concerning our teacher in Astronomy. X feel a little better disposed towards the inhabitants of Ports- mouth, in general, and the dwellers at Aunt Mary's, in particular, since I received a letter from Sallle, this morning. I havetaken my out-door exer- cise today, and have written my composition, so my mind is comparatively easy, though my Astronomy-problems are yet to be solved. X am going to the French table this evening, and X expect my meals will be a system of torture to me, but it is a good opportunity to learn to "parlea-Fran«ais," so I think I had better improve it. I suppose you will perceive, before this, that the latter part of this was written, and is being written, Saturday morn- ing. I am awaiting now, in anxious expectation, to hear the gladsome tone of the dinner-bell. I am so hungry. I had ever so much fun this morning, out walking. Another young lady and myself, were armed with leggins and over-shoes, and so we went through the deepest snow, we could find, and tumbled about in it as much as we could. Z have not heard from Carlos since my return. Yes, there was a letter awaiting me, on my return, but how long it had been here, I wont pretend to say. We had anticipated the pleasure of a lecture, last evening, from Rev. Mr. Manning of Boston, and, at the appointed time, were all seated, in the chapel awaiting the appearance of the lecturer, when the president of our society appeared upon the stage and announced to us that Mr. Manning had not, as yet arrived. So we were disappointed. I have just come from dinner, and as the clearness of my head was not increased by two cups of chocolate, and, as I want this letter to go by the afternoon's mail, I will say adieu. With many kisses for Robbie, love to Mary and yourself. Your aff. sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College, Jan. 10, 1869. My dear Brother John, I have neglected answering your last letter longer than is my wont, partly from lack of time, in preparing to go away &c. but chiefly because I did not know exactly what to say to you. Your letter surprised and hurt me quite as much, as, judging from your letter, mine angered you. I must have been very unhappy in expressing myself - for I know, or at least unless I am much mistaken in you, I know, did you understand my feelings about...
Show moreVassar College, Jan. 10, 1869. My dear Brother John, I have neglected answering your last letter longer than is my wont, partly from lack of time, in preparing to go away &c. but chiefly because I did not know exactly what to say to you. Your letter surprised and hurt me quite as much, as, judging from your letter, mine angered you. I must have been very unhappy in expressing myself - for I know, or at least unless I am much mistaken in you, I know, did you understand my feelings about the matter, you would not feel towards me as you do now. All that I wanted was to know what was right for me to do, right towards you, and towards myself g it was difficult for me to decide, especially when there was no one near me with whom I could discuss the matter, no one who knew the circumstances. I did not wish to decide blindly. I think it a crime in any one to do so In any matter in which he has a responsibility. There are certainly two sides to any question, and both must be viewed. In this emer- gency, feeling still undecided and troubled about it, I wrote to you. Materially, it seems to make but little difference, as you had already written to me, say- ing you did not need the property, and when I received that letter, I at first wished I had not written the one to you; and yet I should not wish to have credit for generosity that I had not shown. I most sincerely regret that my letter affected you as it did, and if I said any thing untrue or unkind it was unintentional, and I am truly sorry. We are all liable to be mistaken and to look at things in a false light, and I may have done so. I know what you Jan. 10, 1869 -2 thought about me, "O yes Annie can make protestations, but when it comes to any self-sacrifice, she is like every one, not willing to make it." I hope and believe that such is not my character. I do not like to refer to past favors on my part, and thus spoil them by being too conscious of them, but I can not refrain from asking i£ I failed you last summer in your time of need? Did I not in your absence do things for your wife that her own sister failed to do, seeing too the need of them? Bfet enough of this; it is my constant regret that so much of my life has been spent away from my brothers, when I might be helping them. But it seemed unavoidable. When the old home is gone, the father and mother no more upon earth the members of a family quickly scatter; the strong bond between them trembles and quivers and threatens to break, yes, some times is snapped asunder. O my brother let not such be the case with us. Do not let this chill your brotherly affection for me. What- ever you may do or say to me, or think of me, you are always my brother, my dear brother, and I shall always ^hold? , you as such. You may not confide in me or love me, but X shall love you, hope for you, pray for you. X spent part of the Holidays in the College and a part in Utica, with Helen Thomas, one of my College friends. I feel quite rested and ready for work again now. I can not re&liae that 1 am so near through here at the Col- lege. The time will fly quickly now, and June will soon be here. Can I not hope to see you here, too, at that time, my brother? Jan. 10, 1869 -3 I know of nothing else to interest you, so I must say good-bye. Again asking your forgiveness for all my failings, and invoking the Father's care for you, 1 remain, Your loving Sister, Annie. {Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College, May ,1869? , Dear John, This morning we had such an interesting Bible lesson, I must tell you about it. We have been studying about Luther and the Refor- mation, all winter, and are now trying to get at the practical lessons. I was particularly interested this morning because Pro!. Farrer spoke some- what of Independence and as X had thought of that as a subject for my essay I was on the alert to hear what he would have to say about it. He said he would give the distinction...
Show moreVassar College, May ,1869? , Dear John, This morning we had such an interesting Bible lesson, I must tell you about it. We have been studying about Luther and the Refor- mation, all winter, and are now trying to get at the practical lessons. I was particularly interested this morning because Pro!. Farrer spoke some- what of Independence and as X had thought of that as a subject for my essay I was on the alert to hear what he would have to say about it. He said he would give the distinction between Independence, Obedience, Liberty. Where Obedience becomes unnecessary, because our will is with the will of God, there Liberty begins. Liberty grows on the tree Love, Love on the tree Obedience, Obedience on the Tree Fear whose root is a law in the heart of the father. Independence is Satanld, is low; the beasts of the field are independents man must depend, lean, on a Higher One. It may not have been meant so, but we can certainly draw a good figure from the fact that bread, one of the main articles of man«s food grows on^ slender grasses, of which there must be many, together, in order to stand firms and wine, another article of diet on a vine which must have a support. A man without faith is a vine on the ground. Independence is the essential sins Liberty, the highest virtue, what Paul calls the "perfect law of liberty." The text of all this or rather the point of departure was the fourteenth chapter of Romans. I wish you could hear Prof. Farrer talk; he is the most inspiring man I know of. I want you to meet him when you come on. I studied May |1869? , - 2 Chemistry under fefcn the first half of the year, and he is now giving us a course of lectures, one a week, on the History of Chemistry. They are exceedingly interesting. He seems to enter so into the spirit of every period about which he studies, and to live as the intimate friend of every historicaltphart cter in which he becomes interested. But you must be tired of this. In two weeks our vacation begins. I shall have two studies that will continue the remainder of the year; I suppose it will be optional whether I remain in them or not. I have completed my essay and handed It in, but have heard nothing from Prof. Backus about it yet. I have not yet written the Valedictory Address, but mean to be about it, soon.I trust you are well and prospering, my brother. I think of you much and often, and pray the Father to give you j^y and peace in His Love. I grow impatient as the time draws near when X am to see you. I shall be very, very much disappointed if you can not come. But I shall not think of that, but believe you will come, until I hear otherwise. Write to me soon, and believe me, Your loving Sister. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69, p.S. Are you a Free Trader? I am and have been much interested in theFree Trade League Meetings, in N.Y. You know I am studying Political Economy now. Free Trade, or at least a very low tariff on few articles.
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Vassar College, April 16, 1867. My dear Brother, Yours of the sixteenth was received today, also one from Mary, with enclosed picture. Many thanks for the same. "Robbie" looks as if he was quite an armful. Chubby and healthy. Kiss him many times lor me, iI he will accept. I hope he is not refractory about being kissed, for he will have to suffer next summer when I come home. Three of the young ladies went horse-back riding this morning, gallanted by one of our worthy professors. One...
Show moreVassar College, April 16, 1867. My dear Brother, Yours of the sixteenth was received today, also one from Mary, with enclosed picture. Many thanks for the same. "Robbie" looks as if he was quite an armful. Chubby and healthy. Kiss him many times lor me, iI he will accept. I hope he is not refractory about being kissed, for he will have to suffer next summer when I come home. Three of the young ladies went horse-back riding this morning, gallanted by one of our worthy professors. One of my parlor-mates went: she is a very good rider, they created quite a sensation among the students. I heard from Carlos, once since he left you. I hope Jennie will soon recover. It seems she has had quite a serious illness. We are having very warm weather here now. It seems almost like June. However, I think it can not last long. Hope not, anyway. They are getting up various clubs, now, for out-door exercise. They have a floral society, boat-clubs, and base-ball-clubs. I belong to one of the latter, and enjoy it, hugely, I can assure you. Our ground was measured off this morning. We think, after we have practiced a little, we will let the Atlantic Club, play a match with us. Or, it may be, we will consent to play a match with the students from College Hill: but we have not decided yet. I received a letter this morning, from one of my College Hill O. friends, written Sep. 20. You can imagine the freshness of the matter it contained. I suppose the poor girl has long since given up all hopes of ever hearing from me any more. A week from Monday will be Mr. Vassar's birthday, and it is to be a perpetual holiday, in the college. I believe Henry Ward Beecher is to be here. At six o'clock P.M. the students are to meet the Founder, at the gate, conduct him to the entrance, where a song of welcome is to be sung, then we are to have literary exercises, in the chapel, then supper, and after that reception &c., &c. But what am I telling all about it now, for I can do it much better when it is all over. There's the dinner bell, and, as I want to send this out, now I will bid you a hasty adieu. I think I would prefer you to send me the money, and pay as I go. If you will please forward ($40.00) forty dollars, as soon as possible, you will oblige me much. Love to Mary and all friends. Your loving sister Annie. [Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69] P.S. Hav'ent time to read this over. Please excuse mistakes. Annie.
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<p>[Fragment] Vassar College « December 10, 1866. My dear "Bub" I read the letter * and feeling It my bounden duty to give advice when good, I can make it - open your eyes and read - Beware of riding before breakfast - [Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69 ?]</p>
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Vassar College. June 19/74, My dear Frank, I Just got here about one hour ago, and found your letter with check for one hundred dollars ($100££) all right. I have had such a pleasant trip. I cant write it all, will give you the outlines, and fill it in when I see you. I left Portsmouth on the train Monday morning - had to wait at Hamden until 3 P.M. You know what a pleasant place that is - but I had the "End of the World" to read, and so passed the time well. When the train came...
Show moreVassar College. June 19/74, My dear Frank, I Just got here about one hour ago, and found your letter with check for one hundred dollars ($100££) all right. I have had such a pleasant trip. I cant write it all, will give you the outlines, and fill it in when I see you. I left Portsmouth on the train Monday morning - had to wait at Hamden until 3 P.M. You know what a pleasant place that is - but I had the "End of the World" to read, and so passed the time well. When the train came from Cincinnati, I found my friend Miss Birdsall, the one who is going to Europe- so we travelled in company to N.Y. She is excellent company. W e stopped over in Washington Tuesday, and looked around ovsr the public buildings, and spent Wednesday and Thursday running around N.Y. The weather has been very cool - and I am well and happy. I let Miss Birdsall read my address, and she liked it. I guess it will all go off well. I will send it to you, after the reading of it. I do not think I can write you about the hour of the wedding and time of leaving, until I get back to Portsmouth. That will be time enough, won't it. If you leave the card- question to me, I decide not to have any. I will leave it to you about going to the Caves. I should like to go- and believe it would be a pleasant trip. Could L»ee be gone long enough to take the trip ? I am sure we would enjoy such a trip - but do as you think best. Perhaps we can tell better when you come. I cannot write more now, will write again Sunday. Take good care June 19, 1874 - of your-self. With all my love and hope, I am - Your Annie--- (Annie (Glidden) Houts, To Frank (M. Houts,
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<p>V.C. Oct. 11, 1868. My dear Brother, Your very welcome letter was received last week, and I hasten to answer it. I have Just been out walking, the day is glorious. I am now occupying a large nice room, with windows looking North and West, and only have one parlor-mate or rather room-mate, and I enjoy it exceedingly. You must be very lonely. You speak of boarding at the Taylor House. I wish you could be some-where more pleasant. Could'nt you stay at Aunt Mary'...
Show more<p>V.C. Oct. 11, 1868. My dear Brother, Your very welcome letter was received last week, and I hasten to answer it. I have Just been out walking, the day is glorious. I am now occupying a large nice room, with windows looking North and West, and only have one parlor-mate or rather room-mate, and I enjoy it exceedingly. You must be very lonely. You speak of boarding at the Taylor House. I wish you could be some-where more pleasant. Could'nt you stay at Aunt Mary's ? To be sure it is some ways from town, but I think you need exercise of some kind, as your business would lead</p> you to a sedative life, and the walk out and in, evening and morning would do you good. They may go to Scioto Furnace this winter, so you can not stay there. If they do not go, X think they would be glad to have you, for your own sake, and also would be glad of the protecting presence of a man. For they are often timid at night. I just offer It as a suggestion to you. You may not like to do its but don't let any feelings of pride keep you away. Aunt Mary is and always has been a kind friend to us all, and would willingly do what she could for any of us. 1 think it would be so much better for you, to be among friends, where you could have some-thing to interest you, than to be in a hotel, where you must, perforce, be much alone, and dwell on your-self) your trials more than for your good. For, the best of us will be miserable if we think too much of ourselves. We need some-thing, constantly to bring us out of ourselves, to call forth our latent powers for the benefit of Oct. 11. 1868 - 2 those around us. Your letter did me a great deal of good, for It confirmed my previously formed opinion that you were determined to pursue a straight- forward course, in the right direction. May the Father help you and kepp you strong in your purposeJ Your letter made me sad too, for I felt how lonely you must be. But, John, if from this fiery furnace of affliction you come for-oh doubly purified, and from this time hence-forward, lead an upright, honourable, useful Christian life, we ought to thank God for the affliction. I believe you will do it, for I believe that God will "work in you both to will and to do." I was much struck by a sentence in a prayer of one of my friends, here, a few evenings since, and It made me think of you directly. She asked that we "might be willing to have clouds now, that we might at last have eternal sunshine." We can not know what is best, for us and how blessed is the assurance that "He leadeth us". You say in speaking of your trials that you have "greatly sinned and whatever crosses God may bring upon you to endure as atonement fee." Hie expression set me thinking. Does God cause us to suffer, that our suffering may atone for our sins? Has not Christ atoned for us ? and If we look for our anguish to atone for our sin, unless that anguish leads us to Christ, the all-atoning Lamb, we shall dis- cover a sadlfeilstake. "The wages of sin is death"} sin brings with it its inevitable weight of woe and misery. But, as in the body, pain is given us as a warner, some-thing which admonishes us there is some-thing wrong within the body, some disease preying upon our vitals, and aid must be sought to Nov. 15, 1874 - 3 prevent fatal Injury; so, soul-suffering comes to warn us of soul-disease, preying upon the spirit and threatening it with destruction, fatal and final, unless we repair to the great Physician. The agony may be fearful, almost unendurable, but we do not despair of our friends when they are conscious of pain, as we do when a deadly stupor is upon them either with or without the effect of some powerful drug. The act of suffering is an indication of vitality; and Life though it be torture is better than stagna- tion* X shall write to Mary soon, as soon as I can. I do not write many letters now, but take all the time I can get for out-door recreation, and then rest, if there is any left. I have to take good care of my-self, and that seems strange to me. You did not tell me how your cough Is, and how your general health is* Was your house and furniture sold? Is any one living there? You spoke of not having the house left to you. If no one Is taking care of your things, I wish you would take that portrait of mine over to Aunt Mary's. I should like that kept for me. Tell me when you next write, how you feel about going to Aunt Mary's. I want you to do what will be the best for you. I hope to hear from you soon again. I shall write to you frequently. With an earnest, heartfelt prayer that God will keep and protect you, and right. prosper you in your efforts to do Your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glldden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College. April 18,/69. My dear Brother, Your kind letter of April 12th came duly, and was most heartily welcome. I have been waiting anxiously to hear from yourself and Carlos, about my coming back. The considerations which you brought to bear on the subject are much the same as those that had influenced me, and I think I was coming to the same conclusion that you did. I shall wait, however, to hear from Carlos before I finally decide. I know I have spent a considerable part of my life...
Show moreVassar College. April 18,/69. My dear Brother, Your kind letter of April 12th came duly, and was most heartily welcome. I have been waiting anxiously to hear from yourself and Carlos, about my coming back. The considerations which you brought to bear on the subject are much the same as those that had influenced me, and I think I was coming to the same conclusion that you did. I shall wait, however, to hear from Carlos before I finally decide. I know I have spent a considerable part of my life in this kind of living and do not think a much longer part thus spent would be best for me. I too have had visions such as you speak of, of such a home as you describe. The thought of spending another year so far away from you and George Is not easy to bear. But If I do not come back here, I hardly know what I should do with myself. Although I should enjoy visiting &c, in the summer, I doubt not by the time Fall came, I should want to be at some steady, systematic work. While I am far from thinking this the only kind it seems at present the only kind open to me. There certainly Is no place where teaching would be as pleasant and agreeable to me, or where one has more advaatages than here. I some-times am afraid it would be too pleasant. This making up of one's mind is quite a difficult matter; If I could only know what was best for me to do. I hope I will decide aright. I will do the best I can, anyway, and "angels can do no more." I am much obliged for your suggestions. Thoughts some- what similar to those have been in my own mind, and I think I shall get them into shape before long. There is no thought in which the duality of truth is more striking than this one. We are each independent Ik yet each dependent upon every-thing around us. No soul can be alone and yet each sould Is entirely alone in the presence of Its God. That feeling comes over me some-times with a solemnity and awe indescribable. That our "Holy of Holies" is veiled to every eye but God's; that there must come a time when friends, earthly friends can not aid, when our soul must be launched alone into eternity. Who can tell what awaits us? Only Christ can stay the soul in that awful hour. We are enjoying the loveliest Spring weather now. I took quite a long stroll this morning, and enjoyed It immensely, I can assure you. We are having a few days rest from College duties, and several of the students, my room-mate among the number, have gone home. College duties are to be resumed Tuesday morning. If it is pleasant tomorrow morning I think I shall take a horseback ride. I have been out twice this Spring. The time will pass very quickly now until Commencement. I hope your business will be so that you can come. The seniors have vacation from the first of June, to get well rested and prepared for Commencement. I shall probably spend most of the time here, although I may visit my friend Susie Wright, in Newburgh, think most probably I will. I have not heard from Carlos for a week or two, but hope to do so early this week. Last Thursday night we had a wonderful display of Northern Lights. The sky was radiant with rose, purple and greens and the flashes and pulsations of light were magnificent, I never saw any-thlng like it. We have had no Bible class today, and no chapel, and it seems really quite delightful to have the whole day to ours self. I am going to read one of Robertson's sermons this afternoon. They are excellent. Write to me soon again, my brother. I am always so glad to hear from you. I thank you for your advice and the trouble and thought you took to ask the advice of others, whom you trusted as sound in Judgment and interested in me. I cannot say yet what I will do- But I see I have swung round the circle and got back to where I started from and so conclude it is about time to stop. God bless & keep you is the loving prayer of your sister Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar Collage Dec. 20, 1868. My dear Brother Just the day before your last letter came, I sent a letter to you, the contents of which you already know. I kept It one day, hoping to hear from you or Carlos, but, as the time was so near, X sent it off. Your letter came the very next morning telling me that you had arrived at the same dc vision as myself in regard to my coming home. I may go away with a friend who lives in Utica, but it is quite uncertain; and, should I stay here, I do not...
Show moreVassar Collage Dec. 20, 1868. My dear Brother Just the day before your last letter came, I sent a letter to you, the contents of which you already know. I kept It one day, hoping to hear from you or Carlos, but, as the time was so near, X sent it off. Your letter came the very next morning telling me that you had arrived at the same dc vision as myself in regard to my coming home. I may go away with a friend who lives in Utica, but it is quite uncertain; and, should I stay here, I do not anticipate a very dulltime. Several of my friends will remain here during the Holidays and there will be plenty to do, by way of reading, writing fee. to amuse me. I may make a short trip to New York. You have probably received the letter which I wrote to you last Sunday, and know how und ecided I felt about the matter of selling the lots in Milwaukee. X am glad the neces- sity for deciding is removed for the present, for the more X thought of the subject, the more involved it became, and X could not see my way out of it. The time has passed so quickly I can not realise that Christmas Is i indeed here. My room-mate went away Saturday - so I am sole monarch. My room is away from the from the part of the building where most of the students room, so I am very quiet. X am most truly glad to hear you speak so hopefully and determinedly as you do In regard to your future. My earnest prayer is that you may have strength to keep your good resolutions. It is my own strong desire, as you will know to graduate at the end of this year and to do so creditably. I shall be very much pleased indeed to have you come on. I want you to see the College, and I am certain the exercises at that time will he such as will please and interest you exceedingly. We have a very fine class, many of them fine, original thinkers and writers, and I think they will prove them selves such whenever an opportunity is offered. I am very much attached to the class, as a class, and some of its members X number among my particular friends. I sent you a little poem some time ago; if you are through with it, 1 wish you would return it in your next letter. There is a Special object, for which X want it. I hope you will write to me soon again. X am always so glad to hear from you. With my best love and prayers, X am Your loving sister, Annie. ^nnie (Glidden) Houts, <69,
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Vassar College, Nov. 22./66. My Darling Brother, I have been reading over a letter you wrote to me, last year, for want of one of a later date, and I feel as though I must write to you this evening, although I have but a few moments to spare from my studies. Why do you not wHte to me, my dear brother? Are you very busy? Can't you find time to tvrite me a line or two once in a while. You don't know how I want letters from you. I feel tonight that I want to see you so much. You have...
Show moreVassar College, Nov. 22./66. My Darling Brother, I have been reading over a letter you wrote to me, last year, for want of one of a later date, and I feel as though I must write to you this evening, although I have but a few moments to spare from my studies. Why do you not wHte to me, my dear brother? Are you very busy? Can't you find time to tvrite me a line or two once in a while. You don't know how I want letters from you. I feel tonight that I want to see you so much. You have always been such a dear good brother to me, I can never repay you for it. 1 some-times fear you almost think I am indifferent; at least I used to think so last summer. For I never can find words to express my-self when I feel very deeply on any subject. But, believe me, there is an earnest love for you and appreciation of all your goodness to me deep-seated in my heart, though I may not always be able to express the same to you in words. X liave been reading over a letter you wrote to me about a year ago; probably you have torgotten it. It gave me a full account of how to conduct my-self, to bring about the most good to my-self, and to fulfill the ends for which ray Maker has placed me here. It is an excellent letter. I have read it many times this term, and at each perusal it grows better. I heard from Carlos a week or so ago; he said he was very busy, and wrote but a short letter. Mary's letter containing a picture of Robbie has been answered, and I am awaiting her reply. I can well imagine how busy she is with the care of Nov. ZZt 1866 - ?, Robbie, now he is walking. I suppose. How I should like to walk In upon you tonight. Would'nt you be surprised? Agreeably so I hope? John, will you excuse the impoliteness of sending you this letter so awfully blotted, for once? I promise it shall not occur again, I really hav'ent time to rewrite it.What are you doing with yourself this winter? Do you still keep up the "Base Ball"? We had our first snowstorm this year here today. The snow all raelted as it fell. It is now only a few weeks until Christmas. I don't know yet whether I shall stay here or not. Tomorrow evening we are tc have a lecture from a Mr. Plerson of Water!, rd, N.Y. We are to have a covirse this winter of some seven or eight lectures. I think that will be nice, don't you? I think among the lecturers will be Gough, Curtiss, Anna Dickinson, Wendall Phillips on "The L,o3t Arts" and I forget the others. Our gymnasium-hall is complete now and we have practiced in it several times. It is as pleasant as can be, and it»s a pretty sight to see so many rtasooo-girls dressed in the pretty costume, practicing the movements. There are four classes averag^lng about ninety in a class; and we have such a pleasant teacher. I think she is one of the loveliest women I ever saw. I should like to write longer to you, but the study-bell has rung, and if I do write more my lessons will suffer. I know you would'nt like that, so I will bid you good-night. Give much love and many kisses to Mary and Nov. 221 1066 -3 Robbie. Remember me to Mr. Bell's family. Write soon, won't you please ? Your sister with love, Aruii'J. (Annie (Glldden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College, April 20, 1867. My dear Brother, I received yours of April 9, and was delighted to hear from you. I suppose the first and all-important topic is the little new-comer. Poor Robbie's nose is disjointed, but I hope not permanently so. As to the name, I have thought much on it, and held lengthy discussions on the subject with my friends. There is one name I like best of all, first, because it belongs to the handsomest, manliest little fellow I ever saw, secondly because said...
Show moreVassar College, April 20, 1867. My dear Brother, I received yours of April 9, and was delighted to hear from you. I suppose the first and all-important topic is the little new-comer. Poor Robbie's nose is disjointed, but I hope not permanently so. As to the name, I have thought much on it, and held lengthy discussions on the subject with my friends. There is one name I like best of all, first, because it belongs to the handsomest, manliest little fellow I ever saw, secondly because said little fellow is the brother of one of my dearest friends, here, and third because it sounds well "hitched onto" Glidden. I have considered it in all its bearings, nicknames and initials and am fully convinced that it is the name that would suit me best. But, don't by any manner of means, inflict it upon the child, if you don't like it. Perhaps, after this dissertation, you would like to know what it is. "Melville Cramer" it is. "M.C.G." are pretty initials & "Mellie" is a pretty pet name. What say you? I also think "Gordon" is a very pretty name, and "Walter", but, as I have already remarked the first one suits me best. I have heard or seen nothing of Col. McDowell. I suppose he must have come while I was away or more probably not have come at all. I don't think he would have seen me any way, if he had not had a letter of introduction from you. All visitors are required to have a letter of introduction from parents or guardian. I was away a little more than a week, and had a pleasant time with the one exception that I had a bad cold all the time. I have been under Miss Avery's care since my return and am all well now. I visited the sister of my friend Helen Thomas, with Helen. She lives a mile from Burlington, N.J. and that is just about the queerest place I ever saw. It is old, a very ancient place. Every-thing looks sort of "Rip Van Winkllsh". There are very many handsome residences in the environs of the city, if it can be so called, and beautiful drives. There is an Episcopal seminary there for young ladies, "St. Mary's Hall". It is beautifully situated right on the shore of the Deleware, and the grounds are lovely. It seemed so strange to me to see a river without banks on either side. Every one here is busy now preparing for "Founder's Day", one week from next Monday. After that come the preparations for June, Commencement, Society Exhibition, and it makes me groan to think of it. We have been classified again, and I rank as full sophomore, provided I pass an examination in Botany and Physical Geography, before the end of the year, which I shall endeavor tc do. I shall have to cram, as the girls say, some Saturday, and then I think I can wade through it. As to your compliment on my chirography, it is wholly undeserved, a sentiment which I think you will hold, in common with myself, when you cast your eye upon this sheet. It is indeed a good thing to have a clear, plain, good hand. I was some what surprised at your thinking I was improving, for, of late, I have been mourning in secret over my degeneracy, in that respect. You quite encourage me. I have an engagement at eight, and as it is now but five minutes of that time. I must bid you "good-night." I send you a picture of Mr. Vassar for yourself, and one of Miss Avery, which you can keep until I call for it. They are both very good. Give a very great deal of love to Mary, for me, and kiss the little ones. Write as soon as you can. With a kiss and an earnest prayer for your-self. Your loving sis Annie. [Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69] P.S. I did'nt have room for the "tor".
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Vassar College, Thurs. Oct. 17, 1865. My dear Brother, I came in yesterday, from my class, at the time the letters are distributed, and looked anxiously around for one. Not see- ing any, X was just about to "resign my-self to my fate," when I heard my room-mate say "You hateful girl, you, to get three letters." I was quite astonished, myself, especially, when 1 found one was from you. It was quite refreshing to hear from you, and I hope you will favor me often in that way,...
Show moreVassar College, Thurs. Oct. 17, 1865. My dear Brother, I came in yesterday, from my class, at the time the letters are distributed, and looked anxiously around for one. Not see- ing any, X was just about to "resign my-self to my fate," when I heard my room-mate say "You hateful girl, you, to get three letters." I was quite astonished, myself, especially, when 1 found one was from you. It was quite refreshing to hear from you, and I hope you will favor me often in that way, for it will be a great favor to me. You speak of being very anxious to know what year I will enter. That will probably not be known until the catalogue is made out. But I think, if I take the regular course, I am in for three years anyway and maybe four. In Latin, I am reading "Cicero," in Mathe- matics I am in the highest class in the college But don't imagine from that that it is very high, for we are studying Geometry. They will have no juniors nor seniors this year. There goes the dinnerbell and I must leave you.French of course I am beginning, and my other study is English Grammar, not having passed the examination in that. But we have the chance to be examined every Sat. morning and when we get nine, on a scale of ten, we can be excused from the class. X have been to Poughkeepsie but once, since I've been here, and then I had a dress fit and got a few things, managed to spend all my money, any-way, though I didn't get much. But my books have cost quite a little sum. I should say ten or twelve dollars, and I still owe a dollar seventy-five for my French grammar. I'll have to get me a hood for winter, Oct. 11. 1868 - 568 a pair of shoes, and X want to get some delaine and have a warm dressing- gown made to wear evenings, also we want to get an easy chair, lounge, drop-light, and a few other things to make our room look more homelike, and be more comfortable, so the conclusion of this long rigmarole is, that I would like you to send me some money, if you please. We have very good eating here, everything is well-cooked and there is plenty of it. My room- mate is Helen Thomas of Utica. She is a very pleasant girl, and is just aswitty as she can be. She makes fun for all of us; some evenings here, we have some real gay times. She is talking of leaving the room, but I will try and tease her to stay, but if she does go I am going to ask Miss Lyman to let me keep my room alone, but I dont expect she will, for it is a double room. The professors have parts of the building set apart fro themselves, and they are as much to them-selves, as if they were in a private house. Miss Mitchell has charge of the Observatory and teaches Astronomy. The advantages here are so good for that study I think I shall pursue it, though not at present. They have a laboratory and complete apparatus for Chemistry and Natural Philosophy, a fine cabinet for Geology, and a great many stuffed and other specimens for Natural History. Are you staying at Mr. Bell's now? I thought you spoke as though you were. I was very glad to hear he had arrived safely at home. W ell, I don't think 1 can spare any more time from my studies, so I guess I will say good-evening to you. Give my love ever so much to Mary, and keep a good share for your-self. Now do write soon to me. Your aff Nov. 15, 1874 - 569 sister - Annie Friday morning. Dear John, I've nothing more particular to say, but I had a little spare time to write, and so thought I would finish out this page. They have a very good library here, but I dont expect to have much time to read. I will have time vacation. By the way, they are going to char £ ,e seven dollars and a half a week for those who stay here vacation. I have been surprised at myself, how little home-sick I have been, but I guess the secret of it is, I dont have time. I have not seen a paper since here I've been. Johnson and all his cabinet might be assassinated and Washington burned, and I dont believe we would hear of it. A Cin. or Ports, paper, would be very acceptable, if you would send them. The time for rising is six, but we almost always arise at six, so as to have an hour to study before breakfast. That meal is now ready, so I will again say good-bye. Your loving sister, Annie M. Glidden (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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V.C. Dec. 13, 1868. Dear John, It is almost bed-time but I must give you a few words before I shut my eyes. Since writing to you I have heard from Carlos, and, as he may probably have told you, he does not think it best that I should allow you to use my property, to cancel your debts. I am sure I am quite at a loss to know what to do. 1 want to do what is best aad just and for your own and my own good. I must speak plainly, John. The fact of your having a plenty to supply your wants has been...
Show moreV.C. Dec. 13, 1868. Dear John, It is almost bed-time but I must give you a few words before I shut my eyes. Since writing to you I have heard from Carlos, and, as he may probably have told you, he does not think it best that I should allow you to use my property, to cancel your debts. I am sure I am quite at a loss to know what to do. 1 want to do what is best aad just and for your own and my own good. I must speak plainly, John. The fact of your having a plenty to supply your wants has been not a blessing, or at least, if a blessing, has been bent from its purpose, so as to have the influence of a curse upon you. With ability, with a good education, you have let many years of your life go by without improving, merely because you were not spurred on to it, by the pressing wants of present need. As the human soul from its constitution must go down or up, can not remain stationary, you, in not striving to advance, degenerated. Forgive me, dear brother, but I am not sure but it is the best thing for you now to have to struggle against mighty obstacles, to put forth all the energies of your being, and call to your aid the help of our Heavenly Father to enable you to rise supreme above the difficulties that beset your path. Let this determination come into the minutest affairs of your every day life. Even to the matter of paying your debts; I know not, indeed it is quite a question now with me, the more I think of it, whether I would do the right thing by you even, to thus sacrificemy property. 1 would not be selfish, would not withhold it could I be sure it was Sept. 22, 1869 - 2 best. I can not tell what is in the future, what may befall me, and I do not think the property that was earned by the hard labor of my father should be let slip, unless I was perfectly convinced it were right. Furthermore, why, if I have $ 50,000. more or less in the estate, need those lots be sold that are set apart? I really think, John, if you will forgive me for saying so, that what is most lacking in your character. Is a spirit of self-denial, and a determination which will lead you to carry out your good resolutions. I honestly believe that you will come forth from this trial* a stronger and better man, a more noble, self-reliant character, if you stem the surges, and gain the shore, unaided. Yet, Heavenforbid that I should deay the life- boat* if its aid is necessary to uphold your uncertain, failing limbs. Can you not see and comprehend my difficulty. You will not doubt my sincerity and my love for you, & my intention to aid you, will you? The ffcct is, I do not think I ought to decide such a question one way or the other* without a more perfect understanding of the business of the estate* than I now have. In truth, my knowledge of the business is simply, none at all* and I can not intelligently decide aay question with regard to the property unless I do know and understand the situatioa of the money belong- ing to the estate, how it Is invested, the value of the investments &c, fee. Carlos thinks it will be very foolish for me to come home, this winter, and were it not a very special occasioa, I should think so, too, for it is a long, tiresome Journey and* to tell the truth, I caa not bear fatigue as Dec. 13, 1868 - 3 well as X could last summer, or at any time before my sickness. X hare thought the journey might be broken by stopping at Pittsburgh a few days, then, if you meet me there, go on home, come back to Pittsburg in time to rest a few days on the way back fc thus break the journey. College closes one week from next Tuesday. X may have reason to change my plans, but I now think X shall leave here the same day, Ik reach Pittsburgh the next morning. I shall have company. Then if you could come on, and meet me there, fc we leave Pittsburgh so as to get home the last of the week, fc then return to Pittsburgh the last of the next week, fc be ready to come on here the following Tuesday- I will, of course, stop at Alice Hurd Riggs's house, No. 63, Montgomery Avenue, Allegheny City, aad if you can not come on for me, shall probably spend my vacation there. I do not want to have any-thing happen to prevent my return. X believe it would almost break my heart to have to leave the College now, without completing this year, but I am anxious to see you, and will come home if you will meet me in Pittsburgh. I will write you again, before vacation. If X have said aught unjust or unkind, for- give it and believe me, I said it all, only because I felt It was right fc for your own good. May God in Heaven bless fc keep you, is the prayer of Your own Sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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Vassar College. Dec. 16, 1866. My own dear Brother, Your letter was received last Monday, and was the occasion of much serious and some sad thought, especially the question, "Is it a living faith or a dead acquiescence"? But that reflection has occasioned good results: for I do honestly and earnestly, at this very moment, feel more certain that I have a love for fcnd living faith in Christ in my heart; and that I have a stronger desire and purpose, than ever before, to make that...
Show moreVassar College. Dec. 16, 1866. My own dear Brother, Your letter was received last Monday, and was the occasion of much serious and some sad thought, especially the question, "Is it a living faith or a dead acquiescence"? But that reflection has occasioned good results: for I do honestly and earnestly, at this very moment, feel more certain that I have a love for fcnd living faith in Christ in my heart; and that I have a stronger desire and purpose, than ever before, to make that love the guiding star of my life, and to grow more and more each day into a nearer resemblance and closer communion with our loved Saviour. I do not say this merely to satisfy you, nor is it a sudden outburst of religious fervor or seaU but it is my firm conviction, and it is my intention to live up to this conviction; and it is my most earnest prayer to the kind Father, that he will nourish and strengthen within me this germ of holiness, until it shall become a mighty tree, whose fruits, however humble they may be, may yet give nourishment and life to some of the children of this world. I do not mean to be presumptuous, and assert that I am firmly settled and grounded in the faith, so that nothing can shake me, for poor human nature is so weak, that I know not how soon some unlooked-for temptation might assail me in some particularly available point .and the weakness of my boasted strength be revealed. But yet, if I only keep firmly hold of the one idea that Christ is the "Rock of our Salvation" the strength of our strength, we need have no fears as to our remaining firm under any trial. But still, I think the great danger Dec* 16, 1866 - 2 of falling back is not when the great trials comes for then we are apt to be aroused from our lethargy and say, "What does this mean"? "This muSt come from God"; but the difficulty seems to me in bringing our Christianity to bear upon the minute details of daily life. To my mind, the man or woman who is shedding the light of the gospel on his or her daily life, not ostenta- tiously but "doing whatever their hand findeth to do, heartily as to the Lord", is as true, if not a truer Christian, than the one who, In some startling emergency, performs some truly heroic, noble deed. Not that I would under- rate the latter. It is grand, it is glorious, it is inspiring. But the other seems to me more likely to be underrated, and it does not seem to me to require the same fortitude and patient continuance in well-doing to, for instance, die a martyr, and thus in one act gloriously declare one*s love for God, as it does to live the life of a Florence Nightingale, or even one in more ordinary life, always denying oneself, always "bearing one another's burdens, and so ful- filling the law of Christ". I have sometimes thought this was especially so, where one did not seem particularly "called" for any one thing, and in common life the majority are such. The wheels of life go round and round in the same track day after day and the scenes through which we pass vary so little that we are apt to forget that God's is the guiding hand, and that, "wheresoever the Spirit listeth, it goeth." How little real belief there Is in that one doctrine of God's providences. If we really and fully believed it we would spare our- selves much worrying and anxious care for the cares of this world. To how many Nov. 15, 1874 - 3 will the Saviour's remark to Martha apply, "Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things; but one thing is needful"• There is only one thing that is more difficult than living a true Christian life; and that is, attempting to live without Christ in our hearts. And this reminds me of a remark of our Bible-teacher. In speaking of Christ's miracles, he said, "But these healings of diseases of the body are nothing, in comparison to those he works In regenerating a human soul; and further, the greatest miracle Cod caa perform, is wrought when a man or woman lives seven days of a perfectly holy sanctified life, i.e. lives seven days of a life in that manner." But to return to what I was saying; living without Christ is either an unthinking, hastening rush through life's scenes, or the dogmatic, obstinate refusal to see of the fafidel or atheist, much more of the former than of the latteri indeed I think four fifths of the people, who are not Christians, are so because they do not think. The child of God will have as many and it may be more trials and vexations to trouble him than the ungodly man, but he has aa "elder brother" who aever fails to aid him, and if hs only puts his trust in Him, he caa do all things through Christ which strengthened him". I want to make my religion influence me, in every act of my life. The religion that merely makes oae have a solemn countenance and general appearance of gloom Sunday, and allows him to commit all manner of evil deeds during the week is not the kind I wish to gain. But, on the contrary, that kind which, in the language of a minister who preached for us a Sunday Dec. 16, 1866 * 4 or two ago, "shimmers in the closet, sparkles in the prayer-meeting and radiates through the whole life." Pray lor me, my dear brother that I may have more ol the pure Christianity ol our sainted mother. I leel that I have made this quite long enough already, though X hope it may not be tedious. We have had some very cold weather this week, and the result was, good skating Friday and Saturday, Xwas out a little while Sat. marning and enjoyed it. Today we have had a heavy snow-storm. Vacation commences on Friday next. I shall remain here. The girls who came with me will remain also. I heard from Carlos Friday: he spoke ol having visited you. How X wish X could have been with you. I received Lucy's and Ella's cards. I hope you will write to me soon again. Letters will be very acceptable to me in vacation. Give very much love to Mary lor me. Tell her I will write to her belore very long. Just give Robbie a good spanking and many, many kisses lor me. The dear little lellow. How I would love to see himi X sup- pose he talks and walks by this time, does'nt he? I hope you will keep a current record ol all his smart sayings and send them to me. X must bid you good-night. With much love and a prayer lor your temporal and eternal wellare. Your Sister Annie M. Glidden. ,Annie (Glidden) Houts, '69,
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V.C. Feb. 7, 1869. My dear Brother John* I have not heard Irom you for some time, and so have no letter to answer; but I must write you, to-day, for 1 shall be very busy next week, and, probably will not have time to write during the week. Next W ednesday the new term begins and our examinations for this term will be over. I shall keep on with German and take up Calculus and Logic, instead of the Mental Philosophy and Chemistry of this term. Our lectures in Chemistry are to be continued,...
Show moreV.C. Feb. 7, 1869. My dear Brother John* I have not heard Irom you for some time, and so have no letter to answer; but I must write you, to-day, for 1 shall be very busy next week, and, probably will not have time to write during the week. Next W ednesday the new term begins and our examinations for this term will be over. I shall keep on with German and take up Calculus and Logic, instead of the Mental Philosophy and Chemistry of this term. Our lectures in Chemistry are to be continued, weekly, of which X am very glad, for I never enjoyed a study more than I have Chemistry. Our manner of study- ing it has been so interesting* We have a new Elocution teacher, and shall meet her three times a week, probably for exercise in that too oftea neglected branch. I am very glad of an opportunity of Instruction In that respect. To be a good reader is ces 'ainly a most desirable ambition, and one that is now so seldom attained that It is quite an accomplishment. I really am quite delighted with my prospects for this last half of my last year. The studies I know X shall like. I have always wanted to study Calculus and Logic; and German has delighted me from the first day X began it. This is a perfect day, clear and cold, and the atmosphere is so pure. X had a very pleasant walk to church this morning. We have had, so far, a most delightful winter, such clear weather, beautiful moon-light nights. A crust hss frosen on the snow so as to make excellent coasting. Three of us girls went out coasting with Prof, and Mrs. Backus, and enjoyed our selves, grsatly, careering over Feb. 7, 1869 - 2 the icy snow. Two weeks ego I went to hear George William Curtiss lee* ture onPolitlcal Morality", and was so much pleased with the lecture and It the lecturer. I wish you could have heard. I know you would have liked it so much; for it revealed not only a great deal of thought and graceful dic- tion, but a real manly depth of strong, earnest, true principle. It is a lecture that must do good, wherever it Is heard, and I wish it might be delivered before every political body in the Oountry. Two of my class-mates gave me a very pleasant and complete surprise the other day, in the shape of two very pretty little pictures with fancy frames, made by themselves. They are quite an addition to our walls. We had a very good Bmnaon this afternoon, on the character of Peter. Last Sunday, one of the Professors preached a sermon on that subject, extol- ling him as a strong, impulsive man, doing great deeds, both bad and good, and rather excusing his sins, because of his impulsiveness, andattributing all his good deeds to that attribute of his character. Today, the President took up the subject in order to show, that while Peter «s strong, impulsive nature was to be admired, yet it was not from this that his greatness came, but from his principle. It was his principle, his faith that enabled him to follow the bent of his good impulses, and kept him from fulfilling his bad ones. Impulse must be founded on principle, or its possessor will be a changeable, fickle creature, tossed by everyjwrind in the direction in which it blows. A man of principle without impulse is a sailing-vessel, constructed Feb* 7, 1869 -3 perfectly* otherwise, but without sells, s stesmer with no fire in her engine} a man of impulse without principle is that same vessel, fully equipped with sails, or with the fire, yet rudderless, fc hence, at the mercy of every wind and wave. Well my dear brother, it is almost bed-time, and X must say good- night* I trust this will find you well and prospering. Write to me as soon as you can. May God guard and keep you is -he fervent prayer of your loving sister, Annie. (Annie (Glidden) Houts, >69,
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Vassar College, June 18, 1874. My dear Frank, I am enjoying my self very much here - altho* Tuesday evening hangs ominously over my head. I have not read the address in the chapel yet - the seniors had It all day yesterday rehearsing. I do not feel much alarmed as the time draws near. If I only knew more about the essays c 1 the graduating class I should feel better or worse. I should hate to compare unfavorably with them. It will soon be over, any- way - bad or good. I have been to two...
Show moreVassar College, June 18, 1874. My dear Frank, I am enjoying my self very much here - altho* Tuesday evening hangs ominously over my head. I have not read the address in the chapel yet - the seniors had It all day yesterday rehearsing. I do not feel much alarmed as the time draws near. If I only knew more about the essays c 1 the graduating class I should feel better or worse. I should hate to compare unfavorably with them. It will soon be over, any- way - bad or good. I have been to two parties.Friday evening I went to the party given by the Lady Principal to the Seniors - last night to Professor Mitchell's "Dome Party". She gives one every year to all of the studentf and alumnae in her department (the Astronomical) and we take our refresh- ments under the big Telescope - in the dome. She is very bright and we all had a jolly good time. I find myself quite a "some body"— every one who was here when I was seems glad to see me - and it is all very nice- But how I do miss those who were here when I was- and it seems so strange to have such a busy time going on and for me to be so much at leisure for when I was here I was always in the thickest of the fray. I am going out this morning for a walk over the grounds. They are looking very beautiful now. I will tell you now the plan I had partially made out for us- to be married about 10.30 A.M. then have a lunch- and take some kind of convey- Geo. ance for us all- viz- Sarah, Mary,Awhoever comes with you and ourselves- and go to I hil's that afternoon - go from there to the Caves the next day June 18, 1874 - 2 Thursday- stay there until Monday and be back to Portsmouth in time to leave the next Wednesday- The river may be so low by that time we will have to go by rail- but I hope not. With this plan we would have our own train and go all the way by land- but any changes or alterations you may wJsh to make- will be in order. I have just received yours enclosing the letters from Hawe-s and Ballard. Your replies to both parties are all right- I should not want to make any exchange without knowing about the Chicago property- and to sell to Hawes lower than any one else would be a ruinous policy. I am well and happy - and shall be so glad when the time comes for me to see you again. Take good care of your-self and remember* I am always- Your own Annle- (Annie (Glidden) Houts, »69, P.S, The change back to Clncln was all right. It dawned upon me after I had written to you - what you meant. To Frank ,M. Houts j
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