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Griffith, Caroline | from Flora Easton, March 2, 1884

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1884-03-02
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vassar:54185,Folder 69.2; VCL_Letters_Griffith-Caroline_1884-03-02_069_002_016
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1237 Arch Street,
March 2nd 1884.

My Dear Carrie,

I was so glad to receive your letter yesterday; it had seemed so long since I had heard, I was really worried. I am delighted that your [price?] was so highly praised; with whom did you play? I [imagine?] [...] McMillan.

 


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Well, the immortal Thomas left this charming abode this afternoon at three, and is now presumably amusing himself in New York. He did not say a word to Grace before he left but she says he looked at her in a [meaning?] way. I only hope that he will write for if he does not at some time offer himself to

 


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her I shall consider that he has behaved in a very ungentlemanly manner. When he left he said he should write to both of us. He is a perfect enigma but the way he has kissed Grace has been enough to make one sick. I think he feels that she has been flirting with him, and has treated him the

 


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graduated on Friday evening; as soon as the exercises were concluded we came home, and he soon followed and brought us a basket of flowers which he had received for one of his presents. He came in and kissed Grace, giving her the flowers, then he turned to me; I put out my hand and congratulated him, and [would you believe?] it, he

 


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just stooped down and kissed me! After he went Grace said she was very much annoyed at his kissing me because there was not the least occasion for it. I feel just so myself but was ugly enough not to acknowledge it. She feels, as I am sure, that he does not care at all for me but yet fears that he might if thrown in my

 


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just stooped down and kissed me! After he went Grace said she was very much annoyed at his kissing me because there was not the least occasion for it. I feel just so myself but was ugly enough not to acknowledge it. She feels, as I am sure, that he does not care at all for me but yet fears that he might if thrown in my

 


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way. I resolved to say nothing more about it, for fear she [would?] be [jealous?] and that I don’t want. But it has amused me intensely to see how always and undeniably she always has the seat between us. Usually they have been one side of the table and I the other. And if he tried to talk with me, she always had some long discussion to enter upon

 


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with him. Now I beg you to burn this letter as soon as you have finished reading it, for I fear I am a little mean in confiding this even to you, my dear Carrie, but it has seemed as if I must unburden my mind to some one. Annie Cecil is too thoroughly selfish to be seriously attached to anyone but herself, [but] I had always thought Sara was different and cared


 


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a great deal for you. Did you not write of Mrs. [Cantrell’s?] having a baby? I have not been out of the house since Friday; then I did not get home from school until five o’clock, so yesterday spent my time resting and today it has been snowing all day. Does Will [Caldwell?] still spend his Sundays at Vassar, and is Sam studying in Vienna? Is Jessie Smith doing anything at all?


 


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Vassar must be in an entirely different state now from what it was [two?] years ago. With so many new teachers there ought to be new life and activity, but I doubt if it so is in reality. Have you read Mr. Isaacs? I have been looking it over this afternoon and think it the strangest conglomeration I ever came across. The hero seems to think that in

 


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order to carry on an agreeable conversation he must be constantly asking questions, and you may think I write my letters on the same plan. It is late, so I will stop and [...] go to bed. [Twice?] January I have not been in bed before twelve, and usually it has been after one.

With a great deal of love Your friend
Flo.

 


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